Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

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Originally Posted by Bimby

Just having some really vivid images of my 13.5/14.5 week scan at my Ob appt 1.5 weeks ago and I remember seeing 3 dots in a triangle (thought it was weird at the time) but now Im thinking maybe I am having a boy .. She said she didnt see any dangly bitsand possibly 3 lines but didnt want to guess as couldnt tell really but Im now thinking maybe she didnt want to say anything as I had said the sonographer at my NT scan guessed girl so maybe she thought it best for that place to break the news at my 20 week scan.. Im being crazy now arent I??? Ugh I feel so stupid for worrying myself. I didnt get any pics of the potty shots to obsess over (probably a good thing) How on earth am I going to hold out till the 2nd Jan without driving myself bonkers!!! Im so tempted to book a private scan but Id have to hide it from DH as he'd go nuts spending money for no good reason.. Has anyone seen girl potty shots with the 3 dotted triangle/? The thing Im worried about the most is that Ive blabbed to people saying they think girl but not to buy anything and the comments I get back are all "dont get your hopes up etc etc.." of course Im going to get excited by it sheesh!! Id hate to have to say Im having a boy and get the whole "told you so, oh you must be devastated" ugh I dread thinking about that..

Sorry for ranting... Cant say all this to DH as he already thinks Im mad..

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Oh Hun I know what your feeling, especially in regards to dealing with people comments, hence my thread http://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/...ad.php?t=20615

With regards to the sonographer not commenting, I think it's far more likely that she just genuinely wasn't sure rather then not wanting to say. I really don't think they go that deep, if they see something they say it, if they don't, then it's coz they really don't.

Don't worry about not having got a potty shot, they are notoriously inaccurate for gender determination before 15 weeks so if you had one it would be pointless agonising!

With Xmas and new year hopefully the time will fly quickly and before you know it you'll be at your scan :)

Fingers crossed your bundle is pink (and your scans did look girly to me)

Thanks so much Lassie, I know Im being completely irrational, unfortunately it has been part and parcel of this pregnancy... So completely emotional and overreacting at everything, ugh hormones!! My Ob is really lovely Im sure she would have said something and looking at some potty shots maybe it was an upside down triangle.. Im going by memory which is so stupid lol Ive had a moment to breathe and relax.. Thanks again hon, I needed someone to speak rationally to me lol :) Not long for you now, how are you feeling about your scan?? xx

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Originally Posted by suregena

Last night I was trying to talk about middle names if it's a boy and my husband said he liked the ones I said but added, "But it doesn't matter because we won't likely be using them since it's a girl." I was like, "How are you so certain?" And he just said, "That's just what it feels like to me."

Oh dear, here's me trying to have balanced views on what the gender might be and he's already sure it's a girl. Hope he isn't let down if it's not.

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My DP said similar things to me just after i got my bfp (boy though), as soon as i started saying i feel sick etc, he said he knew it was a boy, i really hope i dont let him down too.

Bimby i think potty shots are very similar with both boys and girls before 15 weeks like Lassie said, i wouldnt worry about it, and 3 lines would look like a triangle at a few points, you know how they kind of zoom in and out with the image.

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Originally Posted by Bimby

Thanks so much Lassie, I know Im being completely irrational, unfortunately it has been part and parcel of this pregnancy... So completely emotional and overreacting at everything, ugh hormones!! My Ob is really lovely Im sure she would have said something and looking at some potty shots maybe it was an upside down triangle.. Im going by memory which is so stupid lol Ive had a moment to breathe and relax.. Thanks again hon, I needed someone to speak rationally to me lol :) Not long for you now, how are you feeling about your scan?? xx

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I think we ALL feel that way during our pregnancy at some point, I know I certainly do!

I'm very excited about the scan. I honestly think that I will be ok with hearing boy, sad, but not overly disappointed. It's everyone else's comments that I'm worried about :(
35.5 hours to go!

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Originally Posted by Cinss

My DP said similar things to me just after i got my bfp (boy though), as soon as i started saying i feel sick etc, he said he knew it was a boy, i really hope i dont let him down too.

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Cinns, YOU are not letting anyone down, and I'm certain your Dp wouldn't see it that way.
Yes he might be a bit down, and you might be as we'll, but your both going to love this baby so much, gender is nothing more then a roll of the dice I think, and both the mum and the dad play an equal part I think.
It's certainly no one fault, and no one is letting anyone down :)

Not long to go now, your on the home stretch, less then a week, just 5 sleeps (or 4 if you are already asleep lol)
Your tech seemed pretty confidant, surely someone that does that day in day out and would see 5-10 a day can't get it THAT wrong. Plus you got all boy guesses from here as well :)

I'm confidant you've got a little man in there :)

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Originally Posted by Lassie1982

I think we ALL feel that way during our pregnancy at some point, I know I certainly do!

I'm very excited about the scan. I honestly think that I will be ok with hearing boy, sad, but not overly disappointed. It's everyone else's comments that I'm worried about :(
35.5 hours to go!

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That is exactly what I am worried about, more so than anything, other peoples comments.. Thanks again to you and Cinss you both have made me feel so much better x

Cinss I couldnt say it better then Lassie hon, you wont be letting anyone down so please dont feel that way if you dont hear boy (although Im pretty sure you will hear blue!! ;) )

Lassie that is soooo close!! Exciting!!! I'll just live through other peoples scans till mine I think :) x

Okay, ladies.....2 hours and 20 minutes to go.....I'll be back on this afternoon probably sometime after 1:00 to update. Thanks for all the penis prayers! :) You ladies are great! I hardly slept last night and then woke up gagging to pieces from being so tired. Oh, mercy....I am so ready to get to 9:00.

Thinking of you 3girls!!! Sending penie vibes your way lol

You can have ALL my blue dust!! Lol