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Have you taken a hpt??Quote:
Originally Posted by HopeandDreamG
Littlemiss- that is so exciting about your scan. I am so jealous....I want a little pink bean growing inside me so badly. I just wanna be pregnant now so badly.
I hope this cycle works for , I really do.
Pray- I was so nervous after my temp drop I wanted to see if AF started I forgot to pee in a cup.
Going to docs office they are going to repeat bloods and probably put me on progesterone. Leaving on like 10 mins
Littlemiss, I knew it was a girly!!! Congrats on your scan!!! oh, what was her heart rate?
Okay so I need you all's opinion on O. I had left pains on cd13 and got +OPK, then on cd14 I got really bad middle abdominal pains and another +OPK with some spotting and today cd15, I am feeling a few twinges. Looking at my chart, do you think I Oed on the cd13 or 14? Cd14 did not work out to well on DTD, although we did this am at 2, so not sure if I missed the egg or not? What do you all think? I continue to DTD? I am thinking so just to be sure, but am wondering if all the DTD, is making the spotting. I mean yesterday, when the really bad middle pains started, I feel something leaking and when I checked it was blood, or spotting on my underwear and when I wiped so I am unsure. I have bled or spotted the past cycles on Clomid anyone else have this happening?
I think you did O but I would still BD until FF gave me crosshairs because with the Clomid, you can't afford to miss any opportunity to catch the egg.
Did you not TTC at all before that? CD 12 or 13?? I think you need to be BD in the days BEFORE you think you're going to O.
Well if my temp goes up again, on FF it says cd 13 is O day. We DTD cd10 (3 times), cd11 (2 times), cd12 (none), cd13 (2 times), cd14 (none), and cd15 (1 time so far today). So what do you think AS?Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
What about the O pains? Does O happen before, after, or during?
So happy you had a great scan littlemiss. Great news!!
I'm pretty sure I'm gonna end up with a chemical. Went to doc, they did repeat beta, will get results tomorrow. Got prescription for progesterone. Came home, ate something and then went to pee before getting prescription and it was like AF started. I am more upset that my diet was terrible in the 2WW And I don't know if I should skip April. Or if being SUPER SUPER strict with calories, Season/April, having a chemical, uping clomid to 150mg, and being on pregesterone right now would out weigh cheats in the 2WW. Would love feedback. I'm sure by tonight I will have AF. :( , finally a BFP and this.
I'm so sorry, hope :hugs:
Oh H&D, I am so sorry.
I say hit the diet hard core and try this month. I really don't think you need to skip a month. You have not been that bad at all -- have you gained any weight? Even if you have, going back hard core on the diet you will lose even more now.
Hugs to you .. and I really hope your blood work comes back positive.
I'm so sorry. Did they also check your progesterone level? Too low could cause this and it is an easy fix with supplementation.
I hope the baby still sticks, but...I would keep going this month, if it is a chemical, I think the seasons/and progesterone plus the early m/c itself (soooo sorry) may sway girl strongly...
Did everyone hear Mocha's fab news? She's having a girl! Another LE success story!! :)
Pfp- haven't gotten on scale. I probably did gain I do super fast but l lose super fast. If I gained I will lose all of it in a week or less.
Nuthinbutpink- they added progesterone levels to Wednesday's bloods and did beta and progesterone for today's. I also started on progesterone today.
I really dont know what to think. It's def not AF yet but still spotting.
Auoara- yes!! Heard about mocha. How AMAZING!!
Hope, I am praying for you. I am not believing it's a chemical, because she is going to stick. The progesterone will help you so much! I say take it for sure, and keep ttc if this is a chemical.
hope im sorry your going through this hun, try to stay calm im praying your little bean sticks huni x
Hope, I am sure I had a chemical this past cycle. I had spotting on 10dpo then started cramping about an hot later and got af. So a super early af... Which makes me think it was. Of course I diet take a test as that was my worst fear... Getting an early bfp and then it not going thru:(
Anyway I at least get to try again sooner but I totally cheated and only got back on track after af started! I'm going for it this month even with that! I know my body has changed so much and I think I feel comfortable with it!
I do hope your numbers go up! My friend thought she was miscarrying as drs office said her test there was a faint positive and the last time she did miscarry... But low and behold the numbers sky rocketed and baby held... So yah never know!! Hoping for yah for sure:)
How ya doin, Hope? I really think all is ok!
Amari- I am ok. Still spotting but no AF. Will know more tomorrow when I get blood results. Really hoping AF stays away.
Talk about a rollercoaster day -- Mocha, congratulations!! HopeandDream, sending lots of positive, happy thoughts your way.
Nothing too exciting to report around these parts. I'm still avoiding food-journaling and sticking to mostly veggies, fruit and "junk" (cookies, candy, ice cream, etc.). My weight is staying pretty consistent, in the 96ish-97ish lb. area. A few days ago, the scale did read 95.8 -- I DID NOT tell DH about that ... he would freak! So I figure that, even without journaling, I must be keeping the fat, protein and calories pretty much in check. I did find some matzo at Trader Joe's and I made Atomic's matzo pizza last night -- it *was* delicious!! Gonna have that again tonight, along with some white wine, maybe an apple ... and then bring on the "junk." :)
Speaking of a different kind of junk -- hee hee -- DH is "so far, so good" on the switch to FR. We pretty much DTD daily when conceiving DS1, so we're having him release twice daily, once in the a.m. and once in the p.m. Starting around CD10, we'll have the p.m. one be with me.
So, I'm going to ask a question here and please don't think I'm horrible. Does anyone else feel like they can't win (with themselves, emotionally/mentally) when ladies announce the results of their sway? If someone gets an opposite, I feel all despair-y, like "Oh no ... swaying doesn't work!" And if someone gets their DG, I'm happy for them, but I also have a "all the girls are taken now! only boys are left!" freak-out because, y'know, statistics can eat your brains for dinner.
I'm a bad person, aren't I? Everyone else is sweet and pure-hearted and I'm a Sucky Suckerson, aren't I? Aaaaarrrgggghh.
I don't mean to be a Scrooge Swayer. I want to be good. *slapping away jealousy and fear* Be gone, shame spiral ... must get that wine now! :)
Drama- truth is everyone feels that way!! Your not a bad person. We want to hear it works bc that gives us hope but then fear then it won't happen for ourselves too. I think that's all it is! Sooooo normal!!!
Hope - I'm praying hard for your little bean :pray:.Quote:
Originally Posted by auroara78
If this is a chemical, though, I agree with auroara - definitely try this month. I think getting pregnant the first cycle after my m/c was a big factor in me getting my girl.
It just means you're human, drama. I felt *exactly* the same way as you with every sway result announcement I heard. :HH:Quote:
Originally Posted by dramabird
And now you get a hug ... :) And I genuinely am so happy for you and the other ladies who have heard those magical "It's a girl" words. Hopefully you're paving the way for the rest of us!! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Mochagirl
And a hug for you, too! Especially given that you're going through a challenging time right now, your kindness is much appreciated.Quote:
Originally Posted by HopeandDreamG
Much like Atomic, my mom said she had mini "periods" while pregnant with me. One suggestion, FWIW: I'd stop temping now. I never temped after a BFP because I was afraid any drops would completely freak me out.
And I agree with the others: If this does turn out to be a chemical, def. jump back on the TTC wagon. Some cheats or whatnot during the 2ww won't make or break your sway ... whereas forcing yourself to wait and essentially start over could be detrimental emotionally and make you throw in the towel altogether.
But the hope is that all of that will be moot because this tough little (pink) bean is gonna stick! I'm adding my prayers to Kraizy's, right here and now.
Thanks drama. I need to put the thermometer down! Glad To hear about your mom.
No spotting overnight. Tiny tiny bit when I wiped after FMU. Also hpt still positive. Line doesnt look so dark, but clearly there. Guess all is ok for now. Will get results from yesterday's beta and progesterone, I will call office when they open.
Hope - I'm glad the spotting's under control. That's a good sign. Still praying for you and I'll be waiting for an update :luck:.
Thanks mocha. Did u sleep last night!! Don't think I could have. So happy for you. I pray this baby sticks and I hear those same words. I dint think I will ever want anything else this badly!
H&D -- I think it sounds like everything will be ok. I am happy for you.
Mocha -- Amazing news! You are so blessed. I can only imagine how incredible it was to hear "its a girl". I would have been crying. Go shop some pink now!
Drama -- I feel the same way. You are sooooooo normal. When I hear of a swaying opposite I think "it must not work" and when I hear of a swaying DG I think "so happy it worked for them; but was it the swaying that worked or was it meant to be, I don't know." But I also think that I could never be that lucky that it would work on me, like I would be one of the women who have a swaying opposite for sure, no matter how hard I try. I just feel like I will never have a daughter and I should give up, b/c I will never be one of those lucky ones -- and its only that much more heartbreaking in the end having thought that I possibly could be a lucky one.
So don't beat yourself up about beating yourself up -- I do it too!
I'm hungry. I guess I should eat breakfast. I am feeling like it's a no-no. Omg what has my life become. I guess I need to give the bean a healthy breakfast. I just feel like I'm cheating. What's wrong with me? In part I'm afraid I'll be swaying again in April and don't want to mess myself up more then I already did. I know I need to be healthy now though. Oy.
Pfp- think positive you are going to get your girl. I think the more you relax and think it will work the more likely it will. I know we don't have magical powers but it can't hurt. Where we know that stress will hurt us! I am praying for you. Still on b.c. Right? Then onward!! Yay!
And I need to believe my words. I'm already thinking boy. For no reason. I had a killer sway just feel like nothing has gone my way for a looooong time.
Hope- Eat breakfast!! It's ok.
Hope - eat some breakfast!!!!
No - I didn't sleep much last night, but it was a lot more pleasant a sleeplessness than the night before! No complaints here!
I'm sending you ladies lots of pink dust - I hope you all get your dream.
Hope -- Absolutely eat breakfast!
I know how it is though -- I still am not eating anything til like 10am and I am off the diet. I have put on a couple lbs. and I keep thinking to watch my calories and eat low calories and I don't want to gain weight. But then I think it probably is not best to only be eating 1200 calories a day going into this cycle.
Yes, still on bc pills for another week and then starting my stims. I keep thinking what a dream come true it would be if this cycle worked out. How utterly amazing it will be to poas getting a bfp knowing I am having a baby girl. The thought of it just makes me so overjoyed that it makes me feel like being that utterly happy could just never happen. I really do pray it does though.
PFP, I am praying and hoping this HT cycle works for you. I think that sounds like a fab thought...peeing on a stick and KNOWING you are growing your daughter 100% sure! I love the idea of that! I do feel it coudl so happen for you.
H&D, I agree, eat and enjoy breakfast! Your bean needs it! And I also am so suprrised you'd think boy when you sway was off the rails awesome! Can't wait to hear your blood test results, and I think a pos. HPT is still good. Remember TTC5 had some spotting i believe, and her bean is very healthy and nestled in good :) so while this can be concerning, I am praying that everything will turn out awesome.
Drama, I have the same feelings too. When I see a sway that works, I feel renewed; like swaying can work, maybe my sway worked too. But then sometimes I still think well if everyone is having girls, then that leaves not a single one for me....then of course I wonder about destiny, which I've pondered here before, and wonder if that person was just *meant* to have that gender at that time, and that even if they weren't swaying, they would have gotten it? I dunno. But I do know that Mocha's particular sway filled with more hope that I've had my whole pregnancy, because of the whole we were a day apart in ouvulation and a day apart in due dates. I was really worried after my sway that getting preg in late Dec was a bad idea because of "ions" (I know, I know, remember I was on IG for a while?) but seeing that she did concieve a girl a day before me at least lets it *seem* possible for me. I am really happy for her, and also really happy about my own new peace of mind. I would rather think positive and think girl for the next 3 weeks before I find out, than have a knot in my stoamch and dread the next 3 weeks, you know?
I am praying for you all today! Happy Good Friday and Easter!!!
Discouraged, cause I don't think we DTD enough, but my FF chart says I Oed. I am hoping we caught the egg in time, but feel like it did not happen again and I am just 3DPO. This TWW will be excruciating I just know it.
Ah KD, I pray that this is your month for a BFP and you'll have twin cozy little girlies in there :) :hug2:
That would be an awesome blessing to have two little girls!!! I think I would faint!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by auroara78
Doc office called. Not good news. My Hcg Wednesday was 28, thursday it was 23. Progesterone is super low
wednesday 1.4 and Thursday 1.2. Basically not viable. Was told to stop progesterone so I get my AF. Bummer. Although, I'm really fine emotionally, BIG lesson to not cheat in the 2WW. Thats the only thing I am mad about. They are going to watch my Hcg levels go down so I can ttc again..here we go...
Hope the 2ww is fast Kraisy.