Ksmom-it sounds like you must of misunderstood me. I didnt say dont drink coffee.
I only said" Maybe" try the opposite since she said it herself that when she got pregnant with her son she was drinking lots of coffee. What a coincidence when I conceived my son coffee was involved too.
You and atomic even said it that you havent found that research yet and is only a speculation that it sways girls. How could she suggest to drink coffee that it helps and sways girls.
She said her opinion and I shared mine. It happend that they were opposite opinions and thats how this all started.
She felt a certain way in which it was not even my intention and she started going over board. I understand where you coming from but dont "speculate" that I was doing this intentionally. Dont try to make it seem like I am horrible person and that I am just going after her just to disagree. That is not true.

