Sex question for girl moms...ignore if TMI bothers you!

Wow lots of responses here! I do know that I did O each time we conceived our boys. Our plan will be different this time as we try for a sweet baby girl.

yes this is a great thread! I am going to link it in the Complete Index and in the Orgasm Essay (boy if I had a nickel for every time I wrote that, I would not be a millionaire! :))

Hmmm.wasnt "taking care of business" myself first conception but did have a big O before with both.dd# 1 we had just got married 6 months prior so dtd lots & position for both was from behind.dd#2 was a failed sway but I do remember using the good old power tool at naptime the week of O in addition to have a big O during our attempts.lol

I don't "go" easy at all, so I probably didn't have much of an "oreo" (as we call it here. hahaha ) with either girls.

Helpful thread...add "oreos" to my game plan for boy sway. ;-)

I didn't "o" when I conceived all of my boys. It just rarely happens for me :/

Always o, four girls. Yep, I beat the odds, haha.

This is a very interesting read!! When we conceived our first DS we were on honeymoon and, sorry for the indelicate wording lol, "at it like rabbits"!! I would have Oed super duper easily either with DH or by myself and always Oed during sex. With DS2 I was well rested and therefore my sex drive was still quite high, I find that when I'm tired the last thing on my mind is have the big O either with DH or without! We dtd every day or every second day when ttc DS2 and I Oed 9 times out of 10. Now we are approaching sway time later this year and DS2 is sleeping terribly and DTD is so not a priority! We have actually only DTD 3 times this YEAR!!!! I would often just sort DH out by other means but couldn't be bothered with him reciprocating, that would be precious sleep time wasted lol!! I think I have had the big O a handful of times this year, every time was by myself though. DH is less than impressed but my sex drive definitely seems to be linked to sleep and diet - I'm tired and slightly under nourished (compared to what I was before anyway) so fingers crossed for some pink later this year!!

I have never Oed during sex. I just cannot, I need a little extra help. ;-) hehe. I have always been someone to "help myself" when DH isn't around or isn't interested.
With my first son, concieved with my ex-DH, I was unsatisfied in the relationship, he was very emotionally abusive and I was always stressed and depressed. I never Oed with him because he did not take the time and I am 99% sure I did not O when I conceived my first son.
With my second son, I was 3 months into the relationship with my DH and we were happy and going at it like rabbits. He was ALWAYS taking the time to get me off and I am 99% sure I DID O with the conception of my second son.

Maybe the stress swayed blue for my first (does stress sway blue???)??

It depends on the type of stress. If it's out of your control and you feel victimized, it can actually sway pink (and this is one thing we have good science backing up) but with exceptions, as you know!

None of these things are 100% anyway, we just have these threads to look for overall trends! :)