Melissalynay...my hubby would totally use that car analogy too! I'm so sorry about your m/c :( I've had 3 and ALWAYS wonder if those were girls. ALWAYS. It doesn't make me more sad to lose them...it just makes me wonder. I'd just like to verify I can produce a vagina :)
I understand, I see that you gotten your BFP with the same EDD as the one I just lost. Congrats and hope this time your DH knocked the balls off.....LOL:wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by KnockYourBallsOff
This was my first lost so I will probably always wonder, especially if I have another boy. But with that being said I have heard that most not all miscarriages are boys, so maybe that was my fourth boy and now I will have a girl. Who knows anymore on anything. Luckily my hubby is on board to keep trying until I get a girl. We call it Duggaring it out.....lol But I am sure I will stop at this last one I don't think my nerves can handle anymore.
Melissa...I just replied...where it go? Let me know if you get it privately or something?
It's funny - for lack of a much better word - that I'm in the opposite boat right now. All of my friends that are due this year are having boys. 1 had a boy earlier in the year, 2 just had boys (both have a girl first) and 2 more are due with boys. I am literally almost the only the one (with 2 exceptions) out of ALL of my friends/social circle, that doesn't have a boy. It's like the universe is mocking me by making me surrounded by friends that have them.
I too feel like great, now did I miss the "boy" wave again? Because that's what it feels like.
I am so tired of waking up every day feeling like a cement brick in the middle of my chest. I feel like this is just never going to go away until I have a son. And the idea of getting pregnant a 3rd time just chance is scares the living hell out of me. I am nowhere near there right now.
I am in a "boy" wave here and it SUCKS because I obviously missed it! I had 3 friends pg with me, all had 2DD like me, ALL got DS. And another gal with 2DD that DH works with just announced her 3rd is a DS. Unbelievable. Three other friends with PP were expecting their 3rd (loads of people here have 3) and all are having boys. This is where I do wonder about swaying**... I swayed my ... off. Odds are at most those gals with 2DD did timing. And yet they get DS. Not sure why that is.
**I should clarify I believe there is merit to swaying. I don't think it doesn't work at all, I'm just not sure how much of an influence it really does have.
I totally get it envisioned and begonia! This is SO hard :(
I didn't get your reply privately either. HUH!! That is just crazy. I am glad to know that there is atleast a boy wave somewhere because it is not around me...LOL!
Well let's just keep FX y'all get to join in the girl wave around you! I know it's cheesy but on the hard days I just thank God I got to be on the baby wave at all, KWIM? :)
Y'all! TWO more girls announcements in the past 2 days. Seriously?!!!!!! Ugh. Had my 6 week 4 day u/s today and all is well :) Just FYI. So glad I have you ladies!
KYBO I'm so glad the baby is looking good so far :) Sorry you're having to deal with more girl announcements though... FX you get to be one of them soon hun.