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MOB I can only begin to imagine how you feel like it will never happen for you because you've already got four boys and just thinking about having a girl will jinx your next pregnancy before it has even begun. Just want you to know you are not the only one that feels this way. Every day I analyse and think I'm not worthy of having a daughter. That just the mere option entering my mind means it won't come to fruition. All I can say is I'm so glad we have got each other through this journey and we are open and honest enough to admit we are willing to try and sway the odds to get our desired gender.
Just keep your chin up and think positive! Next DC whether boy or girl will be just as loved and cherished as your boys xxx
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Thanks, I do analyse everything. If I was better at this, or better at that, maybe I'd have been given a girl. Did I do something wrong? Is there some higher being (God or whatever you believe in) that can see that I'd be a really bad girl mum and that's why I haven't got one.
I know it's silly and that isn't how it works but that's certainly how it feels.
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Hi just checking in. Sorry you are feeling so low mob. I feel the same too, about maybe not being 'right' for a boy mum. I have been having 24hr nausea, which gets worse as the day goes on. I have actually been heaving while in the shower!!
Got an early scan booked for Tues and am a bit scared tbh after last time.
Hope you feel better soon x
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Aww good to hear from you. Good luck for your scan. Feeling more positive again at the moment.
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How did your scan go BBB?
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Oh and I stupidly thought wouldn't it be a great idea to forget about all the charting stuff for a month and just relax. I did very well, I only checked cp a couple of times and was aware of bloating and O pains. Now I could be anywhere between 4 and 7 dpo and going crazy not knowing how long I've got till af or testing lol
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Hi mob
I saw a little heartbeat!!!! Had to shed a tear of pure relief!
Still feeling really sick and have been in bed at 9 pm each night so haven't been on here much. I have never known it take so much effort to even have a shower let alone go shopping..
Maybe it's better you dont know when to test?? I know you wanted to check your lp was getting longer but sometimes we can go into every little detail too much. My lp was always 10 days, think I got to 11 before a couple of times.
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Uk ladies
So happy for you. That's fantastic news.
I'm sure I'll get 10 days this month, I'm a crazy early tester so it's probably best I don't know. I'm trying to go by the latest possible O date, then if I get to 9/10dpo from that date I will test.
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Hi ladies. Congrats bbb. Mob, hoping this is your month! Xx
