I was also super annoyed at DH for persuading me to try one more time naturally before going HT. The result was DS3, so it took me a long time to get over our failed natural attempt. I mean I'm in my late 30's and my fertility won't last forever, so by the time we would do HT after DS3 I would be 38, instead of 35 which is what I wanted - big difference in the world of IVF.
2boys, all I can recommend is that you find out at a time of day that you are alone/with DH, but not have children running around needing attention etc. And not at work! So that narrows it down to certain times of the day and week I guess. You need time to cry in peace if it's a boy, without any distractions or being somewhere where you can't cry. GL deciding when to find out.
:fingers: