Same here!!! I fibbed and said I was on pelvic rest.Quote:
Originally Posted by spinningmadly
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Same here!!! I fibbed and said I was on pelvic rest.Quote:
Originally Posted by spinningmadly
Well it's 7.15pm now!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
Wish I'd thought of that one lol!Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
I found a new OWT!!!
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/old-...tml#post268654
If you had n u/s during 8-10 weeks test it out!
Having two miscarriages before, my husband knows that there will be no getting down until I am happy everything is on the right path... and sometimes that is quite a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
My birth with my son ended rougher than I would have liked as he was posterior and after 48 hours (can you blame him?!) he was getting tired and they got concerned, so they did the BIGGEST CUT IN THE UNIVERSE to put in forceps in me... like they cut the inner 'wall' between my vagina and my, er, anus. :( When it healed... it felt hard... and thick... and jagged in there. Sex took over a year to really happen. Seriously. And my husband NEVER got annoyed, just wanted the odd reassurance I still loved him... but he understood why I was soooo scared. The few times we tried it was excruciating. I think after a year+, I decided to grin and just get on with it. Holy hell, it hurt... but got easier each time. But, still... a year+, guys...
I'm pretty relieved my husband doesn't put pressure on me for sexy time! PHEW... or else he'd be crazy disappointed! I go at my own pace! Ha!
Same here! No sex since 4 weeks lol. Dh is NOT happy. Even if I wasn't worried, the nausea is so bad I just couldn't do it.Quote:
Originally Posted by spinningmadly
You are very lucky suregena to have such an understanding husband, I can't even imagine my DH handling that situation. Anyway, I read your birth story the other day, you are a very brave and powerful woman, hope this time you'll have a better and easier delivery.
And good luck with all the coming up scans dear ladies!!
No sex since conception here! Hahaha! :xQuote:
Originally Posted by Shellbelle
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Originally Posted by Grace
Man, if he ever hounded me for sex, he'd really get a piece of my mind. No one pushes me to do something if I'm not up for it. Maybe he just knows that. I can be a little fierce and feisty! :P
Me too!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by suregena
We haven't had sex in 16 weeks or so. Hubby is dying. Lol
Okay ladies I booked a private scan for next Saturday the 27th! We will see if I am brave enough to go! Haha
Wow i am surprised to see so many not having sex anymore. DP and i are still doing it every 2 or 3 days, like nothing has changed, even though i dont feel in the mood sometimes, it alway seems to make me feel better afterwards.
CAn I just vent about my MIL....she pisses me off sooooo bad. She walks in and saw my NT scan pics. Before 2 seconds had passed, she was pointing to the pictures and saying...."that's a boy right there, yep...that's a boy" and said it like 5 times. It made me SO mad!!!!!
ugh sorry NC, sounds like a nosy MIL. She isn't very receptive to your feelings either. Humph.
No! Not at all. She is exactly the reason I do not want to find out gender. I just can't handle her "I told you so"! So annoying!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Rosie85
People like that drive me crazy! You don't I told you so to people who are sensitive to the subject matter. Maybe you could just punch her? haha
That stinks! I'm sorry that you have to deal with her attitude.Quote:
Originally Posted by NCBeachyGrl
I agree with Rosie NC...punch her!!! And then she'll have fd...facial disappointment. lol
facial disappointment bahahahahaha :rofl:
How would she even know?? Ugh sorry you have to deal with that!Quote:
Originally Posted by NCBeachyGrl
I let my bestie borrow all our nb clothes when she had her son, so I got to go today to look through them for DS3 and they are so much cuter than I remember! SO tiny too, I can't believe my boys were ever that little... I can't wait to get back home and get his room and clothes and such all set up. I'm still sad about not having a girl, but I'm getting really excited now about a 3rd boy!
This made me laugh out loud! I love you.Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
Oh my NC that is so annoying !!!!!!! I agree just punch her
oh NC that is SO frustrating - you poor thing!
We havnt been particularly avoiding DTD either cinns, we're normally once or twice a week, mind you we've gone 2 weeks without....just because i am too tired...i have the energy levels of a rock!
Just wanted to wish you a huge good luck for your scan hun!! I know exactly how your feeling and its bloody horrible, I also convinced myself she was a boy, I think thats just our way of preparing ourselves! Keep an open positive mind you WILL hear Pink!!! u swayed right? I'm sure you have nothing to worry about :) how exciting u get to see your perfect little bubs again :) I will be stalking for an update try not to leave us hanging to long lol :) xxxxxQuote:
Originally Posted by Tiffani3
Nc my plan was if we heard boy I was gonna tell ppl we decided not to find out the sex....that and punching your mil should keep her off your back :)
Hope everyone is ok? And I hope the sickness is improving...how exciting you all are nearly near finding out the gender of bubs :)
Alls ok with me nothing exciting to report here, can't believe its a week ago today I found out she's a girl...still in denial lol xx
Thank you hbp, it's so lovely to have all you for support :) will update asap!
Yeah I did sway but only for a few weeks.
I really hope I'm in denial and it is my dd but not convinced I could be so lucky! Only 12 more hours to busy myself lol
Oh and the dtd we've only been 1 or 2 times a week as dh will have a breakdown if I ban it!!!!!
Nc your mil is nasty. I agree punch her!
xx
Thank you ladies for all the MIL bashing! That felt good. LOL!!!!!!!!
Good luck Tiffani and 3M&AL!!!!!!!! I am so excited for you!
Tiffani - how are you doing today?
Thank you nc. Not to bad trying to find things to take my mind off it but not at all working!! xx
Good luck today Tiffani x
NC, i would be fuming at that too. I can't believe she would be so insensitive. Mine annoyed me last week after we told her she was going to be a grandma again, she said she would leave it to us to tell dp sister then goes and tells her herself!!!! Why say it in the first place!
Why is it that ALL MILs are so intolerable? Do they learn it in MIL school- how to make your DIL's life miserable? Or is it a predisposition- once you become a MIL you immediately forget how to behave yourself? And here's a terrifying thought- are we going to end up like that with our sons and their wives?? Ohh, please please let this baby be a girl!!
Lol mine is the same!! That's why I didn't tell her before everyone else because she would have told everyone. Have learnt by past experiences not to trust her or confide in her about anything, her and dh really don't get on! So at least we both feel the same about her lol I'd love to punch her sometimes!!
3M I'm feeling so much better, thanks! Just a little general yuckiness but I'll take it!
How much weight have you guys gained so far? According to my dr I have only gained 3 lbs since my first appointment which was at 9 weeks, but since I was tracking my weight so closely, I have gained 13 lbs since I got my BFP. I am still lower than I was starting out with both boys, so that is nice, but I feel like that is a LOT!!!!
Last I checked it was 6lbs since my bfp. I don't know what I've gained/lost since then because I've been so sick I just haven't cared. Lol. I think you look great, sweetie. And remember, at this point a lot of that will be increased blood volume, boobies, etc.
I have got to relax, y'all. I'm obsessively checking tp/cm. Not just like "I feel a tickle so I'm running to see what it is," but scrutinizing the tp and asking myself "does that look more yellow or maybe a little tan? Are there any teeny tiny signs that this isn't just regular discharge."
There is no other reason for this craziness. I mean, the morning sickness is still bad. My boobs are still heavy and tender. I'm still exhausted. And I'm peeing all the time. Basically all the signs that things are okay. I have just had so much bleeding with the last two that with this one I am even crazier than normal with the fear and obsessing.
Please tell me I will be able to relax in a few weeks!
Reminding myself that someday I would be the mil is what helps me deal with them lol. It helps me be a little more sympathetic. But I have to say thank you to all the ladies who have shared their stories. I seem to hear about all these women who have beautiful relationships with their MILs and it has made me feel like maybe I am the problem, because I haven't gotten along with either of mine lol. It's nice to know that I'm not such a freak. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Grace
I am down 10 lbs since I got my bfp. Would like to lose 10 more. I would be down more if I wasn't gaining any baby weight. I started at 160 and would like to be 165 max at the end. I am at 150 now.
I think I've gained a stone since my bfp but I was really low weight then so not really worried yet!! xx
I think is natural to check especially since you've had bleeding before try not to stress yourself out though sweetie xxQuote:
Originally Posted by Shellbelle