My sis-in-law that has caused so much drama in my life that I have to block her from texting me, contacted my husband via text Thurs morning and said she wanted to do something VERY special for me but needs his help to do it. She wants to make an appt for a 15 weeks gender reveal scan at Fetal Fotos and pay for the session as well and afterwards there would be a pink and blue present waiting for me for whatever gender of baby I am carrying. My guess is I leave behind the other present and that would be her sneaky way of finding out what it is..and then she would spread the news against my will or just have the satisfaction of finding out first when I want absolutely nobody to know before I'm ready to tell. It's SAD..I wish I could trust her and let her pay for an amazing amazing gift. But I've trusted her too many times when I've taken her back as a friend and soon after that I am just stabbed in the back. I was even half tempted until I really thought about it. This is HUGE to me. I am planning on a gender party if we see PINK.. this is my last baby..and I am SO excited and can't stop fantasizing about it! Even just a small reveal to my mom I am SO looking forward to! I can't let there be a chance of her ruining that. I seem to be the only one that cares about finding out before 20 weeks..and it's sad. My mom doesn't care, my DH doesn't care. I have a little birthday money I've been saving so MAYBE I can convince DH to pay for some of it and go with to get a small scan and a few pics..it's better than nothing.
I also told my mom and my mom said that I don't want to be indebted to her in any way, and she just has a feeling that she is up to something.
