Woaw! Such a wonderfull news!! Congrats !! I hope to hear the same words soon :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by has2gentlemen
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Woaw! Such a wonderfull news!! Congrats !! I hope to hear the same words soon :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by has2gentlemen
How far are you now?
It's a difficult dessicion... I would say, follow your feelings... but on the other hand... the scan is already booked and it would take away a lot of doubts wich otherwhise probably will always stay there in those busy coming weeks!Quote:
Originally Posted by netti02
But don't forget to take care of yourself sweetie!
Congratulations samish & has2 :celebrate::celebrate:
Netti it is such a hard decision but I know if it was me I couldn't live with the doubt for the rest of the pregnancy. Go with your heart and do what is right for you xxx
Tomorrow I'm back for bloods as one lot from my booking in appt needs repeating - had to happen to me as I'm crap at giving blood :(
I'm driving myself crazy looking at nub shots and comparing to what I saw in my scan, just wish I had a decent nub shot image.
Congratulations samish & has2!!! Soo happy for you both!!
Netti if I were you I would find out - I think the not knowing is worse! You know what suits you and your family best tho! Xx
Thanks ladies. I won't exactly find out at the scan. I've made the decision if they can tell gender im going to ask if they can print some copies and write it down. DH won't be with me (next weeks schedules are just crazy) and as this is our last id like to do it together.
I also found out this week another friend is due in Feb. Whilst she hasn't had gender confirmed the ob who was doing the scan said he couldn't see anything between the legs. So with 2 friends due with girls after boys, i feel like hibernating for a while [emoji20]
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I know how you feel netti - my cousin got gender confirmed last week as a girl and my sister is having a girl. My cousin, sister and I are very close - we all live beside each other and our kids will all be going to the same school and be in the same class.
This has made me even more anxious about my gender scan - because I know even if I have a beautiful baby boy who I will adore, it will be hard to watch them have that mother/daughter relationship that I will never have.
I now just have to decide to ask about gender on Wednesday (14weeks 3 days) or wait until my private gender scan at 16 weeks. I have no patience but I’m scared they would get it wrong at 14 weeks 3 days.
Thats how i feel as well. Theres very few people i trust and talk to in real life and now 1 of them is having a girl, something ive longed for so long around the same time as me. Its just ugghh.Quote:
Originally Posted by JaneL
As you know i had my scan at 14+3. The pics i got were definitely questionable but the more ive been thinking, they must have seen something surely to say boy. So im all over the place atm. If your getting a gender scan at 16 weeks, id wait til then.
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Congrats Samish and has2!
I was hoping I hear girl but I found out yesterday it’s our BoY #3!
My sway didn’t work.
I just hope when we know the gender for definite it will get easier! I have w very strong feeling that I am having a boy ....and I’m worrried that even family & friends will be disappointed because they all want me to have a girl. I shouldn’t care what people think but it’s hard to ignore all the comments!
I really hope you get a more definite answer at your next scan netti. I can see why your confused with your scan pictures. I had my second sons gender confirmed at 14 weeks and the image was so clear, definitely no confusion!
I think I’ll wait to the 16 week scan - my husband can only go to that one. Just need to try and be patient next week x
Oh Imama - I’m so sorry you didn’t hear girl but congratulations on your baby boy! Big hugs xx