Originally Posted by
nuthinbutpink
I don't need an "easy read". I could read what you wrote before perfectly fine.
She has zero tact.
You have gender desire. So does she.
She got what she wanted which stings but you can't be upset with her because she suffers from infertility and that is difficult to deal with. I'm sure she was jealous of you conceiving on your own the first try and cried about that too. Not your fault of course and sounds like you do have empathy and tact.
You need to tell her that when she says things a certain way it hurts your feelings. Or just stay away from her.
If you do have a girl next, you'll have a pp and loads of people will be jealous of your family.
The way you feel and the friend that you have are both things the majority of us have felt or dealt with. It's hard. That's why we have this site and a place to talk this through. You asked for advice, right?
