Hubby has been great taking ole and soy milk if I remember to get some lol. Haven't really cut down on his red meat yet said if he could manage just chicken and fish after af shows I'd be happy. It's hard we've always been a meat eating family and I feel bad asking him for more than that. We are going for one attempt and I actually asked dh to fr (every 3-4 days) on his own lol. We are getting so little sleep as it is with ds2 and his shiftwork that neither of us are rarely in the mood lol. I'm 37 next week and he turns 45 in July so was a big hooray he actually agreed to try one more time. We waited 5 years after marrying to have kids trying to set ourselves up a bit now we both wished we'd just said to hell with it.. I actually went into an adult shop for the first time in my life to get him a dvd was so embarrassed and cant couldn't even look at some of the covers!!!! So funny what you'll admit to on a forum! I would never ever dream of talking about this stuff to anyone else lol!