Due Dec 2017 & Jan/Feb 2018

I had my first scan already and saw the heartbeat and a little ball at 6 and a half weeks but that was just through the public xray/ultrasound places for a dating scan because of having PCOS with 6 week cycles.
This next one will be the second scan but first one with my ob in his practice.
Pbn3- I'm really annoyed because I want to know and also if I'm disappointed that it's another girl, I'll have adjusted to it rather than just be in the birthing suite. I know people say you wouldn't be disappointed with a baby right there after birth but if it isn't your sway then you would feel some slight disappoint and I'd hate to feel that when I know I would.

Well a boy is pretty obvious especially at 13w if your happy to post it on here :) otherwise have you considered booking a gender scan and not telling dh? Or tell him and say he's welcome to stay team green but you're finding out - but will tell everyone else that you aren't finding out?

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I tried saying I'll find out and keep it quiet but he just thinks I'll slip up and then say 'he' or 'she'.

I started feeling a little nausea around 7 weeks and a day or two, but I really don't feel too sick.


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I tried saying I'll find out and keep it quiet but he just thinks I'll slip up and then say 'he' or 'she'.

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To be fair, most people choose to refer to their unborn baby as he or she and not "it" :p DH and I have always referred to this little bean as "he" and we don't know the gender :)

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I tried saying I'll find out and keep it quiet but he just thinks I'll slip up and then say 'he' or 'she'.

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You don't have to tell you know [emoji6]. I told my DH back when I first got my BFP that I was going to find out regardless if he wanted to or not. He said he didn't want me to book a private scan, and I told him I didn't need to. I would have the tech write it down and put it in an envelop that I would open later. That is if he was able to come to my scan. He has a busy job and can't always make my appointments. Where there is a will, there is a way [emoji6]! Needless to say, he caved and wanted to know when I got my NIPT results back, haha!

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I'm always jealous of the patience you team green ladies have. There is no way I could do it! Dh and I were talking about names and he's totally brushing off boy names and keeps picking girl names [emoji50] I'm a bit surprised he's doing this but maybe he has a gut feeling. He says I have 9months to pick out a boy name.
Sumbal I have a friend who has a friend who works for Exxon Mobil and they were working there. A couple of us girls went and visited and worked in an orphanage for a while. It was fun and a great experience to explore a different culture


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Well I won't be ringing my obs office today. I have woken up with no nausea and way less sore bbs. Will wait and see what happens by the end of this week and go from there...

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Would they give you a scan to try and find heartbeat? I have seriously not been nauseous but a couple times and my boobs never seem sore until the end of the day. I sure hope all of us keep these babies I love sharing this experience with you all!


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Pbn I understand how you feel. I haven't had nearly as much loss as you but I am so wary this time that every time I feel good, I question the viability of this pregnancy. I have been feeling good more than bad which is so far very different from my other pregnancies. So I POAS this morning just to put my mind at ease and saw my line was darker than the control line. I know it's not really an accurate assessment of how things are but made me feel a little better.
I'm thinking of you every day and hope for your peace and baby's health.


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