Frakkin' February 2WW

I've just been and bought 3 more tests (this is costing me a fortune lol!) I'm keep the CB digital one for Wednesday but I have some Superdrug Cheapies to test with today il post some pics . I really hope I am although I've had AF cramps the last few days !

Wantanother2017 that's a bfp !! Congratulations !! Xxx


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Wantanother2017 when is ur af due?
I'm normally everyday 28 days but this cycle has thrown me with my late O so just decided to test when I got two cd31 & 32(today) and have a faint line
I'll keep testing and hope the lines get darker !


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Huge congrats Butterfly and Wantanother!

Woohoo!



[emoji170][emoji1379]DS1, [emoji577]DS2, & [emoji602]DS3[emoji170]
[emoji166]EDD 9/30/2017 [emoji1317]for pink[emoji166]
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My Ovulation Chart

The line seems more darker here ?
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Yes, absolutely!! Ladies that's amazing, what a great start....


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AF is due in 5 days


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Originally Posted by MiaMelb

Thank you for your honesy account Burakoam, I can only imagine the rollercoaster of emotions over those weeks. It's so hard when we try desperately to control things only to be reminded that some things and some people are just out of our control. I am very much struggling to definatively decide about baby #3 for fear it will be another girl. I'm not sure why the idea scares me given that I absolutely adore the two I already have. I think maybe it's other people's opinions. I think in some ways I'm concerned that others will perceive our having a third as meaning our girls aren't enough. It's one thing for us to want to add a boy to our family, it's another thing entirely for others to think we're in some ways disappointed in our girls. What has been your experience in having DD3 and now pregnant with DD4?

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For me it has been a rollercoaster but let me reassure you with this. I had the same thoughts, same fears that you did. They were compounded by the fact that with DD3 my ex who actually left me because i couldnt give him a son apparently according to him he was on his second baby with his new wife...and he was having his first son. I called bullshit to everyone and everything around me, but i was already so in love with DD3 and i had wanted her so bad girl or boy though i wanted so badly to give my husband a son just to 'prove' i could i guess..so i got over it pretty fast. With DD4 however i went all out with the sway (only thing i feel i could have done more of myself was the weight lifting) and it was a much harder pill to swallow when i got the gender results back early on. But see i obviously have my own mental health issues relating to gender disappointment...its not that my girls arent amazing, and i have found that from this site i have alot of peoples dream family even..its all in MY head. I had to go back into therapy this pregnancy and on an anti depressant to survive my feelings but now that things have 'normalized' i dont care anymore about what my ex has or my friends or anyone for that matter. I have 4 daughters, each awesome in their own way.

It was a long road but i do believe if you want another baby bad enough, even with a strong preference for a boy, if it was another girl, you would eventually find a way to cope with your feelings. Everyone has a different healing time with gender disappointment so i dont know if it would be as speedy as my own recovery (which i admit is still in progress just enough..i do still have my really bad days)

Age caps between our babies are different so i dont know about 2-2-2....However i have VERY high hopes that my two youngest will be super close being 18 months apart..my brothers are 18 months apart and have been best friends their entire lives and always did everything together (even the really bad stuff LOL..my poor parents) so i want to say even with 3 girls your babies would all grow up happy and healthy and just fine :) Those mama bear instincts will eventually overpower your feelings of judgement and sadness at what others may think and you will be able to stare them directly in the eyes and say "thanks for your opinion but all 3 of my kids are great just as they are, and us having 3 or even 4 kids does not mean that any of the others werent 'enough"

Wantanother AND butterfly..you are both DEFINITELY pregnant at this point. CONGRATULATIONS!

Finally got a +opk today at 11 am (8am was almost +)....we last bd yesterday afternoon.

Dh coming down with something so probably wont be anymore bd.

I could have sworn I was Oing yesterday but now all of my o pain is gone, cp high, never had any ew this cycle just watery and today none as well.

Hi ladies! Is this last test below a positive, or not quite yet? This was at 11:30am today.

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