April/May/June 14 swayers...

:welcome: blue

welcome Blue :D

Welcome Blue. I'm currently in a unexpected 2ww but hoping for a boy. Good luck with your sway and take my pink baby dust xx

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Welcome blue bonnet! We can always use more mamas in here! We are having a ball chatting it up while we wait/plan.

Ill admit, I am goofily worried about something. I spend so much time on here guessing at nubs (and sometimes secretly guessing at ramzi method, although I know it's never as "certain")...I can't figure out how we will manage to be team green next time. I really, really want a surprise baby. But I'll basically have to avoid all early sonograms (to avoid ramzi thoughts and nub thoughts) and then look away in all later sonograms. And I just don't know I can handle not seeing baby for 20 weeks until the anatomy scan. :( Plus, I have this blood clotting issue that means they usually do more sonograms than usual. Bah. I kinda wish I hadn't gotten so skilled at picking out nubs. Lol. Now I feel like ill "know" right away. My only solution is to call at 10 weeks preggo and ask for an NT scan the following week, so it would be too early for a guess. The trick is to not go insane for those 10 weeks!! We have seen all of our babies several times by then in the past.

I'd like to go team green if I get a BFP next week. Hubby wants to find out regardless so if it is a boy we can be ready whereas I just think we could buy a few neutral outfits as we have lots of pink stuff from the girls

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With each of my pregnancies I've wanted to hold out but never had the willpower. I'd love this one to be a surprise being our last baby. I would just be worried about gender disappointment :( Very recently I re-read my online mother's due in group and can't believe how devastated I was upon finding out I was baking another girl. If it comes to that, I don't want to be going through that after I have bub. I have a history of depression.

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Boys I have a history of depression so I am worried about GD. Luckily I was fine with DD2 but I was devastated with DD1 but came round to it pretty quickly but how she was born left me feeling like a failure and I suffered PND for a few weeks after.
I think if next one is a girl, I'll not be disappointed. We have gone from only wanting one following DD1 birth to 3 following DD2 but that no. 3 scares me, boy or girl, we'll be outnumbered by LO's!
I have been spooked by a few recent sways/scans who were so sure they'd got their GD and are so sad about it not. We'll just have to remember we're making it more favourable for babies overall as I think the HE diet is better anyway and all the supps will be good for them anyway.
But I'm totally ready to be freaked out by boy bits everytime I change him!

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I'm pretty sure I had PND as well. When DD#2 would wake through the night for a feed my ex would often find me crying well after the feed was finished. No reason to be crying. I even cried while still in hospital with DD#2. Every time my ex went to leave.

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Thanks ladies..... It sucks but it is what it is. I just tolerate her the best I can.

Hotdogz, lol sorry your mil is crazy, my mother is, I had to tell her to stop acting like a 5 y/o last week.

Rosie, I'm sorry you don't like the school that sucks, like daisy said, we only want the best for our children. Here's an idea, not sure if this will work for you but hey maybe it will. My closest friend whose son is autistic felt the same way. What she did was got him diagnosed, asked a few specialists what all services he would need, which was pretty much everything. She then took all the information to the SSI (?) office (I think that's what it's called, where mentally or physically disabled people can get assistance with out it being disability). She then searched our area for the best programs found apartments in that area. She was able to get financial assistance for him from the SSI office and she used that to move their family to a better neighborhood where he gets all the therapy and etc he needs free through the school. They even come out to the house after school if they feel like he needs more help. It's a really great school. I am not sure if that will help in any way but that's what she did.

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So with the SSI I was under the impression you had to apply for disability to get that. We applied for disability with DS1 and got turned down. Maybe there is another way to go about it??

Welcome Blue!!

Hotdogz- I understand your worries! It is easy for me not to get caught up in nubs because I never get an ultrasound before 20 weeks unless I pay extra. I did get one last time to date and it was in the ramzi time period but she never told me how she took the picture so I couldn't guess from it.

Dreamin- feeling anything symptoms wise yet that may lead you to believe you will get your bfp??

As for me, I am still sick but on the mend. Still much to sick for the gym so I am trying to figure out if I can still get enough exercise time in before ttc.