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I went round my grandparents house today. My tummy is so bloated at the moment so I spent ages this morning trying to find a baggy outfit that wouldn't raise suspicion (they know I'm trying so it wouldn't take a genius to work it out). When I got there they were all congratulating me on my pregnancy!! My Blooming mother... I can't trust her to keep anything to herself! Grrrrrrr I'm so cross
I feel even more worried about miscarrying now. :(
DS 1 was a honeymoon oops lol (best mistake ever!), we tried for 1 year for DS 2 but I didn't realize I had a luteal phase defect-after getting on progesterone we got pregnant on the first try, this pregnancy took 6 months to conceive while on progesterone. Fingers crossed for us!
I feel the same way! I make the mistake of telling my mom since I found out on her birthday. Well now she keeps reminding me that my dad still doesn't know and smiling at me strangely. I know shes going to spill the beans! I thought it would be nice to talk to her about it but now I'm worried of disappointing her if I miscarry.
Smiley I agree. I wanted my mum to know so she could support me. I mean if anything bad was to happen I would want her to know anyway. But I didn't tell her so she could blab it to everyone. Not only am I scared of losing this one but it has also robbed me of the joy of telling them myself WHEN I was more comfortable that everything was ok with the baby.
No, I certainly don't think this means you're having another boy. DH and I were just talking in the car yesterday the usual about how we don't even assume there is a possibility this could be a girl. I then went on to say that the only thing different this time was that it took us a while to conceive and our boys were first month (with like 10 attempts that month haha). I started listing off everyone we knew with babies, and everyone that got pregnant right away had a boy, and the others that took a few months had girls. That got me wondering if it was just coincidence or actually something to it. I know atomic says that decreased fertility seems to sway pink.. but that would also count for luteal phase defect like you and I both had.. so I still think there is a shot for both of us just because of the defect alone! (that being said I still can't fathom that my body could produce a girl, so I still assume boy!)
I definitely think this looks promising for you then! I had no idea I had a LPD until we started trying so I would have been in the same situation as your DS2 if it wasn't for me decided to chart. I never got it corrected, I just moved O earlier with lunaception by a few days and that's the month we conceived - CD18 O (I always have 28 day cycles). I have no idea if this even helps our chances, but I was just curious to hear everyones past experiences!
3boys I know how you feel my mother is the same she blabed to pretty much everyone and when I mean everyone even our nosey neighbors!!!!! I was astonished and really pissed at her but I felt bad couldn't tell her off to much she was so excited lol..
I had a question for you ladies I'm planning on booking an early scan once I get to England, would you guys now how accurate it is finding gender out at 16 weeks the place I found offer gender scan fr 16-24 weeks.. But I wasn't sure how reliable it was or should I wait for 17 and a bit weeks? Lol would that make a huge difference?? I just don't wanna have to go to the scan and not be told for whatever reason.