I'm also lactose intolerant, can you not do yogurt and cheese?? I got my first two with milk, then by the time I conceived my 3rd I was LI but I often ate 4 oz of cheese for breakfast (I was watching my weight) and then also would have either full fat yogurt and blueberries or a bowl of cereal with a smallish amount of full fat milk (I can handle teeny amonts of it) or yogurt - I'd often have granola mixed with yogurt.
I have an older but still informative essay here on milk replacers.
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...Pink-and-Blue=