I do think IUI sways blue by circumventing the vaginal environment all together and dumping a bunch of precapacitated sperm directly into the uterus.
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I do think IUI sways blue by circumventing the vaginal environment all together and dumping a bunch of precapacitated sperm directly into the uterus.
Hi Atomic, I have finally paid for dream membership - I still couldn't work out how to pay by visa so finally managed to get my husbands paypal details. do I ask questions here or is there a private msg that I ask specific questions? I will post questions here but if u prefer to reply via pirvate msg, pls do so:
Trying to conceive a gril in about 8 days but have not stuck to diet at all in last few weeks.
1. What is the best food/supps I can have leading up to attempt in 8 days?
I plan to skip breakfast each day and eat very little.
2. DH is 40 so is it best to do FR or abstain and what is the miminum time for FR?
3. as we r both 40 and want to get preg soon - can we do more than one attempt and does it matter what days?
4. anything else I can do for the next 8 days that would sway?
thank you so much
Thank you!
I answer q's in the Dream Members section first so if you need a quick response it's best to post in there.
1)With that quick a turnaround I would just do antihistamine starting either when you see any EWCM or 5 days before you expect ovulation, whichever comes first. I think the hormonal supps will only delay ovulation without any benefit for swaying.
Re diet, don't cut back too far, you will delay ovulation. Stick within the limits of the LE Diet, altho you might want to aim for the lower limits for these 8 days.
There are no magic foods, but if you dropped meat it may help. I would give DH soymilk daily if he's willing to drink it and some peppermint tea. You can drink some aspartame, I'm not convinced it does much but 2-3 servings a day is the safe level
2)FR would be better than abstain for a 40 year old. 7 days release before attempt.
3)OR, a better option would be for you guys to do regular release every 2-4 days with one attempt. This will put you in with a good chance of pink but still maintains decent odds of conception.
4)If you were able to lose just a smidge of weight it may help, doesn't need to be a lot, I only lost 3 lbs.
sorry, one more question.
I was hoping to ovulate in a female moon sign this month but looks like it will be in a male moon sign - I previously missed a total of over 12 months waiting for female moon sign - was really convinced of this through ingender - I still can't help but think it is really important. I have consulted with well respected astrologers over the last couple of years and they swear by it saying it has great success. This is very different to biorhythms - astrologers don't work with biorythims and most don't even know what they are. I understand that bios were thought up by a patient of Freud , however, i think he was also a physican and mathmetician. anyway I don't put too much stock in bios but am a bit hung up on moon signs - but don't want to miss another month because of this - what does yr research say about this?
Thanks x
Yes exactly. I now believe due to the stats and our results, that it's the one attempt that seems to be strongly swaying much more reliably than anything having to do with frequency patterns, so I think it best for anyone who may not be able to do frequency and/or to conceive using one attempt WITH frequency, to drop pink frequency patterns and do regular release every 2-4 days and keep the one attempt. It's totally possible to get pg with one attempt provided that you aren't reducing sperm numbers too far with frequency.
Just to clarify on the biorhythms, yes, the guy who made them up was a mathematician but he was still mentally ill and based the number on 28 day cycles because he thought that all women had 28 day cycles. Biorhythms have been debunked in 134 studies.
RE astrology, nothing I say is going to talk you out of using them if you are convinced about them. But science indicates that gender swaying works not because of magic or mysticism, it's because cues from your environment "tell" your body that a boy or a girl has a better chance of survival to adulthood and passing down their genes to future generations. If a person didn't have enough resources in your environment to optimize survival for a boy one week, it makes no sense that their body would conceive one based on the constellations in the sky a day or a week later.
I will say, and I don't mean this to be harsh but more as a wake up call, that I think it's a HUGE mistake to give up years out of your fertile window and it makes me really sad that a year has gone by that you're never going to have back again. I beg you to rethink that tactic because you are going to be out of your fertile years faster than you even think possible and I don't want you to regret missed opportunities, because if you don't get pg you have no chance of your desired gender.
biorhythms theory for me said - boy! I was in full moon = boy, Chinese calendar said boy, and I ovulated on the right side = boy, Ramaz theory was in the middle and closer to right side - boy. It's fun when you are pregnant to think about these fun things of what the baby maybe in the weeks to finding out. I would not based on when I was going to get pregnant on any of this! It wasn't true for me at all & I'm having a girl!
Hi Atomic, I haven't been on here for a while - have not had success conceiving at all in fact I am quite worried as for the last 3 cycles have completely changed from what there were - I used to get a lot of fertile mucus including EWCM for about 4-6 days prior to O - but the last 3 cycles I have had a little bit for about half a day and then nothing and no other ovulation signs. I hope I haven't missed the boat and can no longer conceive? I am so angry with myself that I wasted so much time following the moon signs - I wish I had come to this site from the start. I will be 41 in about 6 months - do you think I can no longer conceive naturally? Thanks very much
I got my daughter at 41 1/2 so it is possible for at least some of us, but the odds are dropping fast with every month that passes by. We need to be ready to catch "the golden egg" and in with a good attempt every month.
You can def. get pg with little to no visible CM - there is still some up inside.
Tell me what all you're doing and then I can help you tweak it for best odds of conception but still swaying pink.