Sorry Angelpink Hugs your way!
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Sorry Angelpink Hugs your way!
aww darn angel I was so hoping I was wrong about the boy nub I saw on yours :( I hope he is healthy and congrats on your son.
I'm sorry Angel your sway didn't work. This little boy was certainly meant to be! We are here for you!
I'm so sorry angel! Definitely treat yourself to something nice and have fun buying him some new beautiful outfits. I'm sure your sweet son will steal your heart !
Thank ladies I doubt it about the shopping I went this afternoon hoping it would help I stood there trying to avoid the pink Isle of clothes and just stared at the boys stuff and it's all shit I've had it all before I just bust into tears and left I've honestly never cried so much as I have today my state even reduced my fella to tears as he could see how gutted I was its his first boy and even he was gutted feels like I'm being so selfish when people can't have kids but knowing my dream is gone is the most heart wrenching thing ever
Oh Angel I am so sorry :-( I hope in time you feel better better it's like going through the grieving process as like you say you feel like your dream has gone! But after that you will feel positive again. It's your hubby's first boy to so you will soon feel his excitement xxx and when he is born you will forget these feelings and be replaced with love. Big hugs xxx
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Angel, I'm aching for you. I'm so very sorry and just know that so many of us understand and we are here for you. Just don't feel badly for having these feelings and be kind to yourself. We all know you'll love your child no matter what and we also know the pain you're feeling. You're in my prayers to feel joy and love in this all.
Angel I'm so very sorry. I wish I had the right words to say but everyone before me has said everything. Time will help, it has to. Lots of love.
Im sorry it was so hard for shopping angelpink. Give yourself some more time to grieve and let it all out! Go punch a pillow, cry all your tears, then treat yourself to a day of your own and have a relaxing soak and some comfort food. No one expects you to bounce right back it takes time!
So sorry angel (but congrats too 💙) with ds3 I really broke my heart crying, and felt so bad for days, but I let it all out. But shopping, even if its online to avoid the other isles, will really help once you are ready. I bought gorgeous new bedding, a new pram, cozy blankets, and new clothes that i really loved etc etc. And did his nursery up, got a new sleigh cot ... Retail therapy really helped me bond and enjoy the rrst of the pregnancy and baby days, because i grieved while pg, his birth was all about him, not the fact he wasn't a girl. Do what you need to do to do and be kind to yourself. Most of us have been there and remember that hurt very much xx
Cough is killing me !
Do u know how to treat it?😢
By the way , what cream or oil do u use for stretch marks؟
Not good business woman :( I don't know what you could take for a cough. You might need to head to a pharmacy. I hope it goes soon. In regards to cream for stretch marks. I don't know if it will help stretch marks but I use pure coconut oil on my skin. You can't more natural :)
Hi business women, what type of cough so you have? If tickley you should try warm lemonade it just relieves it and stops the cough for a while. If chesty try making lemon/honey/ginger/cinnamon and leave it in the fridge put a teaspoon in hot water and drink it at least morning and night tastes good too!
I also use coconut oil with all mine and no stretch marks yet :-)
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pseudoephedrine and phenylephrine are usually the to avoid ingredients. After 12 weeks several are safe Robitussin DM is usually the go to along with cough drops just check with the doc or pharmacist first.
Alright ladies, I would like your help please. Hubby and I are having trouble with baby names. I do have a short list but he isn't a fan of any of them.
I use bio oil for stretch marks. Didn't get a single one with DS and so far so good this pregnanch
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I took Benadryl and Delsym when I had a cough about a month ago. I only took one or the other at night some of the time and it helped. I remember my abdominal muscle hurting from the coughing. I hope that you feel better soon!
Thnx ladies !
I dunno about the coconut oil , I hate how it smells lol , but I will try it !
Linz I heard about bio oil and how good it is , now I will use it for sure ! Thnx alot !
Jojoryan I will try this , I want natural things only , thnx alot
Boysway
About the names , Im having trouble with my DH also ,
Try to make another list , maybe this will help
Its never ending. I have my glucose tolerance test next week and I am fairly certain its going to come back that Ive got gestational again. We have a diabetic alert dog. She can smell it when its high. I wasnt feeling too good the other day I felt like I swallowed an entire bowl of sugar after a small handful of gummy bears. She got in my face and would not leave me alone and kept pawing at me which is her sign for go check your sugar.
When did everyone start feeling consistent movement?
I'm almost 18 weeks pregnant, and although I've felt movement starting about two weeks ago it's pretty inconsistent. I usually only feel him (I can't believe I'm saying HIM!!!!) at night, I get so worried during the day and have been on the verge of calling my Dr. but I don't want to be "that" person.
I'm so glad you've put this as I'm the same! I'm 17w 2d and have felt flutters since 15 ish weeks so thought I'd feel her much more by now. But like yourself it's only in the evening. I was wishing I'd bought a Doppler to hear the heartbeat but knew if I wasn't doing it right that would just scare me more. I looked up today when the moment becomes more consistent and its between 22-25 weeks. If you don't feel consistency after that you call your midwife. As I type this I've had about 5 little tiny thumps! :)Quote:
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Cany you arrange a testing sooner, sounds like you might be heading down that road of no sugar :( hope it's not tho!
With my first DS I would only feel him at night- I worked in the ER and would be constantly on my feet so I think the rocking induced his sleep during the day. Most women won't feel movement when they themselves are moving- it's when we sit quietly and wait for them to kick that we notice (or think we notice) they aren't moving enough! I wouldn't fret too much about it. I used to tap or lightly push my belly sometimes to "check" and he would punch back:)Quote:
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Ugee -- I'm back to back docs appointments and preschool meetings for me and DS otherwise I'd be in there sooner! Im trying to be conscious of what I eat as if I already had a positive test just to keep things level. Im getting the crashes big time which is no good. I ended up in bed at 8 last night after a day of nothing and I could have fallen asleep standing up!
With DS he was a 15 week that I could feel occasionally and he became consistently on a schedule at about 22. With DD now I didn't for sure feel her until around 18 and just these last few days 26-27 week do I now feel her on a consistent schedule where I could start kick counting if I wanted. Hiccups have started too which drive me bonkers because hers are like a small earthquake. She better reorganize her schedule though LOL DS was a sleeper with small awake periods. She is definitely a mover with many short sleep periods!
I didnt feel constant moving untill 20 weeks
I was super worried , now its getting stronger every week :)
Nahri , how interesting is this dog ! So great to have her
That dog sounds so cool!
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They can be trained to do it to act as service dogs to those who are diabetic but some will just naturally do it and you have to reinforce it. She was a natural talent that we reinforced. I was gestational with DS and could not figure out what her issue was and why she was getting in my face then I realized it was corresponding with high sugar readings after meals. So we rewarded her every time she did it and kept the training up over the years!
Managed to sneak in for my Glucose test tonight. No immedate results like at my old hospital so now I wait... I hate getting my finger stuck but better to have an immediate answer than no answer.
Good luck Nahri. I hope you avoid GDM this time around.
I'd Love to Hope so but I'm not too optimistic. When a hand full of gummy bears is enough to take you out it's a sign lol. I had a small ice cream bar and figured I was good all day no sugar no high carbs and I instantly felt like trash and 2 hours later the crash hit
Good luck Nahri , I hope u hear good news
Fx it's good news Nahri
Oh dear Nahri, that isn't a good sign :(
Good luck Nahri, even though it sounds like GD I am hoping its not :/
Bluebonnet how have you been feeling?? I am a few days shy of 20 wreks and my belly feels like it had a huge grouth spurt and is getting high starting to feel pretty big lol
Good luck with the test!
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Hi how's everyone today? I'm feeling huge today, can't put anything on without going "ugh" and taking it off. I did so well at loosing weight and loved feeling tiny in clothes. I was so hoping this time to be lean with a bump but that's not happening. The fact I'm always hungry isn't helping things. Anyone else get 'pregnancy face' also? It's where your cheekbones and any features just mold into one big moon face! ...well I always get it and this time round i happen to be lucky enough to have it now! Early! Anyway I've had my moan, if it wasn't down to all this I actually love being pregnant lol! ;)