I have no clue Lassie but all I would say is that at that stage girly bits and boy bits look pretty much identical so try not to worry too much - easier said than done I know!!
I'm having a tough day today with gd, I keep thinking I am fine with another boy and it doesn't matter that I won't have a daughter but then I have days like today and I just feel sad. I think about all the experiences I won't ever have, won't ever know what my daughter would look like. I even toy with the idea of having another baby in the future but I know that wouldn't be a good thing. I know that if it was another boy the gd would be unbearable and it just wouldn't be fair.
I seem to see little girls with one or two brothers everywhere, and although I don't begrudge their mums I do feel so envious and think 'why couldn't have that?'. Then I feel like a horrible person for not just being happy with being lucky enough to have three children.
I thought once I found out for definite one way or another I would stop obsessing but I'm still not, even with the pretty much 100% definite boy scan that I had there is a part of me thinking maybe they got it wrong. I keep searching around online for boy scans that turned out to be a girl but I know that at this stage it is very unlikely for the scan to be wrong. Even my friend said the techs at the hospital I had my scan have been known to be wrong, but I think that was quite a few years ago and it sounds like they have told people girl when it was actually a boy and not the other way round. The tech was so thorough and lovely, and although she said she couldn't ever say 100% she did say she would be extremely surprised if she was wrong and it was a girl.
Can someone invite a special pill please that takes all our gd craziness away?!
Also, I'd love to know what Atomic makes of the stats on our group. I just don't get it! Surely in a sample of random people there should be a more even spread of girls vs boys even without the swaying. It isn't even like we all did the same sway, we had our variations on it and the ones that seem to have got their dg didn't really sway at all.
Maybe my dh was right and I should have just dropped all the sway stuff and concentrated on getting pregnant, maybe then I would have got my little girl. :(
