It is so nice if you can get to a point where you'll be happy with either sex. Think I'm slowly getting there which is nice. Doesn't mean giving up on swaying though if you want to. I'd do what you can of the suppliments and HE diet as that won't impact him particularly, my DP definitely wouldn't complain about having more red meat. The BD pattern can be harder to 'hide' if you don't want to be seen to be trying to hard, guess it depends how different it is from your norm. GL