Atomic, I'm freaking out...

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

It takes fully fertile couples doing nothing to sway and everything to get pregnant an average of 3-6 months to conceive.

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Thanks....I'll talk to him tonight and hoping I can convince him. Atomic, just out of curiosity....I got pg with both DD's first cycle (although I was younger), but did notice that I didn't have CM this month. Could it be from not exercising and adding in Diet Cokes & wine, since I usually don't drink them? Also kept away from foods with potassium like bananas, tomatoes, etc. Just curious since my BD timing was good, I'm pretty confident I did actually O this month, and really thought I had a good shot. Wondering what could have kept me from getting pg.

Sometimes it is just not the month. Not the right egg, not the right sperm, they didn't manage to find each other, something goes wrong during fertilization or soon after that - the miracle is not when it doesn't happen on the first try, but that it happens as often as it does since literally millions of things have to go exactly right to make a new little human.

Usually even when there is no CM that you see, you have some up inside where you can't see. This is normally only a problem for people who are anorexics or on strong fertility meds.

Thanks, Atomic...for everything! Going to have the talk tonight, hoping I can come back next week with another month to go...