I don't think my body is going to let me get pregnant this cycle. I can tell that I'm definitely ovulating today but I haven't gotten a +opk. I would have had to have gotten up in the middle of the night (like 3am) to get a positive. I have a very short surge and typically catch it at night before bed. My cervix isn't even open though - it's firm and high, the same as it's been this whole cycle. So, I guess my body wanted an extra month to adjust after the miscarriage. It's ok though because if I would have gotten pregnant this month, I would have been due on May 13th, and that's too close to my other kids' birthdays. It also gives me longer to keep losing weight and be on the diet which is really important to me this time. :)