Congratulations to those with bfp and sorry to those that af arrived!
Xxforhubby I agree with burakoam, your not out yet, am so keeping everything thing crossed for you, so hope this is your month, x o
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Congratulations to those with bfp and sorry to those that af arrived!
Xxforhubby I agree with burakoam, your not out yet, am so keeping everything thing crossed for you, so hope this is your month, x o
I tempted vaginally, on xxforhubby recommendation and I got much more consistent temperatures that way! XQuote:
Originally Posted by Robin2014
XX I am sorry it wasn't positive YET but I am with the other ladies and I am still holding hope that AF stays away and your BFP is coming in the next day or two.
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Temping vaginally will give you the most accurate results. Your temp should be taken after at least a 3 hour stretch of sleeping and before leaving bed about the same time everyday to get good results. I was weirded out at first about temping vaginally but really it is do big deal; I have been doing it close to 2 years now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Robin2014
XXforhubby, I'm holding out hope for you!!
Thank you ladies! I know I've had a slow cooker before with my DS2 (BFP at 21 DPO), but I am not hopeful this time around.
I'm going to try Clomid 100mg from days 2-6 this next cycle. This will probably be my last cycle, since I'm not sure if my DH will make an appointment for a vasectomy or not.
I think we are both conflicted. I've lost all my baby weight from DS3, and I miss going to the gym, lifting weights, and doing my beachbody workouts. I think of being able to go back to work soon, do some things to our new house we would like to do, and take some pretty awesome vacations starting next summer.
But then there is this nagging feeling I have...my DH feels it too. He had a dream a few nights ago- he heard a pitter patter of feet that didn't sound familiar in the middle of the night that stopped at our bedroom door. It was cracked, and he could see a child standing, looking in. He said, "Come on in", and he patted the bed. The child didn't come. He got up, and a little girl with brown, curly hair like mine was standing there in a night gown. She asked, "Are you sure"? My DH picked her up and brought her to bed with us. He said it felt so real, but he isn't sure.
I think I'll give it another go, but I'm not sure after that. If my DH doesn't get a vasectomy in December, I don't think he will be able to until June with his work schedule. I'm also starting to think and believe that it probably won't happen for us. I can be happy with the way things are. My DS3 is definitely "my baby" and is super snuggly. It's a mixed bag of emotions thinking I'm actually done, but I'm mostly ok. I'm definitely becoming more and more ok with it. I wasn't even sad upon getting a BFN, but I wasn't happy or relieved either. Just, sigh...
[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji602], DS3[emoji577][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway in 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart
I know exactly what you mean, xxforhubby! DH and I have both decided that if I have another miscarriage, we are done trying and he'll get a vasectomy. It is so emotionally difficult for both of us when I have a miscarriage. As much as I want another baby, I just can't go on having miscarriages. DH feels the same way. He told me the other night that he wishes he could see into the future to know if it's worth it to keep trying.
At this point, I'm not really even swaying anymore. I'm just trying to get and then stay pregnant. Everything I'm doing is for health reasons, not necessarily to get a DD. We think about the future too and how in 8-10 years all of our kids will be moved out if we stop ttc now. It's definitely appealing. We'd like to spend some time being a couple, just the two of us. It is so difficult to decide whether to keep ttc or not. I also picture the face of my DD and that is the only thing that has kept me trying this long.
I hope you'll both be at peace with whatever you decide to do. :hug2:
Thank you so much! It is so hard to know what to do, isn't it? I think what keeps me going is down to 3 things: 1. I don't want to regret not having tried. 2. If we had 3 girls, we would try EVERYTHING for a boy for me. 3. Everything I've done for the past 8mo has led me here. The diet (mainly no snacking, and no red meat at this point) and the cardio (I'm beginning to not like it anymore).Quote:
Originally Posted by momamia4
I will say, if next cycle ends with a BFN, I'm so going back to grazing, starting T25, and starting my gym membership back up! With me being back to my pre-pregnancy weight (lowest ever!), it will be time to tone back up and put some muscle back on!!
[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji602], DS3[emoji577][emoji170]
[emoji166]One last pink sway in 2016[emoji166]
My Ovulation Chart
Hi everyone! I'm still around...we are doing attempts every 4 days this month, and other than that, not much of a sway. I'm just doing a mostly vegetarian diet, which has completely gone out the window the last couple of days because of Thanksgiving (it's today here in Canada). We had our first attempt at CD13, and we'll have our second attempt on CD17. I think I probably ovulated yesterday. I'm very thin now, and used to going for long periods without eating, so those things may help. I'm also coming off a cycle with an early miscarriage, which I understand may sway pink.
I've been spending lots of time with my one year old niece, who has recently moved in down the street, and it's been very healing for me to have an adorable little girl in my life. When I had my miscarriage recently, I discovered that I didn't really care about the sex of the baby as much as I previously thought. I'm trusting that things will work out as they should, and I feel much more at peace about everything.
Fingers crossed for you, XX and everyone waiting! :happy:
Moma and XX, you are both so awesome. I am glad you are both trying at least a few more months because I enjoy following your journeys and I am hoping we could all be in the same DD group as I really trust and respect you both.
XX I am going to do 100mg of clomid next cycle too (if no BFP this cycle).
Serenity, so glad you are still here. Happy thanksgiving! I would love if my nieces lived so close. I am glad you have her to help cheer you up.