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Hi dream and welcome Hun :) many ladies feel/ felt as you do. Although this is only my second baby I very much doubt that we will have another (money/ space/ time etc) so I too am in the 'wanting a daughter last chance saloon' :/ it's a pretty depressing place! I hope you have your girl on board. Have you decided yet if you will find out or not? We deffo will; I feel like I am holding my breath till that time.
I'm due the week after you and I had my 16 week MW appointment yesterday. All is well and she offered to try to find baby's hb on the Doppler. She got it straight away and it was lovely to hear that sound again :) then she suddenly says 'ohh I think it's a girl' NO! DO NOT TELL ME THAT! GAHHHH!
I know she meant well but seriously for someone going through GD owts are not helpful; I want proof. Every time I start feeling that I'm getting a grip on GD and the thought that this is a boy, a little comment like that just sends me straight down the rabbit hole again :(
Hope all you ladies are ok xx
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Hi everyone, is anyone super moody my hormones are soo crazy at the moment everything makes me cross especially dh i feel sorry for him but hate him at the same time soo hope this passes soon! My scan is next tue im soo hoping for a rubbish nub shot so i cant guess i would really like to stay team green for a little bit longer i know baby will be a boy but not ready just yet to confirm things!
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Poppy you have a bitchy friend right here. I am snapping at my husband and my dog constantly. They are both driving me up the wall and they arent doing anything different. Its terrible!!
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Hi girls
Thanks for your lovely messages. So good to know others have felt the same and I'm not a complete nutcase...
The feelings are getting easier as the days pass- party because I'm
Doing all I can to try to get excited about a new little boy entering our family- I've brought him lots of cute blue baby clothes ( figured why should he have twice handed clothes just because he is a boy..!) and party because I'm still holding a bit of hope and praying every night she got it wrong.
Hubby doesn't really understand ( he's from an all boy family so doesn't really see the problem)- I don't really think anyone understands though unless they have been through the same. My mum has been good- she had GD the other way way- had 4 girls but longed for a boy and he came as number 5! Funny how things work out.
Have those of you having girls had any different symptoms this time round?
CooCoo- good to hear you are staying green this time- will give you time to bond with baby no matter what colour. Will you not even try to nub guess though? x
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Hi wanting pink- will you find out with #4 or leave a surprise. You could end up with the perfect family; 2 boys and 2 girls :-)
Was the nub girlie with #3?
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I want to leave #4 a surprise but DH is like NO WAY. So we will find out with MaterniT21. I found out at about 12 weeks that we were having a girl when they called me with the MaterniT21 results.
2 boys and 2 girls really would be the perfect family... that is how I know this baby is probably going to be a boy. I would love a sister for my DD especially since all the kids in our neighborhood are DS1 and DS2 age. DH :mad: wants a boy. I told him if the baby is a boy then he is cleaning toilets in the house from now on. I am done cleaning pee off of toilets!! He also says he wants to name this baby. He is driving me crazy :hair:
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I'm hoping I don't see a nub as I know it will just get me obsessing and I was pretty sure he was a he from the nub last time and I don't want to see it! I just want to live in la la land til the end:) like regular people who don't even know about nubs lol!
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Hi everyone! I didn't see a thread for Dec babies, I am due Dec 8/9th. Just got a bfp last Thursday. I wanted to join a group. We were TTC pink! :)
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Congrats on you BFP b'smommy and hope you have a little girl!!
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Anyone heard anything from kellbell? A little worried about her:(
