Husband involvement

I like the HE as tbh it's healthier than what I normally eat so I'm happy to change that aspect but I am concerned about how much a boy will change aspects of our lives. We've lived in a world dominated by pink and having 2 we have had everything to accommodate a baby girl so having a boy would be a big change. That and it seems more acceptable for girls to be tomboy but boys not to like girl stuff. My nephew is the fourth child after 3 girls and he loves dressing up in dresses and playing with dolls.

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The world is changing and gender roles are not as black and white these days. Most boys at nursery play with prams and dolls. Maybe not the same way as girls but they still enjoy playing with them! And the shoppingn experience will be fun when you get your boy as it'll open up a whole new world of colours and items!!! Xx

Thanks Mulberry. I keep saying I want 4 but I don't think I do, well pregnancies that is. Selfishly I want to enjoy my mid-thirties with a career and enjoy seeing my kids grow rather than be getting up with a small baby my cut off is March 2015. I don't want to fall pregnant after that and tbh I'd be happy the 2 girls.
I hope they are as I think a boy in this household would have no choice but be a pawn in his sisters games. My nephew is lush but I know each child is different so we'll see. Plus there is going to be a bigger age gap between DD2 & LO.

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They're going to be quite a bit older than him so will most likely mother him but hopefully engage in his games as opposed to the other way round! Who knows whatever happens your children will be so loved :) that's all any child can ask for! Xx

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Originally Posted by Mulberry Smurf

I have read information to say that sodium does away blue and know my diet was very salty so it seemed to ring true. There have been studies where timing and diet did have an impact on the percentage of girls born - I don't know why it would actually work tbh but it's just something I've read!
After this weekend away from my boys I don't think swaying is for me anymore tbh. I think I am complete with my family for now. Who knows that the future holds but I just want to hold my boys and enjoy them. Good luck to everyone ttc pink or blue xxx

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Well, I've researched it for ages and I am of the opinion that neither timing nor sodium is the way to go for blue sways. :)

I'm well aware of the studies done and the diets themselves DO sway because they have different protein, cal, fat, and nutrients overall. Just because they fudge around with minerals at the same time does not mean that minerals are what is swaying.