Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
The old school sway advice approached swaying as "do these 10 things and you are guaranteed a baby of your desired gender" but that isn't the way it really works. I honesty CAN'T give you a list like that because there are people who could do all those things and then be smoking a pack a day and still get girls because it isn't that list of 10 things that really works, it is improving your condition and fertility as a whole both for you and for DH and together for you as a couple.
All that having been said if you do these things we are getting best results with them:
Eat a nutrient dense diet with more animal fats than vegetable ones, eat 3 meals a day and 2-5 snacks, protein and carbs at every meal and snacks.
Take a prenatal or good multivitamin without a bunch of megadoses or herbs in them, and the same for your husband, plus some fish oil or DHA Husband can take carnitine and that may help.
If you are underweight gain up to 10-15 lbs, if normal weight gain up to 3-5 lbs, if overweight gain nothing up to 3 lbs.
Do musclebuilding exercise but do not overtrain. no more than 45 min at once, 4-5 days a week tops.
Get lots of rest
If you have lots of natural CM that's great, if not use Preseed.
Avoid things that decline your fertility for either you or DH or together as a couple. This includes things like smoking, excessive exercise, excessive crash dieting, biking/jogging by DH, tight underwear, excessive heat, and things like baking soda douche that actually wash away your body's natural CM. Hving your husband release regularly, every 2-4 days, can help. We believe that having regular unprotected sex also helps sway blue by exposing you to the hormones in your husband's semen but I understand that you are probably not going to be willing to do that because it goes against shettles. REgular orgasms for you (2x a week and then one with your attempts if possible) may help a little.
Have more than one attempt in that fertile window. If you can't let go of Shettles that's fine, wait till pos OPK or day before O.
Anyone else, am I missing anything?