Ah, interesting Lilith.
Even though I don't really believe in the chinese calendar and such things I checked it and april was a pink month for me :-)
Ah, interesting Lilith.
Even though I don't really believe in the chinese calendar and such things I checked it and april was a pink month for me :-)
I am saying we have really no clue what all sways or how much (and it may vary by individual anyway), and it is VERY possible that people are skipping months when they would have gotten a girl, in order to "perfect" their sway and inadverently skip a month they'd have conceived a daughter in favor of conceiving a boy.Quote:
Originally Posted by dreamingofwin
Thank you, but just to clarify that's not what I'm talking about in this thread. i am saying, we can't see whether we are more boy or girl friendly in any given month, and it may very well be the case that our condition or fertility was lower in Month A than in Month B. But people get so overly focused in on sway tactics (some of which do absolutely nothing) that they can't see the forest for the trees and skip Month A because they didn't do frequency or antihistamine or exercise, etc etc etc. But Month A may have been the absolute best month you ever had to TTC a girl, you just can't know for sure. So I am loathe to start having people skip months because there is NEVER the ideal month, and the people who are the most dedicated to getting everything perfect are oftentimes the ones who have opposites anyway due to the Mary-Martha stuff. I just really really don't want people letting months go by if things are anything less than ideal.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilithWiser1979
I do not believe in the Chinese Gender Calendar and the link Lilith posted had nothing whatsoever to do with the Chinese Gender calendar.Quote:
Originally Posted by Marika