Originally Posted by
crazyladyneedsababy
Im not finding out this time because its my last and ive never experienced the whole its a boy, its a girl thing. I found out with both boys and never had GD with DS1 but had it terrible with DS2. I feel so bad about it, I love him so much and Im hoping that makes me realise how in the scale of things gender is not the bee all and end all iykwim? I don't want to go through my whole pregnancy disappointed and crying again, I just want to enjoy it and find out in my own time after the birth what im having. The only time I may find out is if I get a good nub shot at my 12 week scan and it looks girly as I would hate to go the whole pregnancy thinking it was a girl when infact its a boy, then I think I would be disappointed.
with DS2, I did know the gender but my dr announced it as he was coming out. I had a section and he came out peeing (all over the dr) and he shouted 'yup, its definitely a boy lol' xxx