September TTC Boy Chit Chat and Such Thread

Lola I replied on your other thread in more detail, but obviously ... big ol' hugs to you. I'm not going to sugar coat it, 'cause it flat out bites :( I asked you a bunch of Qs on the other thread.

Flava hun don't you dare feel like you've talked about this too much!!! That's what the point is here! It's what this is supposed to be chit-chat about! Talk about it! All the time! So anyhow I would have said the same as everyone else, BD again, so I'm happy to see you did. Don't fret about the timing with the new +opk (weird though since you had a neg yesterday? did you not hold pee long enough?) all that says to me is you're not too late, and that's a great thing!

ITA with Begonia, Flava....you are not too late, maybe right on O tonight!

You think because of the low count was the m/c? But why? Sperms are not healthy if the numbers are low? I have no clue? Can they tell you that about the test ? If the sperms are healthy or not?

begonia-thanks:kiss:I did not have a -opk yesterday it was this morning .I did not hold pee for long I think. Then I did the TBM (just because the stip from the CB monitor was so dark)
But after the neg. I was holding it for a long time and got another smiley. So third day now ! And this is why Im angry that we did not wait till nigh that would have been a 1 day abstinence and not just half. I would have waited if the first test was a plus!:hair:

Lola -can't do another one tonight because I don't want another 12 hour in between only ...

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Originally Posted by Flava

You think because of the low count was the m/c? But why? Sperms are not healthy if the numbers are low? I have no clue? Can they tell you that about the test ? If the sperms are healthy or not?

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I am worried they are messed up also. I don't know. They don't test the sperm for being chomosomally abnormal, just the count and motility and if there is infection or something. The only result in was the count, which my doctor felt the need to tell me about right away. She said the motility looked ok from what she could tell, but they didn't have all of the numbers in yet. She said they test the blood cell counts or something to see if infection is there.

Flava, I guess just wait and see if you got pg?

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Originally Posted by LolaInLove

Flava, I guess just wait and see if you got pg?

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Yeah there is nothing else to do I guess. It's just so crazy I tell others to wait 2 days and the I go and a half day!
But i only did that because last night failed and my other try was 3 days ago now...

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Hey girls help me!!
Last night was nothing and I cried half of the night:sad: DH just couldn't do it first and the when he finally did something it was to quick and nothing made it inside...(well he was helping himself)
So I had this perfect time and no try basically ...Im so sad:tissue:
Now we have only 1 try 2-3 days before O and that's it! I hope I don't get a BFP out of this because Im thinking it would be a girl for sure!
All my girls where 1 try baby's .
DH says to do again today but then that's just 1 day apart not 2 so the count would be low, right? And it may be late anyway my temps is up today so I guess I already O'd? Still have some O pains. And peak monitor but no clue about opk because I have no more test so I suppose to go out and get some for 30$ :mad:.
Anyway WTH should I do? Im just so sad and hate this whole damn ttc crap!!

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Flava, I'm sorry it didn't work out last night! If you haven't O'ed yet, I think you should go ahead and BD tonight. I concieved my son doing it every night for 6 days straight, so you can definitely get a boy doing it every 24 hrs! If you think you have already O'ed, though, maybe you should hold off so you don't hit O+12.
If nothing works, then you will be with me next month! Don't worry!

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Lola -can't do another one tonight because I don't want another 12 hour in between only ...

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But remember it's 'your' sperm count which matters and DTD again tonight just adds to what you already put up there this afternoon!

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Originally Posted by LolaInLove

So, the SA results are in. I am devastated, needless to say. I wrote a whole post about it asking for advice, but a normal count is 40-60 million and his is below 2 million. SADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

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Oh no Lola!! I haven't seen you other post. What did the doctor suggest to bring it up? Is there something you can do? Remember, he HAS gotten you pregnant before, so keep that in mind. I wish I could help you! :(