I know a real variety but quite a few with 2 or 3 boys
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I know a real variety but quite a few with 2 or 3 boys
Oh dear God it all makes sense now!
I have always been a no-nonsense, take charge, don't put up with nothing kinda person. The natural leader person who was class rep, president of the student council. And my partner is quiet, arty, doesn't like confrontation while I'm all out there - arms flailing and shrieking like a banshee! My OH makes fun of how uptight I am and how intolerant I get.. O_O And I am totally obsessive - I stood for 3 hours pushing a DvD in and out of our telly to get it to work because i rented the dvd and there was no way in HELL i was NOT gonna watch it... My OH gave up after 15 minutes!
So basically, mama needs to take one hell of a chill pill and a big deep breath.. count to ten!!!! More yoga and meditation for me (I do yoga purely for relaxation, non muscle building.. helps me chill out when I go OTT with stress over my life, which isn't actually stressful at all!)
Glad this thread has been bumped up! First time
I'm seeing it, such great info atomic! And rings VERY True for me. Both in respect to when I conceived my DS and then later on, my DD.
Before I conceive my DS I was teaching ( so in a position of authority), and constantly
Tackling situations at work.
And as atomic said, I was very swaycessed researching about my girl sway, but I took a long break from it and
conceived a girl. I still did a strict sway but I knew so much that I didn't have to think about it much and just had fun with it all.
This time ( don't know the gender yet), I had a very laid back attitude and was doing a lot to promote relaxation anyway, while still having a pretty darn good sway too I think. Haha. We'll see, only time
Will tell, but either way, regardless, I fully 100% agree with low T is very girl
Friendly! :)
This is really interesting to me. Pretty much everything you said about Blue Swayers, Atomic, fit me to a T. I feel unable to succeed so much of the time, I'm very submissive/apathetic so as to avoid conflict. I'd rather everyone else be happy (and by extension happy with me), rather than competing for my way. I'm just not very competative at all!
(The upside of low testosterone is that I have great skin, no acne ever!)
Maybe I need to find some video games to play to up my competative drive.
I think that is a very good idea (the video games!!)
Interesting! I find myself mixed. I'm deffinatly a person who gets tunnel vision ( and goes down rabbit holes)
Same time I get overwhelmed and feel like I can't win. Like this just won't happen for me I'm asking for too much. I tend to worry.
Wonder what course is best for me. I'm trying to focus more on doing things in our home and feeling accomplished however, is this harmful to my PINK sway?
I think this is one of those things that you shouldn't overthink. Just avoid taking on big new exciting projects and competitive type things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alicewonder
I'm so glad I read this. At first I thought, nah that's not me. But the more I dwell on it, the more I think it's completely true! :( I have been looking at swaying as this big project (without meaning to) with the baby girl as the prize. I was tackling it in my usual manner, full force planning mode. I bet my T levels are through the roof. I've only conceived two boys so far but I'm pretty certain I would be on my way to a third if I had kept up in this manner. Now that I'm aware of how to not go about it, I think I have a better shot. And I am a totally competitive, confrontational person. I don't take crap from nobody. Ughhhh. Well it looks like I will most certainly be purchasing a swaying plan, because all this planning is not good for me.
It was really funny back on IG, sometimes people would get into these huge debates about the DUMBEST stuff and it was like 95% boy moms. The girl moms are too smart to get into it! :p
thankyou!! I can be pretty fiery sometimes and my OH and little boy are both 'hot heads' and can be hard work .... so I need to learn to be a bit calmer and to not yell as much!... deep breaths!!