Awesome April 2ww & TTC thread [emoji120]

Well ladies, DH and I screwed up (literally...). We BD-d last night unprotected - totally unplanned - a combination of my having some wine and feeling depressed over everything again and DH really wanting to DTD (and he gave me a long massage beforehand - LOL, Pbn just like what happened to you!). This was totally NOT planned - I do not want to get pregnant this cycle and now I'm completely terrified that we will. I've been taking wondfo opks the past few days only b/c I wanted to know what's going on w/ my cycle and when I ovulate, and up through this afternoon they are still negative, but I'm terrified I'm going to O in the next couple of days giving us a very good shot at getting pregnant (I'm super fertile - usually get pregnant on the first try and have gotten pregnant w/1 attempt more than once now). I'm also terrified b/c DH abstained for 7 days (also very unintentional) and with our m/c history and him turning 35 this summer I'm SO worried if we do get pregnant baby will not be healthy and/or we'll just be headed for another m/c. I had a good cry this afternoon and DH is trying to calm me down. I just totally lost my head last night for a few minutes - which I never do when it comes to this! Our baby-making has always been so careful and planned out. Been praying throughout the day and trying to leave it all up to God but I'm so upset with myself. DH keeps telling me if it happens and baby sticks then it's meant to be.

Ugh. Anyways... So I may be joining you guys in the tww in a few days from now.. But not happily :'(

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Go to "Settings" at the top right of Gender Dreaming and then under "My Settings" on the left side, click "Edit Signature"

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Originally Posted by ABC.2606

Well ladies, DH and I screwed up (literally...). We BD-d last night unprotected - totally unplanned - a combination of my having some wine and feeling depressed over everything again and DH really wanting to DTD (and he gave me a long massage beforehand - LOL, Pbn just like what happened to you!). This was totally NOT planned - I do not want to get pregnant this cycle and now I'm completely terrified that we will. I've been taking wondfo opks the past few days only b/c I wanted to know what's going on w/ my cycle and when I ovulate, and up through this afternoon they are still negative, but I'm terrified I'm going to O in the next couple of days giving us a very good shot at getting pregnant (I'm super fertile - usually get pregnant on the first try and have gotten pregnant w/1 attempt more than once now). I'm also terrified b/c DH abstained for 7 days (also very unintentional) and with our m/c history and him turning 35 this summer I'm SO worried if we do get pregnant baby will not be healthy and/or we'll just be headed for another m/c. I had a good cry this afternoon and DH is trying to calm me down. I just totally lost my head last night for a few minutes - which I never do when it comes to this! Our baby-making has always been so careful and planned out. Been praying throughout the day and trying to leave it all up to God but I'm so upset with myself. DH keeps telling me if it happens and baby sticks then it's meant to be.

Ugh. Anyways... So I may be joining you guys in the tww in a few days from now.. But not happily :'(

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ABC sorry to hear you're feeling so stressed. I don't know if it's reassuring to hear but it sounds like your chances of pregnancy are still pretty low. I will be thinking of you and hoping you get more negative opks to ease your mind.

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Gafan yes I'd stop using opks if they've faded out and you're doing e4d. Ideally we'll see a spike in temp tomorrow.

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

Abc didn't know about the massage part [emoji50] how spookily eerily similar to how I got pregnant [emoji33] how negative was your opk?

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

Hgmama I'm not 100% sure but I think it took about 3 or 4 weeks for my levels to drop right back down. I recall having three blood tests (weekly) and the last was an 8? So it would've dropped to below 5 a few days after I imagine.

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

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Abc didn't know about the massage part [emoji50] how spookily eerily similar to how I got pregnant [emoji33] how negative was your opk?

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

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I know, I can't believe I forgot to tell you that part! He was all about giving me a massage LOL!

Here's this afternoon's OPK

Attachment 39310

Hmmm that actually may have a chance of being pos tomorrow but then you wouldn't ovulate until Monday or Tuesday. Best to wait and see how tomorrows opk looks. No use speculating and worrying about something that may not happen.

DS 2012 [emoji170] DS 2014 [emoji170]
After 3 losses had DD 2018 [emoji178]

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I know, I can't believe I forgot to tell you that part! He was all about giving me a massage LOL!

Here's this afternoon's OPK

Attachment 39310

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I’d like to think that if it happens it really is meant to be ABC. I’ll hope for you that what you want will be. Hugs. Clearly it was a good massage [emoji6]


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Hey ABC hope things go your way but if u do get preg its meant to be! These things happen for a reason. Dont kick yourself over itz
My hubby is 35 and we did unintentional abstain of 7 days as he was ill and then our positive opk came, so did out attempt which made me preg. It is a worry that abstain causes baby issues esp with my history but im praying all is well. We have to leave things down to the One Above /fate and watch what happens.