Thinking of you tarasue. So glad your not in the waiting stage any more.
Take care:)
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Thinking of you tarasue. So glad your not in the waiting stage any more.
Take care:)
Thank you dear ladies for sharing your stories. I'm wiping my tears as I read along, every story is heart breaking!
Hi ladies. Yesterday on my birthday I went for my 12 week scan and was pretty excited. We had already seen the HB at 6 weeks, I hadn't had cramping or bleeding and I was finally starting to feel a bit better. I told the Dr. that I hated the part right before the ultrasound and he told me I had nothing to worry about. Then he started the scan and said, actually I'm wrong this doesn't look good, the baby stopped growing. I could tell he was right because it was just bobbing in the sac not moving. I asked him if he could tell when it happened and he said sometime since the New Year. Then we went back to his desk and he told me he would do a D&C since there would probably be a lot of blood at this late stage. He said it wasn't urgent but suggested I go to the hospital that day or the next. Since my husband had to be out of town the next day we went straight to the hospital.
At the hospital I got an appt pretty quickly. I tried to keep it together for everyone and was very happy to be asleep for the procedure. When I woke up I felt great (later learned they had given me oxycontin to help the muscles contract and I think that is why). I then spent about 3 hrs recovering; drinking lots of water eating a little something, standing up, etc. I felt the worst about 2 hrs in. Then my husband picked me up and that evening we actually went out for a nice dinner since it was planned and we already had a babysitter. I found sitting fine but don't think I could have handled anything physically strenuous right away.
Having my boys was also a great help. We did have to tell our older son, "I said the baby was sick and they had to take it out of mommy's stomach" and my son asked why couldn't they just fix it and put it back in which I thought was very sweet.
My husband and I both feel ready to TTC again but really hope we don't have to go through this experience again. I feel so sorry that any women has to go through this.
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Hi Junie, I'm sorry you had to go through this. Hope you recover quickly, both physically and emotionally xoxoxo
Junie- you are such an amazing woman! I am heartbroken for you, and I pray you don't have to go through this again! I am so glad you have a good support system, and you have a great plan!
I am keeping you in my prayers!
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Junie, how heart breaking, I am so sorry for your loss. HUGS.
Oh no. I am so sorry.
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