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Jark my hubby is the same, he gets quite cross with me about it so I just don't say anything to him anymore. GD sucks and I think unless you have been through it you just don't get it.
Remember that your mum is looking down on you keeping an eye out for you, she'll always be with you in your heart regardless of the gender of this baby.
I got really upset for a while because before my scan I had been praying hard to my Dad that if he could see me and help that please may he send me a little girl this time to complete our family. Of course when I heard boy I felt like that meant he had truly gone. Totally crazy really.
I try and remember that life only throws at us what we can deal with, no matter how hard or impossible it seems. It is extra hard at the moment because we had been daring to dream about having a little girl, and without our new little man in our arms we forget how precious he will be. As the others have said maybe life has big plans for all our gorgeous boys, and as you know when you look at your sons you wouldn't swap them for anything.
Give yourself time, it will get easier I promise. I found it helped to think that although 4 children wasn't something I had ever wanted to have that I shouldn't rule it out.
Big hugs xxxxxxx
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Oh jark big big hugs to you. I promise you the pain and sadness will ease. That little man of yours was truly meant to be with you, maybe your mum sent him to you for a reason that you don't know yet.
Let it all out sweetie it'll make you feel better xx
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Jark I totally understand. My ds1 really wants a girl and especially after last time he wants one even more, I know I will also feel like I'm letting him down. And my mil. And fil etc. I'm glad you can come express yourself here and i hope you know that we understand. I'm sorry you are so sad :( I just hope when you hold your little guy you feel some peace with it
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:( I'm sorry, Jark. I hope it gets easier with time and you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. You will no doubt love him to pieces when he's born.
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The past two evenings/nights I've been feeling queasy again. Bleh. I don't think I've been eating enough during the day, probably...
I weighed myself for the first time since I got pregnant and I am SHOCKED how much weight I've gained. :( Probably 15lbs at least... what the hell...
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Oh jark I'm so sorry your finding things hard right now :( your little man obviously choose your family for a good reason and I'm sure he will be an amazing addition and your boys will love him so much and so will u hunni! Your not letting anyone down at all!
I'm sorry so many of you havent heard the news you wanted :( I hate GD......so wish I had a magic wand! Xxxx
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Just reading through the posts on the last few pages and I really wish there was something I could say to help those who are so upset. I am so sorry some of you are having to deal with such strong GD, I really wish everyone could have heard what they wanted to at their scans. I am praying that the disappointment will ease as time goes on for those suffering though and am sorry if I am saying the wrong thing but just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you all.
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I was thinking about having 3 boys and how it scares me bc ds1 and Ds2 fight a lot sometimes and ds1 one says he doesn't like him and wants a baby girl this time.. Anyway I wonder if it is boy #3 if ds1 will be close with him. Dh Is the oldest and extremely close to his youngest brother , not so much to the middle one.
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My two older brothers still don't like each other to this day... however, the two older brothers like the younger/my younger brother (I have 3 brothers! :cool:) In our age ranges... they go 41, 37, 27 (me), and 25.
