What do you think of my sway??

I dunno?? I never thought about it. I think because I always got up and peed after. It took me three months to conceive both of my boys and I had to lay with my hips in the air. I never tracked ovulation then? I ovulate normally now, so I am guessing I ovulated normally then???

You ALWAYS got up immediately EVERY time you had sex, daily, for years? Never once fell asleep after sex? Even so you should have gotten pregnant then. If you were gettting regular AFs you were most likely Oing regularly. Were either you or DH super thin/fat/exercising a lot/on meds/very unhealthy during college?

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Originally Posted by maudster

I have neglected to say that my DH side of the family is almost all boys in like 3 generations. There is only one girl per generation and the one for "my" generation was just born to my SIL. Does this really affect me? My IL's generation all stopped at 2 kids, so who would have known what happened with their 3rd? This will be my 3rd….

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Gender isn't genetic in that way (while there are some genetic components involved such as height and muscle mass, it is NOT that anyone is making more X or more Y!) and NO it does not affect you. :)

Your body has NO CLUE about generations or what your SIL did or didn't have. Your body knows the food going down your throat, your overall fertility and stress levels, etc.

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Originally Posted by maidentomother

You ALWAYS got up immediately EVERY time you had sex, daily, for years? Never once fell asleep after sex? Even so you should have gotten pregnant then. If you were gettting regular AFs you were most likely Oing regularly. Were either you or DH super thin/fat/exercising a lot/on meds/very unhealthy during college?

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As a general rule I agree with this but I have to say I've been seeing enough people not getting pg doing immediate J and D even after dropping all other sway tactics, I am starting to wonder if this may not be the case for some people.

I was super thin, but had regular periods…I was on migraine meds. But yes, I did get up every time after J&D. When I first started having sex it stung really bad if he would release inside of me so I would get up and rinse myself at the beginning of the relationship, after about a year it stopped. I still got up and peed because my friend told me that is how you avoid a UTI. And they SUCK so I didn't want one. I also can't stand t have his "juices" on me. Unless I am trying to get pregnant, I still to this day get up and pee and wipe myself well after BD.

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Gender isn't genetic in that way (while there are some genetic components involved such as height and muscle mass, it is NOT that anyone is making more X or more Y!) and NO it does not affect you. :)

Your body has NO CLUE about generations or what your SIL did or didn't have. Your body knows the food going down your throat, your overall fertility and stress levels, etc.

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SO GLAD to hear this. I didn't think it could, but my husbands side of the family swears I can't have a girl because my SIL already had the only one for our generation. Fingers crossed I prove them wrong!!

Start my supplements tomorrow…YAY!!!

I am still surprised but if you were that religious about it, I guess it must have worked! So no J&D for you.

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Originally Posted by maudster

SO GLAD to hear this. I didn't think it could, but my husbands side of the family swears I can't have a girl because my SIL already had the only one for our generation. Fingers crossed I prove them wrong!!

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LMK if you want a more thorough explanation. This is one of my personal pet peeves because people told me a bunch of similar nonsense too. :) "we don't make girls in our family" Um, yes, yes you do.

I think I will do laying for 5 minutes after and see if it works. I am supposed to start today, still waiting for AF to start supplements, tested to make sure and BFN. So, she should arrive today and I will start the supplements and continue diet and exercise.