Yay Maybebaby!!!!! can't wait to see pics!!! fx for an easy delivery :)
Ingelwood~ soooooooooo exciting!!! 4 weeks wow wow...CANNOT wait to see pics
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Yay Maybebaby!!!!! can't wait to see pics!!! fx for an easy delivery :)
Ingelwood~ soooooooooo exciting!!! 4 weeks wow wow...CANNOT wait to see pics
wow inglewood, that's so exciting! wow the countdown begins, can't believe they are nearly here, only seems such a short time ago you got your BFP!
Babymad- ((hugs)) hon, it is such a shame you are suffering so much with this pg, is there nothing the doc or midwife can do? How are you feeling emotional wise?
Oh my goodness I cant believe I did not manage to get on here and and wish maybe good luck I feel so awful !!!
Maybe hope your holding your little prince in your arms right now, cant wait to see a picture and hope your labour is going or has gone smoothly :heart:
Yet another weekend of illness in our house with both hubby and me being poorly but better now hooray !!!
Chocolate I think your little man's behaviour sounds perfcetly normal!! Boys have a surge of testosterone at around 3-4 years and I think this is part of the reason behind the more challenging behaviour at times, I certainly think it is accounting for me just turned 4 yrs olds behaviour he is answering back, verty very loud and extremely boisterous at the min and increasingly doing things on purpose while waiting for my reaction and smiling all way more than normal at the min!!
I can't believe I'm being sectioned at 35wks 5days, thought they would keep me till 37, even 38wks??? they are 3lbs 10 and 3lbs 11 today, so by then they will be about 6lbs each, so decent enough weights to be born. Feel like crap, so sore and tired and so feel glad I won't go full term at the same time not ready for 2 babies! Feel for u being so poorly with this pg and struggling with ur asthma. On top of that you have alot of emotional feelings that I wish so much I could do something, anything to help with. xxQuote:
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Babymad what a rough ride your having really hope your health improves and that you start to feel a little better be nice sometimes wouldn't it if we all lived closer so we could help each other out !
Inglewood wow only 4 wks to go so very exciting !!
Good Morning Ladies! :) Here I am, still stalking for baby news :)
Threelittlemen ~ glad to hear you and your dh are feeling better now!
Inglewood ~ 4 weeks will fly by :D How are you feeling now that you've got your babies birthday? is it feeling more real?
Babymad ~ sending you lots of hugs!
Im here stalking too hehe!
Oh Inglewood, how exciting!!! how come they are delivering them at 35 weeks? is this normal for twins? I so cant wait to see two little girls in their pink girlie outfits :-))
Hope everythings going well Maybe!!! thinking of you!!
Sunset.. hows DD after her jabs? i so felt for you, its just awful isnt it! DS3 had his 2nd lot today, he had them a bit later due to him being poorly!!
Weve booked a holiday!!!! going to Ibiza in the easter hols, a month today!!!! Had to get DS3's passport pics done, that was fun lol. So looking forward to getting away :-)))
Babymad, bless you, its so unfair how you are struggling with asthma :-( Have you brought any baby bits yet? I need to do a massive car boot, our house has baby stuff where ever we look!! lol.
Hi to you all x x
Charlie not sure if your still popping on but saw these eBay - The UK's Online Marketplace and though of you! Thought you'd like, they're really quirky. Think I'm going to get a couple of pairs as PJ bottoms for ds2 as am a fan of skinny fit PJ's.
Maybebaby had her baby boy late last night! (11.33pm, 8lb2) :awe::awe::awe::cheer::cheer:
SUCH wonderful and exciting news, she says the labour went well in the end and she's totally in love :HH:
I'm sure she'll be on soon to update everyone and hopefully with some pics, can't wait to see the gorgeous little boy!
awwwwww :cheer: :cheer: CONGRATULATIONS on the birth of your baby boy Maybebaby!! I am sooo happy for you :D what wonderful news! :D Enjoy the babymoon :awe: I can't wait to see a pic of your gorgeous bundle of joy :)
I too am a fan of skinny fit PJ's :P :agree:Quote:
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aw bless, it's horrible isnt it.. :( how did it go today? I hope he didnt cry too much. It was absolutely horrible yesterday.. she screamed when she had the injections and my poor heart was breaking. I'm sure the nurses must have thought i was nuts as i was such a crying wreck lol it's hard though, i felt so guilty :( she's okay today, just a bit on the hot side but yesterday, omg.. both her legs were bright red and she didnt stop crying all afternoon.Quote:
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wow Ibiza, how lovely! :D I'm jealous! how long will you be gone for? :)
Petal.....super jealous! We LOVE ibiza, been alot. Where are u going????
Maybe....CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Huge welcome to the world baby!! xx
Sunset, so happy to finally have a date!!! DH was 'googling' 3rd April, turns out Marlyn Brando and Doris Day were born on that day. The first mobile phone call was made and The famous 'I have a dream' speech by Martin luther king was said. others too, but those I remember!
Petal, all prev c-section woman having twins are often done around 36/37wks, not sure why I am going 2 days b4 that tho. Didn't get to speak to consultant yest. Think they will be a good size by then, they are growing well!! Much to my poor back's dismay! but worth it. How is ds3 after his injection??
CONGRATULATIONS MAYBE ON YOUR LITTLE BOY! XX
Well had bloods back today, they were taken on CD 20 as 21 was a Saturday. My progesterone levels came back as 24 which means I didn't ovulate (30 or above indicates ovulation has taken place) or I did but later than CD14. I suggested day 28 bloods as well as 21 for next cycle. But i'm going to book them tomorrow for this cycle too. my last day 21 tests came back as ovualting. So dr. thinks it could be a bit hit and miss, some months I ovulate some I don't! Great she didn't really suggest an action plan any further than more blood tests. Feel really bummed. So over TTC, swaying and this damn stupid diet errrghhhhh.
CONGRATULATIONS maybe <3 hope you and your little man are doing well <3
I have been meaning to get on here more make an effort but it doesnt seem to be happening at the mo x thankyou for still thinking of me though - Lavender i have a couple of pairs of those trousers for indy and LOVE them great for cloth nappies too x
I thought i was feeling a little better - went to wells on saturday did us all a world of good to go - forgot how long the journey is but it was worth it. Then i went to a vintage fair on the sunday and it just messed up everything - full of beautiful vintage baby girl things and back down i went. DH birtday was yesterday i spent the morning trying to avoid him as i felt like crap, monday I lost it at work.....basically i dont know what to do anymore. The kids are getting it DH is getting it everyone is - i sat outside halfords yesterday after DH told me i had ruined his birthday sobbing i didnt even have anywhere i felt i could go at times i feel like if i went they would be better without me i am so distant from my own children and I cant seem to get round that - i resent them for being boys. For liking boy things and for me not having any understanding of them. Right now i am not a good mummy or wife or even coffee monkey. Sorry i didnt actually come on here to say any of this x just to catch up BLEURGH i need to find a cave to crawl into SORRY x x
Inglewood - wow 4 weeks cant believe you will have your twinnies so soon!! April is a good month for babies ours is packed with birthdays!
Babymad - huge hugs so sorry you are struggling not only with GD but with your health - cant the doctors help you at all?? Hope you are getting some help x x
Indigo - when is your next scan hun - did they offer you another one at the private place?
Pinga - hope you are ok x x
Chocolate - LOL your 3.5 yr old sounds like my nearly 4 yr old keep thinking he should be growing out of it but alas no! He has been a VERY hard toddler for me x hope the phase passes quickly for you x x
WAVES to everyone else x i am here am on FB a bit more just find it hard......i know other people cant help having girls but even photos of others peoples girls sends me down.......need to suck it up and move on but right now it isnt happening!
promise to try harder ladies x
hugs hun x so sorry your bloods came back low x how long was your cycle? I have been here before i had ds2 I hope they help you and keep an eye on everything - any talk or more tests?
:BabyBoy:Yay Congratulations Maybebaby on the birth of your beautiful baby boy!!! Welcome to the world little man :bluecheer:
Congratulations Maybe, what wonderful news! He was a good size too! I hope you're both doing well.
I'm sorry your results weren't good Lavender. Do you think they'll go down the Clomid route with you?
{hugs} Charlie. I wish there was something I could say or do to help.
mabey! congrats on your little boy!!!!! so nice to hear everything went well xx
lavender i hope doctor sorts something put for you! and soon!!
charlie! im so glad to hear from you! i dont know what to say to make you feel any better but we are all here for you when you need us and i hope things get a bit better for you in time!
Wooooohooooo congratulations maybe! And welcome to the world 'dave' hope mum and lil man are both doing well! :)
Lavender how frustrating, I hope the next set of bloods show you did infact ov but just a little later.
Charlie xxxxx wish I could help in some way, have you told your husband about the scan? Hope you can come to some peace soon (hugs)
CONGRATULATIONS MAYBE, SUCH WONDERFUL NEWS!!!! so lovely to hear you are in love...thats the most amazing feeling ever isnt it!!! Cant wait to see pics and find out the name! X
Charlie, so so sorry you are suffering hun. It WILL come right, just give yourself plenty of time. Before you know it, little man will be here, sending you head over heels in love like maybe and then all will be forgotten im sure of it!
So sorry ladies that i still havent managed to catch up properly. I miss being in touch properly and send you all lots of love in the mean time!
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Congratulations Maybe, so glad your in love, makes me remember it all comes right in the end.
LavenderLime, I would ask about clomid too, research it and take info to back you up. Or ask for follicule tracking although youd need to go daily or every 2days to see whats happening around ovulation time.
Charlie - Big hugs, I know I havent had boy confirmed but there is no way my nub shots could be girl so am 100% sure its a boy. Ive had a bad few days, not sure its gender related, just feel down about my life in general atm. Not getting on with OH, he works all week so I have to work and see to boys all by myself as he isnt home till 11pm and goes to work before the kids are up, so by the weekend Im knackered and wanting him to take over with them a bit but all he does is moan about why should he have to bath them, and why do I make such a mess when I cook HIS dinner etc.
My OH's side and my brother and OH's sister just seem to exclude us from anything they all do together which makes me feel like crap, I dont have much time for seeing friends and then my kids show me up whilst out meeting them. Just feel a bit like Im always chasing my tail and just running out of enthusiasm. Its not directly about this one being a boy but I just KNOW I wouldnt feel like this if this was a girl as Id keep ploughing on.
Im a crap Mum too at the moment, and today, DS1 drew on the wall.
Hope you other ladies are having better days lol
Oh and my brother and his wife had their 2nd girl this am, I only wanted 1 of my own lol
Charlie I'm so sorry you have been feeling this way. It's lovely to have you back on here, must really help to vent and off load. If your like me the worst thing about the situation is that it's beyond your control. It just takes time to feel better about things and it's hard when there isn't anything you can do to change the outcome. Massive hugs.
I'm really not sure what will happen next? I know I 100% didn't ovulate one cycle so far this year as it was only 14 days long. I'm on CD25 of a usaully 27 day cycle but if it goes to 34 days then there is a chance that I just ovulated later. I have been researching clomid and have read that it has strong links with increasing the risk of cancer so dr's will only prescribed it for up to 6m-1year in your lifetime of TTC. Maybe I could ask for the trigger injection and then go from there not that i've really researched that much. I'm just fed up. I don't know how people TTC for years on end. I just expected it to kind of happen quickly. Makes it even worse when your on the girl diet as that generally makes you feel a bit crap. Part of me is thinking I did this to myself through swaying but the other half knows that my cycyles have been a bit squiffy in the past year at times.
Maybe can't wait to see pictures.
Hopeanddream hope your doing better on the TTC front have you tested?
I can soooo empathise with that lavender! Its so hard to be on the diet and have wasted months! I hope it transpires that you are just having a long cycle with a delayed ov but if not i hope you manage to get a plan of action for next month. Do you temp?Quote:
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Ar hun, its just not fair. I bet you anything though that your brother would have liked a son! HugsQuote:
Originally Posted by chocolate
littlemiss, how are you? i see you are 16 weeks...are you having a gender scan or will you find out at 20 weeks?
Lavender try looking up soy, I believe ins a natural clomid, I've seen a few girls have success with it on another forum.
Deaks my brother openly said he wanted a boy, they were told 'boy' at 16 weeks but girl at 20 weeks bless him, however, Im still jealous because obviously he had a preference but got over it easily. She said are you that disappointed that you want a 3rd and he said 'hell no' lol.
She said before she wasnt bothered about having a boy as she had got 'her girl' think by my facial reaction with my son in tow she could tell I was offended that my son didnt inspire her to have a boy lol
Charlie ~ I'm so sorry you're going through such a rough patch at the moment.. What I wouldn't do to be able to take all your pain away :( Just know that you don't ever have to apologise to us for how you're feeling! Don't ever feel you need to say the word 'sorry'. You can vent to us all you want! we are all too familiar with GD and that's what we're here for - to support each other through the hard times and the good times. I also think it's very important you know and feel you that you can always talk to us smog ladies. We are all here for you and we would never judge you! If you would like someone to talk to on the phone just know you can always drop me a private pm and i'll give you my number! Me and the other ladies are here for you 24/7! ((hugs))
Lavenderlime how frustrating for you :( i really dont have any words of advice i'm afraid.. fx you do ovulate next month and fall straight away!!
hun x i think you said it for me - if it was a girl it would be easier.....life sucks here too DH always working if he isnt i am i feel so alone even with my beautiful boys i just dont seem to be on the same level as ds1 and 2 x ds3 still is gender neutral he is a dream today after i wrote my me post i sobbed, then i went and had a bath with him - where he covered himself in chocolate face mask then dive bombed me for hugs....it was lovely i cried again but he made me smile he is so loving i just hope i find common ground with them all as they get older. HUGS for your brothers 2nd girl x none of my sisters have kids they will have girls though i know it as they are not fussed at all xQuote:
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thank you all your love means alot x i dont think i could do a phone call but thank you sunset - i would just sob and be a mess but thank you x i am going to try and get a phone call from the doctor tomorrow i think i am going to see if i can try anti depressants something i would never ever do normally not pregnant but i cant take much more - i want to try and get signed off work too they are being shit i have to stand for my entire shift 9hrs (bar 30min break) am meant to have extra breaks risk assessment - well monday the floor was covered in water due to a leak so super slippy and we only had 2 people for lunch cover i said i wouldnt work again if they didnt get more people in (we always normally have 3) well again i am running shift with 1 other person - screw them!!!
lavender - it could be just a random cycle they reckon most people dont o at least one or 2 months a year.....frustrating though HUGS i really hope next month you get a strong O and a BFP x x
lavender - if you do get a longer cycle have you thought about temping - so you can pin point O?? I have taken clomid it is pretty horrid for me it works by kick starting my ovaries but i dont fall pregnant on it - only once but that was my MC this pregnancy - i took it one cycle fell the next x i O really late so you do have hope if it is just a late O my earliest O is cd20! This baby was a CD26 ovulation x anyway i hope you get some answers x soy is a natural clomid but i would maybe wait and see what happens next cycle as i have seen it mess up cycles too x
Lavender Sorry you bloods came back neagative for O just wanted to offer a little reassurance, my cycles when TTC DD were all over the place, My DS3 was 8mths when AF came back and they were failry regular until I started the diet and supps, I think it was probably the vitex that knocked them out, however I had cycles that were very long with O at various diff times, I went to the docs had the same blood tests and mine came back negative for O to but not because I wasn't O'ing but because it was just too early in the cycle to detect it as I O'ed much later than 14 days!
You would think in this day and age a GP would ask questions about how long cycles were and if longer than you ave 14 days then test at diff points to try to identify O has taken place but they dont!!
Anyway I asked about clomid and was told that I would need to try for at least 6 mths and then be referred to Obs and gynae and then they would consider clomid so I knew that I couldn't wait that long.
I took Soy Isoflvannes while trying for dd as they are supposed to regulate O, some say they sway girl as they are supposed to decrease testosterone and some say they sway boy as they increase the ewcm you can have but for me I took a chance
Hope this helps!
Charlie and Chocolate ((hugs)), loads of love to you both. What you say is so familiar. I'm always thinking that everything would be easier if this was a girl at the moment everything a grind. Will write more tomorrow, so tired and off to bed.