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Aw I know what you mean sometimes it's just too hard. I'm feeling the same at the mo. FB doesn't help! Everyone I know is having a girl or if they don't know what they're having their 13 week scan pic screams girl nub BIG time so know it'll all be girls. Can't help but then think that all the girls will be taken and I won't get one.
It's ok to feel down Hun it's normal as it's feeling raw emotions and not even emotions you can show in public as people just don't get it!! But hey you might end up having a girl next, decide to have a sixth anyway and gave another girl! Anything is possible it could just be your turn for a little pink soon!

I just don't see it any more. I used to see it. Now it's just a dream.
I'm sure I'll get back in track and feel better soon. But I also know that no matter how hard I try and how many I have, I will always have boys.


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Originally Posted by motherofboys

I just don't see it any more. I used to see it. Now it's just a dream.
I'm sure I'll get back in track and feel better soon. But I also know that no matter how hard I try and how many I have, I will always have boys.


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MOB, this is exactly how I've been feeling too ((hugs)) It's so tough isn't it? A lady I'm friends with is expecting dc5 & she already has my dream family of 2 DDs followed by 2DSs. I would never ask her but I envy that pure excitement that she must be feeling with no strong GD either way. My GD has been present for every pg and I resent that. I too feel that girls are some exotic species reserved for other people, not me. I have a friend with 5 boys, her youngest two are twins. I look at her & swing between feeling that the chances of us both having 5 boys must be slim or that I shouldn't ever expect to get a DD in 5 kids. I'm happy to go to 5 as I've always dreamed of a big family. I just wish this GD would bugger off!!

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Thanks for listening everyone. I feel so down right now, and I can't seem to pull myself out of it and carry on like I usually do. I can't even talk to DH about it as I don't think he really gets it. He wants a girl too, but I don't think enough to break his heart over. After we found out DS4 was a boy he thought it would be best to stop, he could obviously only make boys so what was the point in continuing, only to be disappointed each time. He came around in the end. And he said he would be happy with another 2. He even said he'd have as many as would make me happy, but he doesn't think more boys could make me happy.

Well I snuck off for a bit of a cry earlier. Then dh came home, we had wine and Chinese and I feel a bit better.


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Sending hugs Hun ((())) GD is a b*itch and a half and only those who have experienced it can ever understand; it's NOT about not loving the kids you do have (if anything I think GD makes us love and appreciate our kids more because of that early guilt) it's about feeling like there is still someone missing from your life.... We all understand Hun. I'm glad you are feeling better. X x

Glad you're feeling better Hun! Sometimes a cry and alcohol can make all the difference!
And vent away it's what were here for! We all understand!

Thanks. I don't want to be the one bringing everyone down.
I wish I could just be happy about the prospect of another baby, as dreamofpink says with out GD hanging over my head and tarnishing everything. It ruined my 12 week scan because I spent the whole time looking for a nub and came away feeling like I hadnt even seen my baby.


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Do you think it's better to find out the gender before the birth? I didn't with my first but did with the rest.

I dunno. I always have found out. Ds1 I was far too excited and impatient. The rest I wanted a surprise but kept convincing myself I needed to know in case I had a girl and had to re- buy some things. Ds4 I thought it would be best to know so that I could work through any disappointment I felt before he was born. I was worried I'd have trouble bonding. If the next one could possibly be my last I would like a surprise to be able to say I've experienced both. Then again how much of a surprise is it when you have 4 of the same already lol I know now that I will bond. But I do worry that it could drag out the hope to be disappointed, or drag out the misery only to find at the end you got what you wanted anyway. Maybe that's my problem, I'm greedy, I want to experience everything. Never satisfied. That's why I want a girl and can't just be satisfied with my boys lol


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