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10 or 11 DPO. Actually I didn't want to test until tuesday. Don't know why I did though.
I was really convinced I wasn't pg. I Will wait to say I'm for sure till i've got a darker line.
I've had light lines on these test before. (Think they are more sensitive) but my DH never saw them. And he sees this ine. Its also darker then the others.
It's brilliant news sweetdream, fingers crossed for more soon!
Funny you guys should mention emotional roller coaster, certain things recently have had me almost in tears...sad stories on the news and stuff. Then again that's not abnormal before AF
Thats whats make it so hard. I doubted AF cause I always have grunge days (want to eat all day) around a weak before AF. I didn't this month. And the moodyness seemed worse. (But was also cranky the whole month)
And my boobs Don't hurt. They've hurted every month bad! Now nothing. (Thought quiting vitex was too blame)
But then again don't have other symptoms. I think. Now I know I do. But was trying denial.
I see 2 lines sweetdream! 😀👍
I just had a massive fight with DS1!! Things are making me angry too and that with cramps today makes me really think AF is around the corner. 😞
And steph, I'm having a few drinks tonight too. Don't feel bad about it at all. So many people who aren't TTC do so many "no's" before they find out they're pregnant and this early I don't think it affects anything. You're not even sharing a blood supply yet. 😊
I hope your moods and other symptoms result in a BFP for you soon! 👍
Congratulations Sweetdream, I also see the line :D
Sorry to hear about your big argument with Ds 1 Mumofsix. You have been under so much stress lately :(
Thanks boysway. Is he such an amazing kid most of the time but when we have run ins, we have big run ins! He was saying how my parents have a right to know everything that goes on in our household and he has a right to tell them and they should know if I "do something wrong" (like ask him to study or turn off the internet or ask him to do something to help out at home) or don't parent "properly" and that as my parents have that right he can and will tell them when he isn't happy with me and what I've done "wrong!". 😠 I couldn't do any more for my kids, DS1 more than anyone! I've spent all running around for him, taking him and picking him up where he needed to be and I'm not perfect, but sure as hell do a better job than my parents and it's like a knife in the heart when he says stuff like he did about them. Especially when it's all I cop from my parents all the time too. He pushed my buttons tonight and I bit back! 😞 And my parents will hear all about it too!! 😕
On a positive note DH has been much better today though, except telling me it's my fault I'm not pregnant as I've obviously got it all wrong with opk's and ovulation and when to DTD and what to do etc....ummm..he is the one who couldn't DTD and I don't blame him! I can't get PG on my own though??!? 😕
Between this with DS1, the week with DH and my parents all the time... and not being able to get a BFP, I just feel like such a failure and disappointment to everyone lately! Can't seem to so anything right for anyone no matter how hard I try. 😞
So much for keeping stress levels low! 😉
Mum I'm so so sorry. He is at that difficult age I guess. I was a right cow to my mum and stepdad at that age, really not proud of it and totally regret it now. He will come round he is just annoyed that he is not getting his own way. Completely understand what a knife that is though :( and your DH sounds like mine with that attitude. They are frustrated that we are not PG yet and taking it out on us. Boysway is right, you have been under too much stress lately and don't deserve it I am so sorry hon.
Thank you for making me feel less guilty. Of course people get PG all the time and don't know it.
I have had awful stitch pains in my right side for the past couple of hours, too high up to be PG or AF related tho I think. Wish they would go away as I'm on my way to meet my friends now!
Yeah sweetdream!! Hope it's a sticky pink bean!!
Some other promising symptoms ladies! Can't wait to hear more BFPs!!
Nothing exciting with me either, only CD8 but I do have a dilemma and hopefully you can help me decide!
I am going away on my own for 4 days to visit my sister (lucky me!) and I should o just before I leave but I don't know when to start the every 4 days bd.
so I'm leaving on CD19 and back on CD22. I think I tend to O about CD18. Do I plan to bd on CD18 and therefore count down from that day the every 4 day pattern ?
Or does it not matter when we start bd ? If we start today then the last time we can bd before I go is CD16 which could be about 2 to 3 days before O...
Sorry this feels like a Chinese puzzle! Lol.
I hope someone can 'enlighten me'! Xx
Oops sorry just realised I'm in the 2ww thread so will post in June TTC x
La vie Thx! I would start at 10 and 14 and make sure i'd BD at 18 and then 22
Sweetdream- Congrats!!! I can totally see that line, faint, but its a line! :)
Mum- you poor thing. :( You are under way too much stress...which sways boy, so knock it off! ;) Just kidding. Sorry, Hun. :(
LaVie- I completely do NOT understand the whole 4 day thing. I thought that's how you make boys ( I made 3 that way!) so I wish I had some advice for you. the 2 x I conceived girls we dtd 2-3 times a day for 3 days in a row with a one day cut off. If that helps at all. but good luck and have a wonderful time with your sister!!!
SWEETDREAM!!!!! OMG, I totally see the line! Congratulations :) How very exciting :) I can't wait to see the darker lines in the days to come!!!
Happy and Healthy nine months :)
Angie
Massive temp drop this morning :(
😡 Steph!!Quote:
Originally Posted by stephk
Here's my chart this morn AF due today!!! Will she come, please dont🙏Attachment 19270
Stephk I'm sorry! Hope next month is tour month. How long are you TTC?
Peb did you test yet? Looks veeery promissing.
Just tested again. Its a bit darker. I feel nauscia like yesterday again. Light but its there. Having a bad cold too doesn't help ofcourse.
http://i57.tinypic.com/bj758h.jpg
Stephk you aren't out till the witch comes out! Still hoping for you BFP! X
Mum: I hope things settle down for you at home. Sending you love xx
Thanks sweet dream. We did dtd last night as I gave DH the choice of the start of the 4 day bd thing and of course he couldn't wait lol. Now I'm thinking we might might have already mess up?!
Fivebabies. I know I don't really understand it all but I conceived my 3 boys with bding every day or every 2 days so I think this is different and might sway pink for us. Who knows? ;-)
Your so early now you got try in 2 days again and then every 4
I also concieved my boys with lots of bd!
sweetdream- Thats a beautiful line, congratulations! So happy for you!
stephk - oooh, I know it's hard to stay optimistic sometimes, but don't count yourself out yet! Your symptoms sounds pretty promising this month! And about alcohol during 2ww - I shared a bottle of champagne day before testing positive this cycle (it was our anniversary). I live more or less like any other weeks and do not skip alcohol (even if i don't drink it as much as before o in order to sway). After I see a line, I go for 0 alcohol though. Just around implant or first week I don't think that any foods that I eat or drink affects the egg. Most people wouldn't even know they are pg before a few weeks later.
Mum - wish I could say something clever and helpful, I hope everything calms down for you soon. You really don't need fights and worrying for all those things now. Hugs!
Beautiful line Sweetdream!!!!!! I'd try in the morning with second morning urine as lots get dark lines then.
Steph-- You're not out yet. Fingers crossed for you still as your symptoms sounded promising!
Lavie-- The highest rates of pregnancy occur with dtd 1 or 2 days before O. So if you typically O on day 18 then I'd make sure you dtd on either CD16 or 17. DTD on O day actually has really low pregnancy rates since it can take up to 12 hours for the sperm to make it to the fallopian tubes and by then the egg can be dead! You want the sperm in the tubes ready and waiting when the egg pops! Good luck!
Hello ladies,
Stephk your weekend sounds good but hard to hear your friend say you are angry...ttc really does take it out of you we all just want it so bad!!! And look lets face it we are all massive marthas!! I started doing shettles and look where I am now!!!!! Don't worry about the booze I drank far too much in 2ww with both boys and they are happy and healthy....
Mum sorry you are fighting with DS1 its a tough age, he will come round ! Sorry your temp has dropped :( cake? Nuttella?
Yah!!!!!!! Sweet dream!!!!!
I just had my attempt so almost in 2ww we DTD standing up because of DH operation !! Tmi but pretty much a ton fell out so it was like I did a jump and dump be amazed if this ends in a pregnancy but happy we could try!!
La vie ditto what the other girls said, I am not super strict on every four days I just dtd about every 4 but sometimes its five or six! Pathetic!!!!! Xxxxx
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sweetdream - lovely looking line there :)
Thanks guys for words of encouragement. I feel so unwell today, I have a cold, I have hayfever, feeling completely exhausted (not surprising after the weekend I have just had). How I am going to get through the day I dont know. I am running a workshop for 5 hours this afternoon too, that is going to be really hard! I am feeling slight AF cramps so although the witch isnt quite here yet, its only a matter of time, I know it. So now DH is going to be blaming me again, saying we dont BD enough, I should be eating meat, exercising less, blah blah blah. Once the witch is here I will book another doctors appointment again because the LP is too short. Not that I am holding my breath for them to help me because I still dont have the ultrasound appointment I was promised months ago. Today is only CD24 as well - how to go from 95 day cycle to 24/25 in 6 months is pretty darn weird.
oh and I concieved DS with 4 attempts in fertile window!! Thursday night, saturday morning, Sunday afternoon and monday night. Positive OPK was monday and I O'ed on tuesday.
what does your sway looks like?
We dropped diff stuff every month. when I dropped Vitex my HB got back on LR. he dropped that the month before.
And we were gonna try FR this month if not pg. now I'm still pg with 1 attempt.
And we ttc for 5 months.
If you feel like this now. keep going! hang in there for the next 2 weeks. keep excercizing go for it! this is your month I feel it!
I was beat this month! that's why I'm so happy. after O I couldn't anymore. the Idea of doing it another month made me almost cry!
Girl! you're doing sooo great! go for it!
DH is doing nothing to help the sway, but little does he know that cycling to and from work every day does help hehe. He also likes hot baths and showers so on that front its all good but he does nothing else. Snacks constantly, drinks fruit juice, full fat milk and sugary pop constantly, eats packets of ham for snacks, cheese etc. All I am doing is diet (badly) and exercise. As for BD, we BD whenever, I didnt like keeping the military precision every 4 days so it ends up being every 3-7 days and then once at OPK, unless the OPK comes a day after BD if that makes sense.
kitkat - yay 2ww for you - good luck and really hope its your month hon
Steph you have been amazing,and upbeat for us !!! This ttc business is really really hard, it gets us all..
You are not out till af arrives !
Sorry your DH is not being totally supportive, im sure it cuts them up too to see us upset every month big hugs to you! Go and watch a girly movie, hot chocolate and treat of your choice I insist!!!! Xxxxx
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After your five hour workshop!
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Bugger to the temp drop Steph :( I hope it's not the witch.
Fingers crossed for you peb, your chart looks good :)
Yay sweetdream, line is definitely darker.
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Awww, Steph :( I hope it's not what you think. Hugs to you! I wouldn't worry too much about DH lack of contribution to your sway. I think it's most what WE do that matters.
Sweetdream, how exciting to see the line darken up :)
Who is testing soon??
Angie
I'm really not bothered about his contribution, he can do what he likes I can't be bothered to argue lol. What hurts is the commentary in what I am doing and the blame. Anyway.
Just finished the workshop thank god!! I feel a little Nutella/chocolate/ice cream/general sweet food naughtiness coming on :) AF not here but the pain is on and off. Every time I go to the loo I take a tampax but nothing yet. At least I had the temp warning so it will be less traumatic when she arrives.
Hoping for BFPs from the rest of you :)
Hi Ladies!
I've only been on here for a couple of months, so there are many of you I don't know yet, but I wanted to post: I got my BPF this morning! Pretty shocked. I haven't felt any different this month. This was our second month trying and I had all sorts of crazy symptoms that first month, but nothing this month! I took a pregnancy test, as I have a good friend coming to visit and I wanted to make sure I was good to go to drink lots of wine with her. Turns out I'm not! :) As soon as I know gender, I'll fill out my whole plan.
Of course, Steph, silly me! I'd be pretty darned steamed at being blamed for not being pregnant. Sheesh. I'm sorry he's being a rude jerk!!!
Congrats elise20! Sounds a bit like me...I only tested to see if it was "safe" to drink and .... good thing I did! H&H nine months!
Angie
Congrats Elise!!!
Oh gosh sorry Angie I hope it didn't sound like I was correcting you lol
Elise20 - congrats!! Yay!! I'm the same I test when I know alcohol will be involved...
Congrats Elise!
I'm really not feeling good ladies. I woke up middle of the night with vomit in my mouth and throat choking on it. Two nights in a row now. My boobs are super sore today as well. Im hoping its pregnancy related and not a virus.
Rosie I know it's not nice to feel like that but it does sound super promising - when will you test?
Oh geeze Rosie that's horrible!!!
But hope it leads to good things yah poor lady!!
IM not testing until I get my pregnancy tests which I ordered in amazon. They are supposed to come on Wednesday. I did this on purpose to avoid testing too early!! IF I want to use fmu then I have to wait til Thursday...12 dpo. Ugh
2nd mu is better Rosie ;) xx
FX rosie! hope you feel better soon rosie.
Joining this thread. I'm 3dpo. I only have this month and the next because DH deploys after that. I need lots of crossed fingers :) congrats to all the BFP's so far!