Just thought I would update this, in case anyone is interested. I had my DD evaluated for sensory disorders. We saw a specialist (the only doctor in our area who is able to diagnose spectrum disorders, etc.) and she said that my daughter is just a "spirited child". She does have a few sensory tendencies, but nothing to put her on the spectrum. We are going to an OT to get some ideas of activites to keep her busy and happy so she won't keep destroying my house. :)