lol at the toilet comment. Pretty sure we conceived our son in the bathroom. We were having a few drinks and had DTD so we were having a shower and then we DTD again and I was bent over the bath doggy style.
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lol at the toilet comment. Pretty sure we conceived our son in the bathroom. We were having a few drinks and had DTD so we were having a shower and then we DTD again and I was bent over the bath doggy style.
b- thanks hun :)
Ladies we're not having great success atm with the sways:( Does anyone want to join me on a different thread to really get down to what we did that may have influenced things? I don't want anyone to think its an IG style lynching at all!!!! But we have blue swayers atm and if we can find connections then hopefully we can help them and maybe everyone else already here in the future!!! The IG CBBC groups result of 8 out of 10 is definately what we are after!
Nobody needs to join at all! And there are no failed sways, I just wish I could jump forward a year and offer everyone £1,000,000 for the baby in their arms and an opposite in exchange, I bet no one will take me up on my offer:) But I can't do the offer or the time jump unfortunately but maybe we can find something of use. Sorry if offending anyone:(
That sounds like a good idea.Quote:
Originally Posted by ELP
Feel free o add my sway result to the list -
Was confirmed a girl too!
As for what I would change if I was gonna sway again....would have eaten dairy/ calcium and taken vit D. Everything else I did really well IMO.
RIGHT!?! That may have been a fluke, though. At least, that is what I keep telling myself. You are right, Nutter didn't have a strong sway, but remember Wantasonbun, she was the most hardcore or all and got a girl. I do sometimes wonder if there is something to it, but the diet is just so damn unhealthy....I mean, you cannot do it for that long. I dunno, B, I really am convinced that it's just a stroke of luck....the dice effect. And I also want to believe that it is meant to be. GOD is the one who cherry-picked these kids for us. He wants you to have 3 girls and me to have either no kids with new DH or go through some awfully long and painful journey for something, I don't know what yet. Why? I don't know. We both prayed like crazy for the boy, and we didn't get it, so unless I get really mad at God, I just have to say, well, I guess it wasn't my destiny. But you know, just like me, you may have a wonderful journey still ahead of you......Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
Hi Cheeky! Congrats on your little baby girl! I hope you aren't beating yourself up about the calcium or anything....I really think it is all chance and swaying just helps till your odds a bit.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cheekymoo
ELP, I am down with the "research" part of that....although, like you said, I really don't want anyone feeling like a failure here. A beautiful baby girl is a gift from the heavens and no one should feel like they did anything wrong. I am sure we can keep it light, though. Honestly, I don't think anyone did anything "wrong" per se.....sometimes the dice just rolls on pink again. The thing about the CBBC on IG (that was the "Chicken Butt Boy Club", an old IG group we had....yes, been around that long, lol) was that the two most hardcore swayers got one of each. And then there were more laid back swayers that got boys....goes to prove that there is no magic formula at all. But maybe worth a look......if the preggos don't mind having their sways looked at, then the atm swaying would probably be grateful.
Cheeky - congrats on your baby girl!!
Elp- I'm in too, I think there's got to be a way of comparing sways without looking for fault like IG did. Like lola said if we keep it light and make it voluntary I think we could really help the ladies currently swaying :)
Congratulations!!! Wow so many having girls!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cheekymoo
So we have 7 girls:5 boys
id like to be in on the thread too. where is it?
really TTC5, 7-5 huh.
it does make me wonder. were the girls on IG who got thei rboys strict with their diet? guess we can never REALLy TRULY know
That is great idea ELP! I would really appreciate it!Quote:
Originally Posted by ELP
And since we all have girl(s) we know how precious they are and of course, no such thing as 'failed sway'.
BTW, Imho 7:5 is not that bad ratio at all, the sample is still very small, we need more BFPs lol!
Well, they were doing the old unhealthy IG diet where you eat a barrel full of salt every day and no dairy products, and TONS of the drinks. But like we said, one who was the most dedicated did not get a boy. And I know one who was pretty lax about it all got a boy but she ate calcium/dairy. I don't recall anyone swaying much longer than a couple of months, though, (right, B?) so no one got fat and freaked out like we are here, LOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by gizmo77
Yeah we are definitely fatter here but how on earth could you gain too much on the IG diet? I felt like I could only eat 10 things lol
If i remember well Wantasonbun DTD 3 days before ovulation & only once which was great girl timing & Wantaliitleman was the one with the strict IG diet & she got her boy, just thought i'd add that in. I think it's a great idea to start the thread ELP
Comparing sway attempts is a great idea, i would love to see the data drawn on a graph or something, there doesnt need to be names on there, just useful information we can look at and maybe we will be able to see things that we cant at the moment.
Yep exactly, my bet is those who are utd now and don't know the gender prob have the blue ones ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac
Yeah same, it was dreadful that one!
I don't like the term failed sway either :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac
No baby is a failure!
From the results we have I think some of the blue results are from ladies who came over from IG with their bumps so they are kind of IG results kwim, I'm definately interested in perfecting the HI/GD approach so whoever wants to participate if they state their approach then we can see where everything needs tweaking:agree:Quote:
Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac
Post BFP boy sway discussion thread
Ladies started above:) Purely for anyone who wants to join in:)
I would like to join in, I haven't done my attempt yet, should I wait or can I post what I am planning to do?
If we keep the new thread for people who have their recent results to answer questions on their sways then it keeps it factual, so we can see what might be working and what might not be working, if that makes sense:agree: But definately feel free to ask questions of any ladies who will be joining in, you may just jog a few memories :agree: Is that ok??Quote:
Originally Posted by love being a mummy
Yeah thats fine.
So it's for people once they have found out the gender?
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Yes, if thats ok:) Then current swayers may be able to see if there is anything in particular that they want to do differently:agree:Quote:
Originally Posted by love being a mummy
Yeah thats ok :)
Your welcome to chat here but I won't be adding people to the list until they have their gender scan or give birth ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by love being a mummy
Hey,
I am having a girl! I just wanted you all to know. I am really happy about it, she is going to be a great sister for my DD, but I will be back to sway again in a few years. Just wanted to update! There are a lot of girls being born here. :)
Congrats Spicy!! Your DD will love having a baby sister!Quote:
Originally Posted by SpicyTunaSushi
Congratulations Spicy!!!!!!!! I will add you to the list!
8 girls and 5 boys so far!!!!!
Those odds aren't very good. :(Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
Still a few pregnant mummas to reveal yet!!!
Not sure if anyone remembers me, but I needed to stop obsessing about swaying so I took a break after I got pg. I swayed for a boy and I am due in feb. so I will update my gender then!
Hey there! Aw, excited for you! Did you do much swaying for this one?Quote:
Originally Posted by My3girls
I did as much swaying as I could. I posted my sway in June. Not sure if it's still on here.Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Congrats! Can't wait to hear what your having! Got any scans we can nubsess over hehe?Quote:
Originally Posted by My3girls
My3girls - waiting till birth to find out? Such self control lol I actually wanted to wait but for the first time dh had to know so we found out. I'm almost exactly a week ahead of you, Feb is coming so fast!
Here it is:Quote:
Originally Posted by My3girls
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...4960#post44960
HOLY SHIT! My odds are terrible!! haha