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Wow!! 3 girl sounds like a BFP June has been good so far :)
Blessed mama and seebee hope you guys get your BFPs really soon, when will you both test?
Daisymoooo I missed you!! Please stay and chat!!! Sorry you are feeling sick but good you are combating it with food(are you enjoying being off LE? Please tell me you are!!) any feelings on gender? Are you finding out? Hope its your wee girl!!!
Stephk how far off is your next attempt?
Welcome littlegirlblues! We don't have the money for HT plus my DH does not even know I am swaying so don't think he would be up for HT !! Totally respect your decision though and hope you get your desired outcome!
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Littlegirlblues.... I know exactly how you feel. We were on the verge of going high tec. I'd been in touch with the clinics and convinced my dh that this was the way forward. But time was passing so fast and I need to be pregnant before going back to work in August. We discussed swaying and he was 110% infavour of doing this. He didn't like the fact high tec was "unnatural" and the cost was obviously a major factor. I read something online about mothers of boys and for the first ever I felt like if I end up with all boys I'll be ok. My theory is... we have both been strict with the LE diet and hope this is enough to sway, if we end up with all boys then this will be the last one and at least I will have lost weight in the meantime! if it is another boy then I will join a forum for boy mothers to gain some support from the only people who understand.
Currently D5PO...fingers crossed.
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kitkat, we didnt manage it last night (he was too busy watching footy) so will have to be tonight. Its only CD9 so not vital at the moment! Going to start OPK testing today.
Oh yes and just to add my DH would never want to do HT, he is tight (with cash!) and would see it as unnatural too. He sees swaying as a little unnatural but he is going along with it.
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Good luck little girlblues . I hope u get ur girl that way.
So im 12dpo and af is going to show any minute I can feel it. Feeling so discouraged at the moment. 3 months ttc and still not pregnant I dont get it :(
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Swaying and desire is a hard thing to deal with.
When I was prego with DS1 I wanted him to be a boy, but the pee gender test said girl and I almost lost it. When the gender scan said boy I went shopping.
DH and I talked about only having 2 kids so we both wanted the pigeon pair. With DS2 I wanted a girl to complete our family but we had gotten preg before I could do any planning. My IUD fell out a month before he was conceived, my mothers day weekend baby. The weekend he was conceived we ate a lot of food buffets and cheesecake factory.
I planned and swayed for 4mths on diet before trying for 11 cycles for #3 to be a girl. I gave up everything after Christmas and got preg fast so I did sort of expect a boy. I do love him a lot and I did know the risk of having another boy and was open to it. Growing up I always wanted a lot of boys and only 1 girl.
Now that I am getting older and do not want to continue having kids for the rest of my fertility years I am down to my last time. DH really wants a girl for himself and his mom (explained to my older post). I really just want to give him a girl so we can have the chance to raise a daughter. I am still open to another boy and I already have a boys name picked and waiting. I am not going to decided on a girls name, unless they hand me a girl in the delivery room. So far I have picked 3 girls names one from when ds1 was a few month old, for (ds2) and (ds3) my DH's grandma passed a month before ds3 was born and I liked her middle name.
When I told DH that we could try one more time it was decided only one more time. I am young compared to some ladies here (33) but I do not want to get preg passed 35. I am going to continue trying every other month until I am 35 if nothing happens then I am getting my tubes tied, cut, burned, and removed!
With all this in mind I have to open to the chance of another boy. But like the rest of you we are not here to get preg if we are not open to the chance we will get "another" of the same. Even if it means broken hearts.
I just hope swaying works so everyone can have their dream come true!
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Amen purple! A baby is a blessing no matter what the gender. I hope we all get our girls but if not atleast well have a beautiful new baby to love on.
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Well, nothing on the FRER today. Yesterday must have been a false alarm. Just waiting for AF to come now.
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What a bummer 3. Could have been a chemical. Hopefully it will still turn out for you!
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Blessed I'm right there with you. I was weak and tested this morning. Still a BFN :( I don't know what's going on with my body.
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12dpo today and waiting for AF. She is due tomorrow and I'm dreading it! So I know how u girls are feeling! When are you all testing again?? I've had some more spotting today so I really feel that I'm out but I'm excited to hear about you ladies!