Stupendous September 2ww

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Originally Posted by Babybeaublue

Oh onelastsway maybe he will change his mind. Could he not try even until the end of the year? A few more months won't cost him much

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To be fair he was never sure about a third. He went along with it for me and he's given it a year. He feels it is a sign as we got pregnant straight away with the two boys. He is a lot older than me and doesn't want to be any older with a newborn. Our eldest son is very high need and our second isn't exactly a walk in the park, he feels we have enough to cope with, worries about the money...he has good reasons and in many ways it isn't the sensible choice but can't help the heartache. I really thought this was our month and it's just very hard to cope with right now, but I'm sure it'll get easier in time x

Big hugs onelastsway. Will he insist on using protection now? If he doesn't mention it then maybe you can try NTNP for awhile?

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Originally Posted by Pbn3

Big hugs onelastsway. Will he insist on using protection now? If he doesn't mention it then maybe you can try NTNP for awhile?

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I think he'll be pretty careful! Will talk it over with him more but don't want to pressure him into something he doesn't want. We need to be in this together. Just wish this could be the month so it took it out of our hands I suppose instead of all this back and forth discussion. Thanks for the support ladies x

Sorry onelastsway - that's hard :( Maybe you can talk with him again about it after a little while & maybe he'll at least agree to NTNP at some point.

How are you ABC?

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Originally Posted by ABC.2606

I'm sorry you're not feeling well, BBB. Hope you feel better soon.

Onelastsway, hoping you still have a shot at this cycle! Try a FRER if you can!

I'm feeling completely full of anxiety today. DH is out of town again for work so I'm tired with all the single parenting duties. I'm a little anxious with these tests I'm doing & what will come from them. And I just in general feel discouraged with swaying - like there's just no way I'll ever get my DD. I know that's just me being negative but there have been many great sways on here that have resulted in opposites and I just feel like I'm destined for that too. Ugh. I think mainly I'm just tired!!

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I am feeling this way too ABC. It seems like I am constantly reading about things that could possibly sway boy and I seem to fit every one of them - healthy, varied diet with lots of protein (although I've changed this over the last 2 months), heavy periods, low progesterone, hypothyroid, obsessive control-freak personality, naturally thin without a lot of weight to lose, etc etc etc. Part of me wonders if I'm just wasting my time with all of this and I'm just destined for only boys. I'm really thinking we're out this month anyways because I used Replens too close to our attempt. I'll probably start testing Monday or Tuesday.

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Originally Posted by YayBaby678

I am feeling this way too ABC. It seems like I am constantly reading about things that could possibly sway boy and I seem to fit every one of them - healthy, varied diet with lots of protein (although I've changed this over the last 2 months), heavy periods, low progesterone, hypothyroid, obsessive control-freak personality, naturally thin without a lot of weight to lose, etc etc etc. Part of me wonders if I'm just wasting my time with all of this and I'm just destined for only boys. I'm really thinking we're out this month anyways because I used Replens too close to our attempt. I'll probably start testing Monday or Tuesday.

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Hang in there! The 2WW and TTCing really mess with your head! You absolutely can have a girl! Trust me- if I can, anyone can! I mean that! Ugh. I worried the whole time that my anxiety for being places on time and managing my boys’ behavior would wreck my sway. It didn’t. Stick to the diet’s limits, cardio if you can, one attempt in some fashion, coffee, and alcohol. Stay strong- you can do this!!


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Ugh, I think I've been scammed. Paid for more HCg, no confirmation, no order number, no contact details on site. The site I used last time was out of stock. Just one more thing to balls everything up. I asked Dh if we should just call it a day..

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Originally Posted by XXforhubby

Hang in there! The 2WW and TTCing really mess with your head! You absolutely can have a girl! Trust me- if I can, anyone can! I mean that! Ugh. I worried the whole time that my anxiety for being places on time and managing my boys’ behavior would wreck my sway. It didn’t. Stick to the diet’s limits, cardio if you can, one attempt in some fashion, coffee, and alcohol. Stay strong- you can do this!!


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Thank you XX and congrats on your girl! The problem is I'm already pretty skinny and I can't afford to lose much more weight so the diet limits would put me way underweight. I'm really just trying to avoid breakfast, snacking, and meat for the most part and not obsess over tracking food. Because of my weight I don't want to add in vigorous exercise and really just don't know where the heck I'd find the time. So hopefully the small changes I've been making will be enough. We will stick with one attempt, coffee, and alcohol as well. And DH has been wearing briefs, avoiding red meat, and taking hot showers before BD.

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Originally Posted by YayBaby678

Thank you XX and congrats on your girl! The problem is I'm already pretty skinny and I can't afford to lose much more weight so the diet limits would put me way underweight. I'm really just trying to avoid breakfast, snacking, and meat for the most part and not obsess over tracking food. Because of my weight I don't want to add in vigorous exercise and really just don't know where the heck I'd find the time. So hopefully the small changes I've been making will be enough. We will stick with one attempt, coffee, and alcohol as well. And DH has been wearing briefs, avoiding red meat, and taking hot showers before BD.

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That sounds fantastic! I think that is a fab sway and definitely one that you can stick to. If you keep getting BFNs, have your DH stop taking hot showers before BDng. Otherwise, I think your sway looks great. Definitely do what you won’t obsess over! I was such a hot mess with my previous sway obsessing over this and that [emoji849].

Hang in there! This is tough, and no one can give you answers or guarantees, which makes it even harder. Know we are all here for you, and you can do this!

(((Hugs)))


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