10DPO - BFN :sad::sad::sad::sad::sad::sad:
Am really getting dishearted,Im dying for a BFP, I never wanted anything so bad in a long long time.
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10DPO - BFN :sad::sad::sad::sad::sad::sad:
Am really getting dishearted,Im dying for a BFP, I never wanted anything so bad in a long long time.
Well, I am out again. My AF was a day late, so even with the bfn, I was really keeping my hopes up. I know it takes a while sometimes, I just didn't expect it for me. Does anyone have any views on FR? We did FR for the last two tries and got negatives.... Not sure if it is to blame or not. Fingers crossed for the rest of you.
bfn 10 dpo....hubby wanted me to wait til tomorrow to test....wish I woulda listened lol. Still crampy in the mornings which is not normal for me at all. Hoping hoping hoping....
Sorry itester, I always want everyone to get their bfp! I told the hubby most people take a few tries to get pregnant but not us, so just hoping it will be the same as usual with one or two cycles. This is our first cycle to actually attempt and been swaying a while. He really has this gut feeling that it worked and he's always right. So here's hoping! Good luck everyone!!!!
I took a regular test yesterday at an estimated 13 dpo in the afternoon and got a BFN. Like you pooh, hubby told me not to test and stick with our original plan of waiting until Monday, which is when I expect AF. I am not too discouraged though. I still have two more early detection tests to use and all hope exists until AF shows her ugly face!
Good luck ladies!
I really truly dont understand ladies,isnt it the hcg that brings out all the preggo symptoms?, well, Im feeling fully preggo,gagged over the sink while poas,couldnt spray perfume coz gagged over the smells,even the pillow smelled funny tonight. My uterus is twinging and pinching and pulling and I already can feel it expand,nipples r super super sensitive got an immediate flashback to the pain they used to inflict upon me while breastfeeding,my sleeping patterns changed.
Soooo why hasnt the hcg been detectable on the stupid tests yet :( :( :(
Its 5:45 am here now,11DPO, BFN with FMU.
IVe been really hopefull,but am soooo discouraged after taking more than 20 BFN tests in one week.
Good luck my sweet ladies,keeping fingers crossed,although for me,Im starting to think maybe its all in my head.
I TTC'ed for 6 months last year and I was sure I was pregnant every month! I think sometimes when we are TTC the mind plays tricks and your body does things it normally doesn't....or we notice things we normally wouldn't. Good luck!
Wow,really creepy what our bodies can do,starting to feel dilusional.ugh....Quote:
Originally Posted by Princess of Pink
Im sipping on some diet sprite at 6 am to calm my nausea,and I smell metal,I smell everything around me,including my armpits,lmao,to check where its coming from,and turns out the sprite in the cup smells like metal to me, and then I have another sip,and my mouth feels all bitter and sour and metallicy as well.
This wait is sooooo hard,so hard to live in limbo.
Life feels sooo weird when u r in the 2ww,u feel like u r not living life,u r actually passing it by,u look at other people who look free,but yet u r in ur own little bubble constrained by pregnancy tests,symptom analyzing,and plain old misery.U c nothing else other than ur uterus,u constantly think and dwell on when ull c ur BFP,and nothing else matters or interests u,u just wanna be PREGNANT.
Sorry for the long talk,but I had to rent a bit......sigh
Was doing grocery shopping,yet analyzing every single twinge I felt,I started panicking that I might be feeling some af cramps and actually teared up in the deli section.The start of ur 2ww u start hopeful and positive,last 3 days in 2ww are horrid,coz u feel its ur only window and u just pray for af not to show up.
Ive taken 4 tests since I woke up today,all stark white BFN, I mean if Im preggo,wouldnt I at least get a faint positive ,what do u think ladies,dont u think 11 dpo should produce at least a faint BFP?
U know how many pregnant women Ive seen today,and it was within 2 hours,I even counted them,Ive seen 15, all waddling gleeful and joyfull,I was soooo envious,couldnt help but churn and die on the inside.......:sigh:
Hello ladies I really understand the agony of the 2WW. I should be joining you in the next few days as I got my opk+ this morning. Finally on cd20 and I took Clomid too, so much for it regulating my cycle!! Now just have seduce dh again tonight....mwahaha!!!
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Bfn 12dpo. Spotted once at work at 2am today. Was hoping implantation bleed. But I've never done that that I can remember in 5 other pregnancies. Been cramping since Thursday day 8. That's not normal for me in pregnancy but I've also NEVER cramped like this before af either. Got a headache and backache this am like I'm gonna start but no more spotting in 14 hours. Wth! I'm so confused
If by some chance it is implantation spotting, you won't get a BFP for a day or 2. Fingers crossed for you!
OMG, I have exactly the same symptoms like u just minus spotting.Quote:
Originally Posted by pooh_ob
Tested today 12 dpo BFN :(
But have an excrusiating headache, backpain, sciatia like pains, crampy and I feel as if AF could be coming. I have been cramping and feeling heavy doen there for the entire 2ww, very unusual for me, will wait and c, but im not very positive anymore.
I feel like my body has been beaten with a metal rod.
AF plz dont show.... Praying hard for a bfp, but I think AF is coming soon full throttle
And forgot to mention, Im running a low grade fever of 37.4 celsius, 99.32 fahrenheit,dont know if this means something....
And not nausea per say,but a general yuck feeling,no appetite. Before AF I eat loads and loads.....
GOING CRAAAAZY, ugh,I swear,I promise myself,IF,God forbid,Idont get my BFP this month,second month Im NOT NOT NOT testing untill 14 DPO.
Im sick of BFNs
I think i might have tested positive today. Not getting up my hopes yet because I am not even sure if the line is really there or just wishful thinking. I feel very sick so can't say if I am experiencing early pregnancy symptoms or if it's just the cold. I guess I'll find out tomorrow. I tried to take a photo of the test but the second line is not visible on it :sigh:.
My uterus really really feels pregnant, I mean after 2 kiddos, u know ur body, ans it feels sooo heavy and stretchy and pully and going upwards towards my belly button.
Def not af type of stuff
oh ladies hope to here some nice bfp's soon!
good luck!
Is this what I think it is? What's your vote?
Attachment 9216
Trying not to get my hopes up too soon...
Nahjah, HUGE CONGRATS, i can see it :). Ohh that's so exciting, I wish this is your sticky bean!!!:cheerteam:
Nahjah! That is definitely a line! Congratulations!!!
I think I might be back in here today. I had a +OPK yesterday morning so we BD last night. My temp dropped a little this morning - lowest it's been so far this month, but not by much at all - does the drop have to be significant for ovulation to occur? This month my temps have overall been higher than last month, so I feel like I won't notice much of a difference when they jump above coverline after O since my pre-O temps will be right around coverline... Does anyone who temps know if it's a problem if you don't see a drastic high-low pattern before and after O? I'll have to wait until tomorrow morning to see if my temp drops even lower but I would suspect O being today due to the +opk 12 hours ago already...
Anyways, congrats Nahjah! Exciting to see more BFP's!
Pumpkin2011 your FF chart looks so similar to how mine is going! Happy to see others who charts don't have drastic different temperatures. Crossing my fingers it was a BFP you saw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks MSBLAKELY. I wanted to answer your question about temps earlier today but my family came over to visit.
The temps don't need to have drastic different levels that doesn't mean anything. My coverline is higher than usual this time and I had the same thoughts you are having right now even though I knew better. Atomic even says a change in temps to the previous cycles sways pink no matter if they are higher or lower than usual so let's hope this is what is happening to us ;).
Do you have a link to your chart? Would love to take a look at it.
Yaaaay,congrats to Nahjah and pumpkin,FINALLY,february has some BFPs ;)
Praying for sticky sticky beans xoxo
As for me,my lower tummy feels rock hard and very uncomfortable,tummy feels like a drum,with a pinching pulling below my belly button,its starting to bother and frustrate me really.
On top of that,seems im dealing sciatia,had bad bad sciatia with all my pregnancies,but starting sooo early on is weird,im wondering if this could be a symptom or just coincidence,hmmmm,
Will c if AF shows up tomorrow ( hoping NOT), I have no more pregnancy tests,and dont have a penny to spare to buy more,hubby is gonna butcher me with a pregnancy test if I do,lmao
So Im gonna play the waiting game,if hopefully AF will be late,then after a couple of days ill get my blood drawn.
My neighbour delivered a lovely baby boy last week,and I remember she was 1 week late for AF,but not one pregnancy test worked for her urine,it was the blood test that showed high hcg,but negative stark white pee sticks,hmmmmm,leaves me hopefull
Thanks ladies! I am cautiously excited. With the IUD removal I am a little uneasy and will probably test again in a few days.
I am having pain in my right side and a little in my cervix and bottom. I am not spotting or anything, but I don't feel all that great. I am probably psyching myself out, but anyone know what you felt when you knew something wasn't right?
A lady at my job just miscarried at 6 weeks last week, so might be a bit paranoid. When do you know something is wrong?
Nahjah- I miscarried in January. I started spotting on Dec 23, but my nurse said that some brown spotting was normal. But then the spotting increased and by New Year's Day it was getting heavier and had turned bright red. I went in for an ultrasound on 1/2 and found that the baby had stopped living a week earlier.
As for knowing when something is wrong... I'm not sure what to tell you. I believed for the first several days of spotting that everything would be all right. But by New Year's Eve, I was losing hope. The day before New Year's Eve, I was sitting in church and praying about it and felt to pray that the Lord's will be done, not mine. It hurt my heart so very much to pray for that, but I knew that ultimately the Lord's will would be done, whether I was on board with it or not. So I needed to turn my heart to Him and accept His will and ask for His help through the trial.
I don't know if you're a spiritual person or not, but this was my experience with "knowing".
Keep thinking and believing positive things. I figure it's better to enjoy the pregnancy and be excited for it, rather than live in fear.
You've made a great point squamgirl. I am a spiritual person. And I believe it is time to turn it over to Him and walk in faith. He has it all in control no matter what. We've done our part (literally, lol) so I'll give it to him now! Thanks for the encouragement!
I've got to jump in and say that I was extremely relaxed during my sway. Everything in my sway was what was right in my heart.. and I told God.. "I've done all I can do, please bring me my DD." And I also told him that I could not do the LE diet because it did not seem right or healthy for me personally.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nahjah
I felt incredible peace.
nahjah - looks like a bfp to me congrats all crossed for a sticky one x
Oh well that's cool to hear! I assume anything different is a good thing! I'm still trying to figure out when O is happening - having lots of O pains today and overall discomfort so I'm going to assume it's today and my temp drop was only slight.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pumpkin2011
Here's my chart as of today. The first few temps were during AF so I just discarded them since my temps were still really high all AF
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/41ae13//thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart
Just an side note - my chart links never work so you'll likely only be able to see my chart from this small little picture because when you click it always sends you to an uncompleted version
Congrats nahjah! Fx pumpkin! Rabbit....I am going crazy! I felt the same. I told a friend that I KNOW a pregnancy was happening but worried it won't stick. My uterus is screaming at me every day. I do NOT get menstrual symptoms like this. Def not making things up! But...like I said I spotted at 2 am on 11 dpo (yesterday) then again at 8 pm. Today bfn and spotted again at 4 pm. TMI alert: it only happens with a BM. My belly feels bloated like PMS though. Cramps have really eased since spotting started. Still confused!!!
Having af cramps here as well,seems like the pulling pinching feeling eased up now,and all I can feel is light af cramps.
Its really disappointing and Im starting to feel depression kick in.
I have all the day OFF today,kiddos at school,hubby at work,its my day to do as I please,was planning on going to Starbucks to meet some friends,go makeup shopping which I absolutly adore,going for a manicure and pedicure,just having a fun by myself day, and I DONT FEEL LIKE DOING ANYTHING :tissue::tissue::tissue::tissue:
Im gonna stay at home glued to my couch watching food network,surfing google for last glimmers of hope in terms of BFPs and symptom spotting,and just running to wc checking for blood every 5 minutes,I dont have a zest for anything.
Ofcourse we will have march to try as well,but I was just soooooo fed up with the LE diet and the sway,and not having more weight to lose makes it really really hard.
I dont have anymore tests,so wont be testing anymore.
Af cramps are becoming more prominent,so I guess it'll show up really soon :noaf:
I feel like crap :sad:
I guess I should just mentally prepare for another cycle in march.
pretty much same story here rabbit. Still spotting. Another bfn 13 dpo :mad: hubby still thinks I'm pregnant for some reason. I don't. Waiting for full on af so I can move on :-( I've really slipped on sway cuz I really really felt like it worked. That makes me really nervous for next month! Keep me posted rabbit....
Yea tell me about it pooh,
Lol,u know,everytime I see you name I cant help but think of winnie the pooh :) :) sooo cute hihi
Anyhow,back to the serious talk,AF cramps have gone,thx God,let them stay as far away as possible.
Didnt test coz as I said earlier have no more test sticks, If AF would be more than 5 days late then Id spluuurggge on a digital one lol
Not feeling much really,no AF cramps,just I seem to have caught a bad bad cold,Im coughing like nobodys business,dry cough thats hacking hacking till the point where at the end I actually gag and my eyes tear up,and a slightly runny nose.
Chapped dry lips,ugh,stinging burning,HATE chapped lips.
Boobies not actually sensitive,but every 30 min I noticed they get all tingly on the sides radiating up to my armpit.
Soooo sad to be in such a limbo,If we are destined to have our babies and BFPs this month,then God plz let us see BFPs on our tests,and IF God forbid this month wasnt a success,then plz bring on AF asap so we can start again,coz this wait is HORRENDOUS.
Love u all to pieces,sending all sticky stick BFP dust xoxoxo
Pooh girl,will def update u with new news,and plz do update me on urself,pm me,lets rant,lol
Oh my! Stop sending me your vibes lol! I have a sore throat and tingly boobs lol! What in the world? Yes my name is one I've used for years in forums and such and does come from my love for Winnie :-) can't you find $1 tests? They are everywhere here. dollar general!...I also have praying for positive or period. Like you, I HATE limbo! Been feeling nausea since Sun night or Mon morning but could totally be stress. Still spotting occ but hubby still thinks I pregnant. We'll see. I had a dream this am that I saw 2 lines plain as day. It was on a more expensive test so I'm gonna splurge and use the ones I have. It will be 14 dpo tomorrow, the official day I should start. I'm gonna use these more expensive tests till I get a period our a positive....praying for us all!
Mentholatum is the BEST stuff in the world to use on your lips.. I've used it since I was little.. and actually I use it like daily, and I hardly ever get chapped lips.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rabbit0809
Just try not to eat it lol (but ironically I have them now because I have not been using it the past few days and licking my lips like an idiot!) I use it when I am going to sleep and the menthol and eucalyptus is soothing to sleep anyhow!
Anyways, lots of symptoms for you I hope that you are prego!!!! :)
Ahh spotting is always a GREAT sign! :) Mine has always indicated implantation!Quote:
Originally Posted by pooh_ob
Best of luck to you too!
Thx Butterfly xoxo,gonna try mentholatum,been using petroleum jelly but its nonsense really,they r still chapped.
Pooh sweety,I live in Dubai,and sadly the cheapest most basic test,not early detection,costs around 7 dollars,the early detection ones cost 12-15 dollars,and digital ones cost a whopping 25 dollars ,being the poas addict I am,u can tell,IM BROKE ALREADY, I swear to u I have used 3 tests per day to say the least,thats in the tww,and u know how much opks cost? U wont believe it,7 stupid sticks in 1 clearblue box cost 80 dollars........thud
Holy cow rabbit! I totally understand then! I'm tempted to test again today with the cheapie. nausea still. Just holding my pee as long as I can and test again. Can't help myself them I get mad at myself when I see bfn. *sigh*
Butterfly I hope spotting is good for me. I don't remember this from my others. just have to wait and see....thx!
Congrats Nahjah!Quote:
Originally Posted by Nahjah
Sticky Bean!!!!!