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April 5th, 2012, 06:09 PM
TTC5

I am sure I saw girl nub though yesterday? :(
April 5th, 2012, 06:19 PM
Foxy

No you didn't :)
April 5th, 2012, 06:33 PM
My Fabulous Children

Hi Ladies,

I've been away for a while, and I miss everyone here :HH: Thanks Begoina for asking about me.

I've been feeling so sad and slightly depressed. I wish I could just relax and enjoy my pregnancy but I can't stop worrying and just be happy and excited for another baby boy :(

Things are not looking good for me girls ... I just had a follow up ultrasound yesterday to see if my placenta had moved up from my cervix but unfortunately it hasn't. Thanks GOD I haven't had any bleeding thus far but I hear its more likely to happen any day soon. The doctor told me that my placenta is covering my cervix and she told me the MRI showed MAYBE Placenta accrete , but they are not sure... I told her when I had an MRI they didn't tell me that. They just told me that my placenta is low. I was shocked to hear her saying that.

ANYWAYS I had a trans vaginal ultrasound she told me the same thing .. MAYBE AND MAYBE :( She said the edge of the placenta attach to the uterus, but just a little ..so again she said I'm NOT SURE it's so hard to tell, but I have to go back in four weeks for another ultrasound and will have another MRI in six weeks.

All doctors keep telling me if I do end up with placenta accrete we'll need to prepare of the possible uterus removal. I'm really really praying & hoping the placenta goes up so the usual csect can be done w/o complications. I cried when I heard this I'm just so sad, scared. To be honest I don't know anything about all these. New stuff to Google. I know its not a good idea :(

I worry worry and worry all the time, I've been extra crazy with this pregnancy!!

Sorry for the long post. Just need to vent and update everyone :(

I hope everyone is doing good, and I will catch up later.
April 5th, 2012, 06:50 PM
Hobbermittens

MFC, even if they have to remove the uterus, they can wait until birth, right? ANd your baby boy will be okay? That is still scary, and I am sorry you are having to go through this! :( I really hope everything turns out okay and you can have a regular C-section and keep your uterus!
April 5th, 2012, 08:31 PM
TTC5

Your in my prayers MFC.
April 5th, 2012, 09:39 PM
My Fabulous Children

Here's HE at 23 weeks :awe: I'm so in LOVE with him :awe:

http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7138/6...17874aaeff.jpg

http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5312/6...e09fc86258.jpg
April 5th, 2012, 09:47 PM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

MFC, even if they have to remove the uterus, they can wait until birth, right? ANd your baby boy will be okay? That is still scary, and I am sorry you are having to go through this! :( I really hope everything turns out okay and you can have a regular C-section and keep your uterus!

Thanks Hobber I hope so!

It is very scary and risky for both mom and baby druing the c section.
April 5th, 2012, 09:49 PM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Your in my prayers MFC.

Thank you so much I REALLY need it :(
April 6th, 2012, 12:52 AM
girlmom

prayers are with you mfc. hopefully everything will be ok until your due date. as for me im still pregnant. another week down! i did see the ob. she said i was a "good 3" not sure what that means exactly but this is the 3rd doctor to tell me 3cm so im still going with 3cm and therefor no change. still on all sorts of meds, weekly stress tests on me and baby and now they want to check my cervix weekly. at the first sign on change my rear is back in the hospital. my doctors stil think it will be soon but im determined to prove them wrong and at least make it to 35 weeks. doc originally gave me a goal of 28 weeks im so close!
April 6th, 2012, 02:21 AM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by Flava

fab- hope the placenta will move up .Don't be so scared you just need to take it easy. You will have a c/s anyway , right?

You know I wanted a VBAC so badly with my ds1, but couldn't find a doctor to do a VBAC so I ended up having a c-section #2

This time I was really hoping to attempt a VBA2C. I even found a doctor to do it, but in my case now I just CAN'T. I just want a Csect w/o complications.

How's the pregnancy going with you?
April 6th, 2012, 02:35 AM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by DoulaMama

mfc- I'm a doula and have seen this once(it's very rare). My client had an anterior placenta with placement over the scar. She had no bleeding with it and it was slightly covering the cervix. Her midwife was awesome and positive about it being fine(in 2000 deliveries- many vbac's- she had NEVER seen an accreta). Her placenta did not move until 39 weeks!! It shifted one inch. And then by 40 weeks it moved a teeny bit more- enough for her VBAC attempt. She laboured for 20 hours, pushed for 3 and had her baby:) Her placenta plopped into a bowl beneath her about 10 mins after the birth:) No issues whatsoever.

You should know that anterior placentas move slower up the uterine wall than posterior ones plus they tend to move much more near the end of the pregnancy. To be freaking you out this early...it's not good for you:( They shouldn't even be looking for accreta as it tends to not show up even with an MRI unless it's very bad(which is VERY rare). They should monitor movement but not until your uterus is filled with baby-beyond 35w. Try not to worry so much. Many women gave anterior placentas over top of scars and they don't have a single problem.
The one thing to try is visualization of the placenta- imagine it moving up the uterus:) Plus there's a homeopathic for it as well- I'll see if I can find the name. Do not take vitamin e- it's causes sticky placenta.
Big hugs to you~ I'm sure that your placenta will move and everything will be fine:) xo

THANK YOU so much DM, this just made me feel so much better.
April 6th, 2012, 02:40 AM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by 3Pink1Blue

Girlmom - little guy still safely tucked away?

ZB- glad to hear from you, how are you Hun? MS still kicking your ass?

It's my birthday today so I'm hanging out getting spoiled by the fam but I had to check in :)

Happy Belated Birthday 3p1b!
April 6th, 2012, 02:42 AM
Myloves

He's beautiful, MyFabChildren :HH:
April 6th, 2012, 02:46 AM
My Fabulous Children

Today is my DD1 birthday. She turns 7!! :celebrate:
April 6th, 2012, 02:50 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by girlmom

prayers are with you mfc. hopefully everything will be ok until your due date. as for me im still pregnant. another week down! i did see the ob. she said i was a "good 3" not sure what that means exactly but this is the 3rd doctor to tell me 3cm so im still going with 3cm and therefor no change. still on all sorts of meds, weekly stress tests on me and baby and now they want to check my cervix weekly. at the first sign on change my rear is back in the hospital. my doctors stil think it will be soon but im determined to prove them wrong and at least make it to 35 weeks. doc originally gave me a goal of 28 weeks im so close!

Thank you girlmom :) and I am so glad to hear you're still pregnant and doing great xxx
April 6th, 2012, 02:51 AM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by Myloves

He's beautiful, MyFabChildren :HH:

Thanks Myloves :)
April 6th, 2012, 02:58 AM
TTC5

MFC he is adorable!!!!!
April 6th, 2012, 08:53 AM
Flava

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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

You know I wanted a VBAC so badly with my ds1, but couldn't find a doctor to do a VBAC so I ended up having a c-section #2

This time I was really hoping to attempt a VBA2C. I even found a doctor to do it, but in my case now I just CAN'T. I just want a Csect w/o complications.

How's the pregnancy going with you?

Im so sorry things are not changing for you.But maybe it will? Still early only 23 weeks so there is lots of time to move up! I hope they don't have to remove nothing but if it comes to that at least you are done you got the kids you always wanted!
Maybe you can just have a regular c/s .

For me I just don't want to be pregnant feel like I don't want more kids .I don't know why I feel so strong this way but just to think of starting all over and have 5 kids are killing me. I feel i was so stupid to try again. Being sick don't help either...
April 6th, 2012, 03:33 PM
Hobbermittens

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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

Today is my DD1 birthday. She turns 7!! :celebrate:

MFC, my DD1 turned8 on the first--our kids are almost exactly a year apart!

Your baby boy is adorable!!
April 6th, 2012, 03:34 PM
Hobbermittens

Flava, did the spotting stop?
April 6th, 2012, 06:17 PM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by Flava

Im so sorry things are not changing for you.But maybe it will? Still early only 23 weeks so there is lots of time to move up! I hope they don't have to remove nothing but if it comes to that at least you are done you got the kids you always wanted!
Maybe you can just have a regular c/s .

For me I just don't want to be pregnant feel like I don't want more kids .I don't know why I feel so strong this way but just to think of starting all over and have 5 kids are killing me. I feel i was so stupid to try again. Being sick don't help either...

I really hope and pray things change for the better ... I am not losing hope just yet! :pray: :sad:

It will be very hard for me if they have to remove my uterus I'm too young for this ... for right now we are done having kids, but my husband and I are only in our mid 20's. I know my husband would probably want more children in the future, he's already talked about that.

I am very thankful of what I have, but it's just so hard for me. I am only 24 years old and it makes me so sad. I know a lot of women who have had three c-sections or more and they have no problem at all. I've read too much online about it. Placenta Accreta is very rare (1 in 2500 births) but the numbers are increasing due to the rise in c/secs... I need to stop reading about it because it's very scary and I need to stop thinking about it. It's not even confirmed yet, but maybe :worry:

I'm sorry you're sick, Hope you feel better soon. You did all this for your little boy think about it that way :) Did you see a doctor yet?
April 6th, 2012, 06:18 PM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by TTC5

MFC he is adorable!!!!!

Thanks 5' :HH:
April 6th, 2012, 06:20 PM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

MFC, my DD1 turned8 on the first--our kids are almost exactly a year apart!

Your baby boy is adorable!!

Thanks Hobber! Yep almost exactly a year apart, How cool ;)
April 6th, 2012, 06:22 PM
My Fabulous Children

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Flava, did the spotting stop?

Oh no, Flava- Are you spotting?
April 7th, 2012, 12:22 AM
Myloves

:celebrate:Happy birthday to your DD1, MFC! :celebrate:
April 7th, 2012, 04:46 AM
Zivic-Bubac

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Originally Posted by Flava

For me I just don't want to be pregnant feel like I don't want more kids .I don't know why I feel so strong this way but just to think of starting all over and have 5 kids are killing me. I feel i was so stupid to try again. Being sick don't help either...

I can understand your feelings :hugs: I would NEVER tried for #3 if I knew for sure I was going to have another girl. I'm overwhelmed with 2 kids already (let alone 4!) and I'm NOT looking forward to sleepless nights and constant nursing and pink all over again.

This sound terrible, but the only light at the end of my tunnel is a thought of hard core swaying in the future, and hopefully and finally a baby boy.
April 7th, 2012, 05:13 AM
TTC5

Doesn;t sound terrible at all Z
April 7th, 2012, 08:37 AM
Flava

No more spotting . The thing is I don't care even if it's a boy! So maybe I sound the most terrible here but I just don't want any more kids at all .:(
April 7th, 2012, 08:57 AM
Zivic-Bubac

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Originally Posted by Flava

So maybe I sound the most terrible here but I just don't want any more kids at all .:(

Glad the spotting stopped! :)
Hey, I'm the most terrible person here! :rofl:
April 7th, 2012, 09:00 AM
Flava

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Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac

Glad the spotting stopped! :)
Hey, I'm the most terrible person here! :rofl:

No it's me ! Really I feel like ppl are judging me already.I want to feel different I really do I just can't help how I feel right now!
April 7th, 2012, 09:01 AM
Flava

I wish ELP would post some more pic from the golden boy maybe it would make us feel better huh??
April 7th, 2012, 09:01 AM
TTC5

No I am most horrible lol
April 7th, 2012, 09:03 AM
Flava

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Originally Posted by TTC5

No I am most horrible lol

Why would you say that?? You are such an angel.
You can't wait for the baby and I don't want it http://emoticoner.com/files/emoticon...n-emoticon.gif
April 7th, 2012, 09:05 AM
TTC5

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Originally Posted by Flava

Why would you say that?? You are such an angel.
You can't wait for the baby and I don't want it http://emoticoner.com/files/emoticon...n-emoticon.gif

Cos I am so nubsessed right now... I should be thinking of the baby's health :(
April 7th, 2012, 11:16 AM
ELP

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Originally Posted by Flava

I wish ELP would post some more pic from the golden boy maybe it would make us feel better huh??

Been meaning to post some for a while but needed more hands lol!!! I've tried to re-size them and crop out all the mess in the background lol, so please excuse if tiny???
No3 pic is my eldest's favourite picture atm lol! And No4 pic was taken just now :HH: Hoping to catch up in more length soon, but I have DH off of work again atm, flamin bank holidays grr!!!!!!

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April 7th, 2012, 11:17 AM
ELP

I'm very, very biased but ain't he cute!!!!:bigsmile::rofl:
April 7th, 2012, 11:20 AM
ELP

And nobody on here is a bad mum!! Just nervous, excited and hormonal all in one, just wait til you meet those babies whatever gender, they will be little miracles that you created, perfect xxxxx
April 7th, 2012, 11:48 AM
Bumblebee

ELP I love love love!! thanks so much for sharing photos of your kids :awe:
April 7th, 2012, 11:53 AM
Hobbermittens

ELP! He is gorgeous! I love the one of him at the bottom--he looks so big already! And the one with the girls in the bed where he is doing the "rock and roll" sign with his fingers--too cute!! Oops, sorry, my daughter just corrected me, he is actually doing "I love you" in sign language. :) :heart:
April 7th, 2012, 11:57 AM
ELP

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

ELP! He is gorgeous! I love the one of him at the bottom--he looks so big already! And the one with the girls in the bed where he is doing the "rock and roll" sign with his fingers--too cute!! Oops, sorry, my daughter just corrected me, he is actually doing "I love you" in sign language. :) :heart:

I did not know that!!!! Thats why mt eldest likes this picture lol, she thinks he looks like a rocker:bigsmile: I'll have to see if she knows that it means 'I love you'!!!

He looks a bit like E.T. in the 1st pic doesn't he:bigsmile:

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