aww *hugs*
that little boy obviously wanted you to be his mummy very much
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aww *hugs*
that little boy obviously wanted you to be his mummy very much
Oh, so sorry you didn't hear what you wanted but as previously stated your boys will be so lucky to have that brotherly bond. I completely agree you grieve for the baby girl you haven't got, you don't feel sad for the lovely boy you'll have. I really hope you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy, lots of love, xx
HI hunny i know when i checked my biorythm it was a slight boy lean but my dh was a strong girl, baby was concieved in a new moon not sure what sign though, it was 8th april if that helps at all?Quote:
Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac
I havent got round to posting my sway yet but i deffinetley will, i will probably do it tommorow.
Thank you so much everybody for all your kind words and support, it is nice to know i am not goin through this alone. Dh just got back from work and i told him and he is very low, i think hes trying to keep it from me but i know him. So so glad baby is healthy and i am so grateful for that, time is a healer and im sure as the weeks go by it will get easier.
I have already been online and spent a small fortune on baby things for him, cheered me up a little
lol
xx
oh hun, im sorry that you didnt hear the words you were so hoping for. I know that disapointment and i completely agree that you aren't sad for the gorgeous little boy that you are going to have, but just sad that the chance of having a girl has gone. I wish i could give you a big hug. The bond that boys have is fab though and i do so love watching my boys play together, that surely a third boy would only add to that wonderful relationship. Your boys will probably love having another boy - makes their football games etc in the garden more fun. Each time i have hoped for a girl, but got two boys and they really are the best thing to happen to me (im sure you agree with your gorgeous boys). Im now 11 weeks with our third child and i have followed your story feeling very similar emotions and hopes to you - im hoping girl again, but i think its another boy and, like you, that will take time to get use to. Take it slowly, buy your little boy gorgeous new things so its fun for you, and im sure when you hold that little guy your heart will melt. I wish you every happiness in the world. x
Hi Dreamer, congrats on your little boy! I just want to say i know exactly how you're feeling right now, im currently 24 weeks pregnant with my 3rd boy and ive known since 16 weeks. May i say, we too swayed hard for pink and i was totally devestated and heart broken when i found out, i felt guilty because i knew my baby was healthy and soo cute but i just couldnt be happy at that time. I cried and was angry but i promise you those feelings fade away with time, as the weeks go by it gets easier and easier. I kept it a secret from my dh until the 20 week scan as i knew how i would react and i didnt want him to see me so upset, by the time our 20 week scan came the news was much easier to hear and although we were both a bit gutted it could have been worse. Anyway, sorry for babbling on, just wanted to let you know you're not alone and we will love our boys more than anything :-) x x
Thank you so much three gorgeous pickles and petal your words bring much needeed comfort at this time, i really do appreciate it. It means so much that i can come on here and not feel judged and be able to express my true feelings
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I'm so sorry you didn't hear "Girl":( Our third little boy is seriously the most lovable, sweet, angel boy and I don't know what I would do without him. My heart still aches for a little girl but knowing how much I love my little guys makes it a bit easier to think about me having a fourth boy. (((Big hugs Mama))) Is this your last baby? I hope you can have another chance in the future:HH:
We said it was our last but dh just said to me he will try for one more ! Not ready to think about that yet but its nice to know the dreams not over.
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Our third was our last too - there's nothing wrong with changing your plans in the future if you both feel you'd like to! More hugs x
That is great that your husband is open to another child. At least there is that option for you to try again if you desire. My husband said three is our max whatever the sex of this one.