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I've already googled "hcg number indicative of gender" and I need to stop. I'm such a control freak... I guess I didn't realize how out of my control this whole thing really is. Lol. I'm so scared of gender disappointment. I don't want to feel that way.
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What is done is done, u have done what u can. If it doesn't happen then it just wasn't meant to be. I have basically accepted that this is a boy. That way if this baby IS a boy the tests will confirm what I already believe to be true. If this baby is a girl then I will get a wonderful surprise. I figure it's better to make peace with it now than to be disappointed later.Quote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
🙏 for a healthy 🌈 🚼
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I'm scared too :-/Quote:
Originally Posted by Laurenk1424
Are you stopping at 2? For me this is my definite last shot. There is no way we are having 5 kids! Haha.
I'm sure you've heard it before but raising brothers is truly great. I love it so much. Just would be nice to have just one daughter :-(
Are you going to find out by blood test?
If we have a girl this would most likely be our last. If we get a boy we might try once more but then I feel like I would be so stressed trying to sway. I don't know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kmomofthree
I haven't even picked a midwife yet so I'm not sure if I will see by blood test or not. Most likely no.
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It's a boy. I'm really disappointed. I did everything I could to sway girl but obviously we only make boys. I know I will love him as much as my other boys but the thought of never having a daughter is just making me so sad right now. This is absolutely our last child so no more chances for a girl.
I will probably take some time off here but I wish you good luck ladies!
Sorry you didnt hear girl 2xblue. Thinking of you and sending you hugs. I guarantee you will feel better after having some time to process it all. Xxx
Mum to 5 special princes
I'm sorry. :(
I'm so sorry to hear that. I know you know you will love him and are happy he's healthy. It's definitely okay to feel what you do and normal. I was very depressed with my second dd and still feel sad about not getting a boy. I hope your men take good care of you and let you have some me time.Quote:
Originally Posted by 2xblue
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Everything she said^^Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
Hugs mama
Big hugs 2xblue. I can only imagine how you feel but I know it takes time to mourn the loss of the daughter you'll never have. That's a lot to process. Take your time and let yourself be sad a bit. Once you can grieve you can fully appreciate and enjoy your sweet new boy.
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