Thank you so much Pearl! That gives me hope that sometimes our bodies are bodies do strange things but can correct themselves.
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Thank you so much Pearl! That gives me hope that sometimes our bodies are bodies do strange things but can correct themselves.
Thank you, Cinss! Question, does the couple of attempts also count for a blue sway? I have seen some conflicting info on the timing/frequency for swaying blue. Some suggest only to do it once, around 12 hours after first positive OPK. That's exactly what we did this past cycle, our first month ttc and I am 10DPO with no signs of pregnancy. I am thinking for next cycle to DTD the day we get our first OPK and then the day after, when I actually ovulate. Does this sound good?Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
Sleep deprivation sways pink? Eek, I didn't know that. Where can I find more info on this? I tried googling but found nothing.
The general thought is that more sperm = more boys, so most of us dtd every 2 - 3 days leading up to O, then as soon as you see the +opk you try to have 3 attempts in 24 hours.Quote:
Originally Posted by dreamsofxy2013
Hey ladies havent heard from anybody for a couple of days now.. just thought id see how everyone is doing?
OnthePond how are things feeling for you how many DPO are you now?
Huds hows it going?
Kiki Our bodies will do allsorts Im sure its nothing to worry about, did you decide to change up your dtd patterns?
Hi AFY! How are you doing? Any other ladies testing now or soon?
I think I am 8DPO today - BFN - but realize it is still very early. The only preg sign I have ever had though is increased discharge and I don't have any of that, so maybe I am out? Our attempts were AWESOME but I had the 103 fever so maybe it killed any spermies that were waiting for the egg? IS that possible?
I tested today and will be every day (torture) because if I do see a BFP we have to meet with a high risk dr right away because I had that darn fifth's disease. My OB is awesome and she told me not to worry at all because I had it before I would have even conceived, but she just wants to be careful with us which I love. So, basically my dr told me to test each day and left her know if I do see a BFP. Still crossing everything I have...we want to see that BFP so badly. GOOD LUCK LADIES! Thinking of us all on this horrible journey...
Hi Afy, im trying not to stress this month. Keeping busy during the day the girls and hubby. After ov do u experience a really wet cm? This month ive had alot.. To the stage where i feel as if ive wet my pants.. Im thinkin is this an infection? Thinkin should i get this checked. We have had our first bit of sunshine today and it is amazing.Quote:
Originally Posted by afy
How u getting on?
Onthe pond goodluck
I'm just waiting for a +opk. Not much to do but drink a bunch of nasty drinks all day. The pneumonia knocked me off my normal schedule so I've barely lifted weights. I'm hoping the 4 months of weight lifting will outweigh the one week. Gl to all of you waiting for bfps!!!!!! I hope someone gets one.
I am 6dpo and sneakily thinking about poas. I know it is way to early...but the urge is still there.
Freaking out a little because I think this will be a 40 day cycle. I have stopped the EPO for approximately 2 months now. I wonder how long it will take for my cycle to return to normal?
Wow Zebaniee, sorry to hear about the long cycle. How long were they before epo?
AFY - any update yet for you? 9DPO today for me, BFN. Still have to test daily, though feeling like I must be out this month. It seems like most women get at least a very faint line with FRER at 9DPO, doesn't it?
Bummed OUT. I seriously hate the heartache. I would be over 25 weeks pregnant now had I not lost our baby in MC. That and then NOT getting pregnant after is really, truly heartbreaking.
Hi OTP! I'm new.I'm sorry for your loss.Don't lose hope! I don't get bfp with FRER until 11 DPO.Any of you try mixing preseed with EW for your attempt?
Hey onthepond.. dont give up yet and there will definitely come a time when we finally catch that egg I always think its when we least expect it..Quote:
Originally Posted by onthepond
Im 9DPO too and apart from queasiness then to extreme queasiness on and off all day, I dont ever get that much of a queasy feeling but Im not thinking of it as being anythin yet not until I see it in black and white lol
I dont wana test but now feeling slightly tempted whens the earliest we can test? and which HPT did you use? Have you got any early preg symptoms or anything that might give you a slight inkling?
Hang in there OTP, your not out yet, got my fingers crossed for you and Afy and Zebannie!
Leebug, i wouldn't recommend the EW with preseed, EW can give you infections.
Thanks cinns!! I am keeping myself as calm as neutral and as prepared for anything as possible.. even if it is a BFN upwards and onwards..
Do you know what prego test the ladies use? I know alot of them say to wait till after expected period. I seen one that says detects the pregnancy hormone upto 4/5days before your expected period.. According to my calculations I'm due next sat/sun.. But then I think No I will wait for AF to arrive.
i had a bunch of internet cheapies and would test from 10dpo, i never got a + with them though (because i wasn't preggers every time) I had a 3 pack of FRER to use as confirmation if i got a + on a cheap test, Most ladies will get a + on both at the same time so just get the cheapies if money is of concern, you dont want to go through too many FRERs because they are expensive.
I was thinking the same not to go through too many just test once and if not wait for AF.. Sorry what's FRER?
First Response Early Result First Response™ - Early Result Pregnancy Test
UUG. 10DPO - BFN and a temp drop again this morning. I am sure I am out this month. I don't get it and it is making me a little nervous. BOTH of the other times I was pregnant I got preg on the first try. And since my D&C (BTW thought you were MORE fertile after a MC) we have had no luck yet. Just don't get it. Thank you all for the support.
This is a pretty crummy way to feel. This is honestly consuming me now. I just want to be pregnant again. We always wanted our kiddos close in age and with each passing month I stress more and more about that. Sigh. I hope you ladies are having better luck and are feeling better than I am! Please share how you are doing!
I feel your pain about wanting them close in age. Before my mc they would have been less than 2 years. Then we had to take a break because I work in a school and will be looking for a new job this summer so I couldn't be visibly pregnant. Now the closest they will be is 2.5 years if I can get pregnant soon. This is my third month back trying and no luck the first 2 months. Sometimes I get angry and think how unfair it is because I would be delivering in June. I hope we don't have to wait much longer!! I'm trying to focus my attention on my dd to take my mind off ttc and remember that she is growing so fast!!
Thx C! I did try just ew when swaying for DD#2 & just never got pg! I seem to get pg quick with preseed but GIRLS.Ill have to figure something out!Kiki-I also wanted my babies close in age but took us 14 months to get pg so they ended up being 3years 2 months apart.its actually worked out really well! DD1 was fully potty trained helped throw dirty diapers away and was in preschool for a few hours a couple days a week so DD2 got some one on one time.it will be ok!
Leebug are you taking fish oil? It really helps with the amount of natural ewcm, and if you really dont want to use preseed its really the only other opption. Foreplay is great too for creating natural ewcm and some ladies have had success with grapefruit juice and robitussin.
C-taking 1000 Mg microdistilled fish oil.bought some grapefruit juice but dreading drinking it.I HATE grapefruit juice! Maybe I can mix a little organic oj that I get so its not so horrible! I also wanted to take a testosterone booster.I know TT is not recommended so I was thinking gelatin caps or Siberian ginseng
Ladies just wanted to add a little encouragement over here to keep chugging down those goodies lol!, but I had my NT scan today and saw a very blue looking nub:) So I'm thinking this is the 2nd successful blue sway GD style for me! Good luck:luck:
My cycles could vary from 38 to 33 days but no later.
Tomorrow will be 10dpo and I am thinking about testing...do you think it is too early?
Hey Ladies.. I got a faint line on 11dpo and an even darker one 12dpo! hasnt sunk in yet 6months of swaying and the swaying journey has finally come to an end..I am Starting to feel preggers this is just the begining of a long Journey.. wishing everyone the all best.
YAY congrats Afy!!!
Thanks cinns!!! I just had such a deep feeling something was up with me especially the loss of apetite and queasy feeligns its just not me, I test with the FR and got a line.. total shock.
What wonderful news Afy!
Lots of blue dust :)
Will bub be a christmas baby?
Thanks zebaniee according to my due date and when I last had my period it' tells me 5th jan so yes most deff could go into December if I go in early with DD I was on the dot with my due date! See how it goes how about you did you test yet??Quote:
Originally Posted by zebaniee
CONGRATS AFY!!!!!!!! Yayyyyyy hope u hav a healthy 9 months x
Thanks alot huds! I just need you ladies to join me seriously we gotta compare pregnancy notes lol , it's more fun with company I'm just waiting on you girls to give us some BFP news now x
Aww i really hope so i do. Im too scared to test at the moment!!! My af is due around monday.. So we will see. Ahh ur dd will love a siblingQuote:
Originally Posted by afy
Gudluck to u all.. Kikical, onthepond and zennabie x
Fantastic news afy. Wishing you a healthy & happy 9 months. Fingers crossed you are baking a blue bean. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by afy
Congrats Afy!!! How exciting!!
I personally like to wait until af is due or after. I've had a chemical pregnancy and that sucked so with dd I waited until 2 days after af was due.Quote:
Originally Posted by zebaniee
Thanks pearl.. After falling pregnant I havent thought about the babies gender much, a blue bun would be the icing on the cake! but Im just so overwhelmed with having another baby now..Quote:
Originally Posted by Pearl327
hope your well.
Congrats AFY! So happy for you - good luck with everything! I hope to join you soon.
AF showed for me. YEP. Early again. Apparently having a MMC and D&C isn't enough of a punishment bc since then my cycles have been 23 and 24 days long. I am beyond upset about all of this mess bc I don't even understand why any of this is happening. Ladies, anyone else go through this? Should I try B6 to help lengthen my cycles? I might call my dr today, but sure I will just get the "it takes time after a MC blah". I just want to be pregnant again.
Sorry about AF otp :( I was going to suggest B6.
I took B6 and it helped lengthen my LP a few daysQuote:
Originally Posted by onthepond