Hi dm, firstly, you're doing really well!!!! Some of us are not taking cal and mag (I'm not) as I'm going for low everything but quite a few are as it is a big part of a traditional sway, I can't remember the amount but I'm sure others will chime in. There was another thread about fat in which atomic basically said keep it low, that if you had reduced oil and butter and were eating the low everything diet then your fat should be fine. Protein should be 40, 50max. Those ttc girls need a bit more folic acid than in a normal pregnancy supp as we're not getting it in our diet, I'm taking 800. I think if you decide to take cal/mag you might as well get dh to as well.