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Sending you a huge hug Jark, I'm so sorry. I know how sad you are feeling but believe me it does get better, the first 48 hours for me were horrible. I just wanted to cry, but I am getting my head around it, like you I know having a 4th wouldn't be a good idea as I don't want 4 children and it would only be to have a daughter.
I was so sure the gender mix would start changing on our group, I am shocked.
We're all here for you Jark. xxxxxxxxx
I feel the same way about number 4 if this is a boy. It would be ht or nothing. And I don't even want 4 kids as it is anyway..
Mrs. P, it's okay. It can be easy to lose positivity in that situation, I know I would feel the exact same. So I understand your answer, it makes sense and I see where you are coming from. It is always easier to be positive when you are not "locked" in a position. I really do hope your baby girl is in there right now. I want that so badly for you.
The more I read the more pissed off I get. I can't understand this opposite trend. I do believe we were all brought together for a reason, but this shouldn't be why. I'm really sorry Jark. I didn't know you lost your mom. And I apogize if I sound like a jerk, but this just makes no sense. I don't even think Atomic could say something that would make me understand this.
If spinning doesn't hear girl I think I'm going to light my computer on fire!!!
I do agree that the first 48 hours are terrible, but reading the first posts when someone hears the opposite is devastating. I almost go through it all over again because I know how you feel. All I can say is I'm here for each and every one of you. Trying to talk to someone irl seems impossible.
I agree with you Rosie. I wish we all lived closer to eachother. We'd make one hell of a support group.
I'm sorry.
I hope this wasn't for me...lol. You're great. I just can't believe our trend.Quote:
Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
MrsP I felt exactly the same as you do now. That my life was totally over and the slight hope of that dream was gone all together! As it turns out for me it was :( I'm slowly coming to terms with the idea of 4 boys. Also have really considered number 5!!!! And I know it's only cause I want my girl!
I do love and adore this little man in my tummy now and can't wait to meet him. I just hope and pray you have that baby girl in there fx for you xx
Jark I'm gutted for you. Life is so unfair sometimes give your self sometime to grieve it does get easier (sorry, doesn't stop hurting) but you will truly love this little one with all your heart I promise you.
Sending big big hugs xx
3m I totally agree with what you said. I get so upset when I hear opposites on here it breaks my heart every time. xx
I would love to watch a computer burn...lol Just don't smell it Three...toxic chemicals!
I hope it doesn't come to that. She better hear girl!!! I pray for her all the time. Love you spinning!!