i have my 3 boys and would love the one girl :) :) :) :) if we have pink next that will be it for us :) although never say never....lol
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i have my 3 boys and would love the one girl :) :) :) :) if we have pink next that will be it for us :) although never say never....lol
I have always wanted:DS::DS::DD::DD: In no particular order. After DS2, though, I thought for sure I'd only have a family of boys. Thank goodness our sway worked with DD; now, just hoping a sway will work for one more DD so we can be done :)
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Well, I've always wanted two of each in no paticular order. We have DS1, DS2, DS3, DD1, DD2 so I got one extra fella! But he's such a sweetie and I wouldn't trade him for the world!
Its interesting how so many want the :DS: (s) first! I always liked boys who had older sisters because they seemed to relate to girls well... I didn't think about it too much though with DS just wanted a healthy baby, but when I think about it now I always liked the idea of :DD: :DD: s because I wanted a sister so badly. Maybe someday we'll have another :DD:? yikes!
Growing up I wanted GGG (just like I had)... Now I have DS, so now my dream is BG! Lol
I think having an "ideal" is what brings us all to forums like this (LOL). It's hard to live up to the fantasy . . . in any event, I think BBGG or GGBB is best. At the outset, however, I think I wanted 3 with a mixture of gender. Ideally probably GBB. It was only after having 2 boys that I realized how nice it can be for a child to have a same-gender sibling close in age. Now I really would love to achieve that BBGG, but am happy to report that after years of obsession, I think I'm over "it" and would be fine with BBGB :)
2+1 whatevr gender
I always wanted 5 or 6 children and I didn't have a strong gender preference, I did think there would be at least one girl in there though. I rem. when I was pg with DS 2, seeing a funny sign that read, "There's a special place in heaven for a mother of 4 boys" and actually thinking, "oh, that wouldn't be so bad, it would be fun!"...but then the very next second I thought, "no, I do want at least one daughter"!! Little did I know that someday I would actually OWN that sign!!!
I did want a boy when I had DS 1, had no pref. with DS 2, and I am very thankful that I did get to experience pregnancy and birth without gender disappointment...my heart aches for people who have a strong pref. from their first child. :(
I desperately wanted (and still kinda do) a big brother. I used to have dreams where it turned out my dad had had a secret kid and he came back and found us!!Quote:
Originally Posted by zanacal
Before we had kids I wanted :DS::DD::DS::DD: or :DS::DD::DD::DD: something about the older brother to protect kind of thing. But I wanted boy first, then a girl second.
After girl #1 I was desperate for a boy...in any order I didn't care!! My ideal changed with each pregnancy to always end in a boy. Now after finally laying my EGD to rest....
I would honestly be happy with :DD::DD::DD::DD::DD::DD: and I think another girl would just fit in better...don't get me wrong I wouldn't be disappointed to hear boy....but for the first time EVER, I want another girl. And I finally feel at peace!! It's so nice finally.